人之所以痛苦

• rlsh07

  4 Oct 09, 17:09

   

  my cousin send this email to mi though. 

  > > 人之所以痛苦，在于追求错误的东西。
  > >
  > > 如果你�给自己烦�，别人也永远��能给你烦�。因为你自己的内心，你放�
  > > 下。
  > >
  > > 好好的管教你自己，��管别人。
  > >
  > > 你�时�认命，因为你是人。
  > >
  > > 这个世界本�就是痛苦的，没有例外的。
  > >
  > > 你什么时候放下，什么时候就没有烦�。
  > >
  > > �一�创伤，都是一��熟。
  > >
  > > 当你烦�的时候，你就�告诉你自己，这一切都是�的，你烦�什么？
  > >
  > > 根本�必回头去看咒骂你的人是�，如果有一�疯狗咬你一�，难�你也�趴下去
  > > �咬他一��？
  > >
  > > 忌妒别人，�会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人，也��能�少别人的�就。
  > >
  > > 永远��浪费你的一分一秒，去想任何你�喜欢的人。
  > >
  > > 得�到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间
  > > 与他相处在一起。当有一天，你深入了解�，你
  > > 会�现原�是你想�中的那么美好。
  > >
  > > 这个世间�有圆滑，没有圆满的。
  > >
  > > ��刻�去猜测他人的想法，如果你没有智慧与�验的正确判断，通常都会有错误
  > > 的。
  > >
  > > 你�感谢告诉你缺点的人。
  > >
  > > 时间总会过去的，让时间�走你的烦���
  > >
  > > ��因为��的争执，远离了你至亲的好�，也��因为��的怨�，忘记了别人
  > > 的大�。
  > >
  > > 感谢上�我所拥有的，感谢上�我所没有的。
  > >
  > > 当你手中抓�一件东西�放时，你�能拥有这件东西，如果你肯放手，你就有机会
  > > 选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念，�肯放
  > > 下，那么他的智慧也�能达到��程度而已。
  > >
  > > 如果你能够平平安安的渡过一天，那就是一��气了。多少人在今天已���到明
  > > 天的太阳，多少人在今天已��了残废，多少人
  > > 在今天已�失去了自由，多少人在今天已�家破人亡。
  > >
  > > ��永远��出自于我们的�中，�管他有多�，有多�。你愈骂他，你的心就被
  > > 污染了，你�想，他就是你的善知识。
  > >
  > > 你��常常觉得自己很委曲，你应该�想，他对我这样已�很好了，这就是修行的
  > > 功夫。
  > >
  > > 世界原本就�是属于你，因此你用��抛弃，�抛弃的是一切的执著。万物皆为我
  > > 所用，但�我所属。
  > >
  > > 学会用�解的，欣�的眼光去看对方，而�是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
  > >
  > > �熟的人�问过去；�明的人�问现在；�达的人�问未�。
  > >
  > > �光并�太阳的专利，你也�以�光。
  > >
  > > 你�以用爱得到全世界，你也�以用�失去全世界。
  > >
  > > 爱的力�大到�以使人忘记一切，���到连一粒嫉妒的沙石也�能容纳。
  > >
  > > 人总是�惜未得到的，而�忘了所拥有的。
  > >
  > > 如你想�拥有完美无暇的�谊，�能一辈�找�到朋�。

• rlsh07

  4 Oct 09, 17:12

  think the eng translation from http://translate.google.com/translate_t# cannot make it but i think u get the meaning 

  "" The reason why human suffering is the pursuit of the wrong things. 
  "" 
  "" If you do not give their own troubles, others will never give you troubles. Because of your own heart, you do not put 
  "" Next. 
  "" 
  "" Be properly discipline yourself, do not control other people. 
  "" 
  "" You always have to accept their fate, because you people. 
  "" 
  "" The world has always been painful, there is no exception. 
  "" 
  "" When did you go, and when there will be no trouble. 
  "" 
  "" Every kind of trauma, is a kind of maturity. 
  "" 
  "" When you worry, you should tell yourself that all this is false, what is bothering you? 
  "" 
  "" Do not have to go back to see who the curse you, if there is a mad dog bites you one, do not you have to get on the ground to go 
  "" Biting back his one do? 
  "" 
  "" Jealous people will not add any benefit for himself. Jealous people, it is unlikely to diminish the achievements of others. 
  "" 
  "" Never waste your points in a second, think about any of you do not like people. 
  "" 
  "" Is not something we will always think he is wonderful, it is because you know very little about him, no time 
  "" Live together with him. When one day, you understand, you 
  "" Will find that the original is not your imagined so good. 
  "" 
  "" The earth is only smooth, there is no satisfactory. 
  "" 
  "" Do not bother to speculate on other people's ideas, if you do not have the right to judge the wisdom and experience, they usually have an error 
  "" The. 
  "" 
  "" You would like to thank those who tell you shortcomings. 
  "" 
  "" Time will pass, and so that time is running out of your troubles bar! 
  "" 
  "" Do not be a small dispute, away from your relatives and friends, nor because the small resentment, forget the others 
  "" The Dae-Eun. 
  "" 
  "" Thank God I have, thank God I do not have. 
  "" 
  "" When one thing to seize and hold in your hands, you can only have this thing, if you are willing to let go, you have the opportunity to 
  "" Choose another. If the dead person's heart Executive's own ideas, unwilling to release 
  "" Next, his wisdom can only achieve a certain degree only. 
  "" 
  "" If you can safely navigated the day, it is a kind of good fortune. How many people have today did not see a tomorrow 
  "" Days of the sun, how many people today have become disabled, how many people 
  "" In today has lost its freedom, how many people today have been bereaved. 
  "" 
  "" Never bad mouth grows out of our mouth, no matter how bad he was, how evil. The more you call him, your heart was 
  "" Polluted, you want to, he is your Shanzhi Shi. 
  "" 
  "" You do not often feel that they are unfairly treated, you should want to, he told me that it is already very good, and this is self-cultivation of the 
  "" Kung fu. 
  "" 
  "" The world had not belongs to you, so you do not need to discard, we must abandon all the dedication. All is I 
  "" Used, but not my own. 
  "" 
  "" Learned to understand and appreciate the vision to see each other, rather than self-righteous concern to manage the other side. 
  "" 
  "" Mature people do not ask the past; smart people do not ask now; open-minded people who do not ask the future. 
  "" 
  "" Light is not the sun's patent, you can also light. 
  "" 
  "" You can love the whole world, you can also use hate to lose the whole world. 
  "" 
  "" The power of love big enough to make people forget everything, but small enough to even an envy of sand and gravel can not accommodate. 
  "" 
  "" People always cherish not been, but forgotten owned. 
  "" 
  "" If you want to have a perfect friendship, you may find a friend for life.

• Jianye

  4 Oct 09, 17:14

   

  wah....buddhist teachings sia...

  i like it.

  this is what i always tell myself

• rlsh07

  4 Oct 09, 17:16

  Originally posted by Jianye:

   

  wah....buddhist teachings sia...

  i like it.

  this is what i always tell myself

  not really buddhist teachings. 

• trendz

  4 Oct 09, 20:00

  hmmmm..