Sigh....
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It's a third party. Just wait and see.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:
That's the boy side story mah.. We need to hear from the girl. -
popikachu: I'm not asking for help. I'm just airing my feelings on the matter.
dumbdumb: yes, I suppose you're right. It's better to have the break before my friend has invested too much in the relationship. Only 3 months and he is already so down. It'd be even more painful if it were 3 years.
pion: what makes you so sure it's a 3rd party? -
perhaps it's not a serious one...just a crush.Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Last weekend, I met up with some friends to celebrate a birthday. One of the guys had a rather shocking and sad revelation. He had just broken up with his girlfriend of 3 months. She was the one who initiated it, and my poor friend was quite crushed by it. The girl did not really give any explanation, though my friend pleaded with her repeatedly. It was rather shocking to us, for only a few weeks ago, they were rather happy together, and she was the one who chased him in the first place.
Sigh...it seems sometimes girls can be such incomprehensible, contradictory and fickle creatures. What happened to my poor friend has seemed to undermine even further whatever faith I still have in relationships... -
perhaps, maybe, what if.... oh please, spare me...
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I have known of similar cases.Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:popikachu: I'm not asking for help. I'm just airing my feelings on the matter.
dumbdumb: yes, I suppose you're right. It's better to have the break before my friend has invested too much in the relationship. Only 3 months and he is already so down. It'd be even more painful if it were 3 years.
pion: what makes you so sure it's a 3rd party?
The girl, unsure on how to tell the bf (hence can't give the bf a reason), and also feel guilty for cheating the bf, so initiate the breakup. The girl thought it would be better to break up early than drag the rs on till the bf found out.
and 20% chance the 3rd party is someone the bf knows. -
Pity your fren,, she doesnt find your fren interesting anymore so she left... sigh... never be too deep when your in rs.. 1st 1 year.. dont expect anything serious. just play play la..Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Last weekend, I met up with some friends to celebrate a birthday. One of the guys had a rather shocking and sad revelation. He had just broken up with his girlfriend of 3 months. She was the one who initiated it, and my poor friend was quite crushed by it. The girl did not really give any explanation, though my friend pleaded with her repeatedly. It was rather shocking to us, for only a few weeks ago, they were rather happy together, and she was the one who chased him in the first place.
Sigh...it seems sometimes girls can be such incomprehensible, contradictory and fickle creatures. What happened to my poor friend has seemed to undermine even further whatever faith I still have in relationships... -
What is there to be pity of? If the ger no longer find the guy attractive or found out that the guy isnt what she wanted, what is so wrong about dumping or breaking up? At least, in this case, the ger clearly know what she want and it isnt TS mate. There is no real fix rule or time line as to when to get serious or not in r/s. It is more of understanding each other with each passing days together. If one found out any time in the r/s that he/she wasn't the one u looking for, breaking up is the only right and responsible thing to do. Nothing to do with whether if the other party is a nice guy/gal or not. Love isnt charity and being together isn't about empathy either. Player dun usually commit themselves into r/s.Originally posted by Zarks:Pity your fren,, she doesnt find your fren interesting anymore so she left... sigh... never be too deep when your in rs.. 1st 1 year.. dont expect anything serious. just play play la.. -
f**k care the girl... shes like a flirt, going for guys coz they are cute... then after finding someone better just leave him... usually she has a good excuse (parents object, no doing well in school, its not working out, we better as friends, etc etc)
anyway its 3mths... not like mine... 3 years.
well thats life... face it, cry over it, and move on. -
I think once a relationship ended, there's no love at all... it become very hazard and unhealthy. Ask your friend to move on with his life...
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sometimes, de bu dao de shi zhui mei de.
cannot see things from one angle only..
there's 2 faces on a coin.
maybe something happened during their courtship?
maybe the girl find him boring or insensitive leh? -
Oh well, we can suggest all sorts of reasons for the break, but I think the most important thing for my friend is that he moves on from this. I hope that for his sake, he manages to do that and find faith and hope in himself again.
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I never take social studies before lehOriginally posted by cApitaland:lol eagle this is not Social Studies leh. infer here infer there.
From here, I infer that Social Studies is a useless subject
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Actually I wanted to ask, is your friend you?Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Last weekend, I met up with some friends to celebrate a birthday. One of the guys had a rather shocking and sad revelation. He had just broken up with his girlfriend of 3 months. She was the one who initiated it, and my poor friend was quite crushed by it. The girl did not really give any explanation, though my friend pleaded with her repeatedly. It was rather shocking to us, for only a few weeks ago, they were rather happy together, and she was the one who chased him in the first place.
Sigh...it seems sometimes girls can be such incomprehensible, contradictory and fickle creatures. What happened to my poor friend has seemed to undermine even further whatever faith I still have in relationships...
We have Aunt Agony you know. -
it takes time la..Originally posted by dakkon_blackblade:Oh well, we can suggest all sorts of reasons for the break, but I think the most important thing for my friend is that he moves on from this. I hope that for his sake, he manages to do that and find faith and hope in himself again.
juz be there for a fren in need. -
Lol...I know what you are thinking. But rest assured it's not me. Just ask popikachu. I'm sure he'll tell you that I don't look the least bit like a person who's just fallen out of love.Originally posted by Darkness_hacker99:Actually I wanted to ask, is your friend you?
We have Aunt Agony you know.