Tips for finding a gf/bf...
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Lai lai lets share tips on how to start/substain a relationship so tat ppl can live singles club
Have interesting conversation
Care and concern
Give surprises
Give each other breathing space...
lai lai lets share more info
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If the people here knew that, they wouldnt be here would they?
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Dun u know? Pikachu wants everyone to be single so that his forum hv more members =D
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well those tat have previous romantic experience can share here ma
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How does previous tips of failed romantic experiences be any good?
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if its a failed r/s, it can be used as a guide on hw to prevent r/s from going down
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Originally posted by Pion:How does previous tips of failed romantic experiences be any good?
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Hmmm usually when you dont go looking for gf/bf and they will come very fast and unexpectently.
But if you go around hunting, usually you'd have a much harder time -
eh thats evil laOriginally posted by RaTtY8l:if its a failed r/s, it can be used as a guide on hw to prevent r/s from going down
i got some tips la duno useful anot...
1. Dun always think that coz a girl is very popular then she is 'not in my league' or 'not possible to get her'. Not all popular girls go for popular guys only, vice versa.
2. Similarly to number 1, dun always think that u cant get a girl if shes better than u in many aspects like academically, physically or financially. Most girls only see what kinda person u r n not ur background. If she really does mind ur background and all, n u really cant attain her standards, then dun force urself into the relationship.
3. Dun 'fall in love' with a girl juz coz shes nice with u or clicks with u well. There are such things as platonic relationships. Look out for hints to suggest whether u can move forward in the relationship or not.(hints differ from people to people, so dun ask for general tips on what do hints imply)
4. Give yourself time to see whether u truly love the person n not juz like the person. To me there r a couple of different stages of feelings for a person. For those special feelings, crush
5a. Be logical n realistic. As ppl say, love can b blind. N blind love can lead to many problems in the future. There are times when u haf to sit back n ask urself, isit reali possible for him/her to change? How many chances haf u given him/her?
5b. In a deeper level, u might wanna consider how u guys wan ur future to be like. I know alot of ppl might say that bf/gf only, y think so far right? Well, for young couples it may not be that important, but for more mature couples, a bf or gf would mean choosing their life partner as well. Consider factors like ur partner's job, the way of living, kids n parents issue, distance from each other, n more stuff which i cant think of at the moment.
Just my opinions
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Wei! trying to tear my forum down ah!!!
Well, i will be happy if you guys really find your love one... -
Originally posted by eagle:Dun u know? Pikachu wants everyone to be single so that his forum hv more members =D
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A guy... how to date a girlfriend??
Easy...
One - you got money
Two - you got looks
three - you are smart...
If you think you don't have all these 3... better find a girl from jungle.. those silly silly looking one.. -
Thanks fifi...
well you would like to find the tips for finding gf or bf in that forum as well ^^ -
For those tat is good in first impression :
To start is easy... To sustain is difficult...
For those tat is good in character :
To start is difficult... To sustain is easy...
For those tat is both :
Long taken by people liao... Still wait for u ... lol -
Originally posted by ispyyy:
quite true
[b]For those tat is good in first impression :
To start is easy... To sustain is difficult...
For those tat is good in character :
To start is difficult... To sustain is easy...
For those tat is both :
Long taken by people liao... Still wait for u ... lol[/b] -
for guys finding a gf...
most important thing.... ai zai. -
Originally posted by ispyyy:
hmmm... ya quite true...
[b]For those tat is good in first impression :
To start is easy... To sustain is difficult...
For those tat is good in character :
To start is difficult... To sustain is easy...
For those tat is both :
Long taken by people liao... Still wait for u ... lol[/b]
lol.. must make it more true...
Good in first impression means tat u have higher chances tat will impress the girl or boy at first sight
Good in character means that u have higher chances tat yr character and her character will match easily...
So, those who r weak in first impression, improve in it
So, those who r weak in character, improve in it
Those who whine on both, god bless u ... ><
