Originally posted by gunner77:
then good lormy friend also parent seperated but he live wif his father
if i never ask him, i donno his parents are seperated.
he is like so cheerful and happy most of the time
well.. this is nothing to be upset abt mah. i think because i young that time then did not remember much abt it.
Originally posted by rlsh07:no leh. she really think so. i dun knoe wat to do le everytime just let her nag lo. but i think that she can trust mi enough to tell mi things so i very happy also
ur mommy lack of security. It is better for u not to contact your father so that your mom will feel more comfortable and won't be scared that you will leave her.
Originally posted by rlsh07:well.. this is nothing to be upset abt mah. i think because i young that time then did not remember much abt it.
some kids when parents seperated, they turn to the bad path and become like gangster like tat
Originally posted by bambina:ur mommy lack of security. It is better for u not to contact your father so that your mom will feel more comfortable and won't be scared that you will leave her.
i did not contact him that much le but then i guess afterall he is my dad so i will still try to visit him i guess. but i do agree that he has done a of very wrong things to hurt my mum
Originally posted by gunner77:
some kids when parents seperated, they turn to the bad path and become like gangster like tat
actually i think depends on the kid ba. i guess for me it's more easy going ba. i think i'm better off with my mum because it's been hard on her. her two children is not very healthy in a sense. my dad n i are just friends only. but my mum is really my mum.
Originally posted by rlsh07:actually i think depends on the kid ba. i guess for me it's more easy going ba. i think i'm better off with my mum because it's been hard on her. her two children is not very healthy in a sense. my dad n i are just friends only. but my mum is really my mum.
ur mum very noble ![]()
can raise 2 kids on ur own
Originally posted by rlsh07:i did not contact him that much le but then i guess afterall he is my dad so i will still try to visit him i guess. but i do agree that he has done a of very wrong things to hurt my mum
I'm not as generous like you. I won't be bother to visit him and I hate him to let me born in this world and have to face this kind of family background.
Originally posted by gunner77:
ur mum very noblecan raise 2 kids on ur own
yeah lo. she have to be everything mah.
Originally posted by bambina:I'm not as generous like you. I won't be bother to visit him and I hate him to let me born in this world and have to face this kind of family background.
wat kind of family background? u mean single parent?
actually in the past i do hate him just like my mum did but i keep everything to myself so no one knoes. but i guess eventually i think that it's no point carrying this hatred, will just make unhappy.
Originally posted by rlsh07:yeah lo. she have to be everything mah.
ur mum still working now?
Originally posted by gunner77:
ur mum still working now?
wrking part time now. she is a KJ in those community centre karaoke
Originally posted by rlsh07:wrking part time now. she is a KJ in those community centre karaoke
wat is KJ?
Originally posted by rlsh07:wat kind of family background? u mean single parent?
actually in the past i do hate him just like my mum did but i keep everything to myself so no one knoes. but i guess eventually i think that it's no point carrying this hatred, will just make unhappy.
as long as dun get to see him and live with mom peacefully, everything is ok.
The moment u see him, it will remind you all the things he did in the past to mom and the family. It is pretty upsetting ppl.
Originally posted by bambina:as long as dun get to see him and live with mom peacefully, everything is ok.
The moment u see him, it will remind you all the things he did in the past to mom and the family. It is pretty upsetting ppl.
i think my mum will be reminded. so she do not talk to my dad or see him for very very very long time.
but i think that as long as my mum do not let go, she will be haunted forever by the hurt my father has caused her
Originally posted by gunner77:
wat is KJ?
karaoke jockey.
Originally posted by rlsh07:karaoke jockey.
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Originally posted by rlsh07:i think my mum will be reminded. so she do not talk to my dad or see him for very very very long time.
but i think that as long as my mum do not let go, she will be haunted forever by the hurt my father has caused her
easy to say, not easy to do it especially when it happened directly on you and the experience is unforgetable. When u get hurt deeply, it is not easy for u to let it go and forgive that person.
Originally posted by gunner77:
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yeah my mum loves to sing and dance a lot
Originally posted by bambina:easy to say, not easy to do it especially when it happened directly on you and the experience is unforgetable. When u get hurt deeply, it is not easy for u to let it go and forgive that person.
yeah i know. but i believe that time will heal all wounds.
Originally posted by rlsh07:yeah my mum loves to sing and dance a lot
nice to hear tat
Originally posted by gunner77:
nice to hear tat
yeah she has a nice voice. then in the past she got long hair when i was younger. then i would play with her hair. so funny
Originally posted by rlsh07:yeah she has a nice voice. then in the past she got long hair when i was younger. then i would play with her hair. so funny
now u got long hair she play with ur hair? ![]()
Originally posted by bambina:easy to say, not easy to do it especially when it happened directly on you and the experience is unforgetable. When u get hurt deeply, it is not easy for u to let it go and forgive that person.
y live in the past? dun let 'hard to forget' be an excuse for a person to hide and cower in the past
the past shld be a lesson, not a burden
Originally posted by gunner77:
now u got long hair she play with ur hair?
no la. dun have la. but then she help mi wash my hair
Originally posted by rlsh07:no la. dun have la. but then she help mi wash my hair
u cannot do it urself?