Let's say you are approaching your mid 30s or 40s..
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& you are still single..
Will you lower your expectations like say, choose a girl that is nt really pretty, capable & have bad temper..or a guy that is nt rich, very poor, no looks & character CMI??
Will you be such an extremist (a.k.a desperate) enough to do that??
I sincerely pray hope I will not..
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Depend if i like the person a not... It depend on the relation... not qualities... haha
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whats wrong with poor?
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But most ppl will have a mental list inside just that they are not aware of....let's say you click with this person very well..but he/she is just simply not your type & your are put off by his traits...surely you won't think of progressing further ba..
Btw, there's nothing wrong with poor if you can find a partner that really accept you but sometimes ppl are shallow to a certain extent..I see ppl go 'looks doesn't matter' & in the same breathe can say how come those ugly guys can get attached to a pretty lady?
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Why get attached for the sake of being attached??Originally posted by jam on a bread:& you are still single..
Will you lower your expectations like say, choose a girl that is nt really pretty, capable & have bad temper..or a guy that is nt rich, very poor, no looks & character CMI??
Will you be such an extremist (a.k.a desperate) enough to do that??
I sincerely pray hope I will not..
I won't lor. If by tat time still single, than so be it. Won't be desperate to that extent. -
why lower your expectations? You're saying getting married for the sake of it and not for the love and care for each other?Originally posted by jam on a bread:& you are still single..
Will you lower your expectations like say, choose a girl that is nt really pretty, capable & have bad temper..or a guy that is nt rich, very poor, no looks & character CMI??
Will you be such an extremist (a.k.a desperate) enough to do that??
I sincerely pray hope I will not..
I guess it will depend on how one measure love.
Is love only about looks, capability or temper? -
graying hair, balding, obesity.... hmmmm
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Cannot lah , why compare your next boyfriend / girlfriend to the portfolio of another poster girl ?
For a relationship to work , there must be some chemistry. There is some reason for being "poor",
There are people "poor" in everything, not even making $$$ , poor in making their goals come true , simply take for granted that life will present to themselves the fruits of their unwillingness to go for what they wanted.
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getting attached has nothing to do with who old i am or how many Cs the guy got...
it all depends on how much i like the guy... -
its better to be late then sorry.
i wont choose a person with ugly character even if i were to stay single.
if by 35 im stil single, then i resigned.
live with my parents n take care of them til old age. -
hmmmm... interesting question...
I am a simple person... What I want from my life companion is to the minimum... that is as long as I love her... So even in mid 30s or 40s, I cannot go below my limt liao...
But, I do noe that many people want love and want more qualities in their companion... Coz, love can be grown but qualities may not be able to...
So wat ts says maybe true... if one can differentiate between need and want...