a question on facebook
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Hi all,
I seldom post here. A few days ago, I PM a girl in facebook who is actually a friend of my friend. We have met each other before. At first we were exchanging messages then after several messages, I asked her a question. It's simply a very general question like what's she doing now ?
Until now, she hasn't replied. But I know she is online a lot of the times because facebook keeps the friends' network updated. Previously she was very prompt in her messages. Im just puzzled what really happened.
Any experts can help? Guys and girls are welcome Thanks! -
she felt there isn't a need to reply? are you very bothered by it?Originally posted by excused:Hi all,
I seldom post here. A few days ago, I PM a girl in facebook who is actually a friend of my friend. We have met each other before. At first we were exchanging messages then after several messages, I asked her a question. It's simply a very general question like what's she doing now ?
Until now, she hasn't replied. But I know she is online a lot of the times because facebook keeps the friends' network updated. Previously she was very prompt in her messages. Im just puzzled what really happened.
Any experts can help? Guys and girls are welcome Thanks!
think of it this way, i msn my friend asking what is he doing. he hasn't reply me for like 4 days. what do i think of it? nothing.
the only reason why you are panicking now is because you think too much. -
You like her issit??Originally posted by excused:Hi all,
I seldom post here. A few days ago, I PM a girl in facebook who is actually a friend of my friend. We have met each other before. At first we were exchanging messages then after several messages, I asked her a question. It's simply a very general question like what's she doing now ?
Until now, she hasn't replied. But I know she is online a lot of the times because facebook keeps the friends' network updated. Previously she was very prompt in her messages. Im just puzzled what really happened.
Any experts can help? Guys and girls are welcome Thanks!
Akward feeling is in the air?
OR maybe like wad Agenda said, she doesnt find a need to reply.
Chill man, chill!
Enojy your time at SC
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Im quite bothered if I should just forget her.Originally posted by Agenda:she felt there isn't a need to reply? are you very bothered by it?
think of it this way, i msn my friend asking what is he doing. he hasn't reply me for like 4 days. what do i think of it? nothing.
the only reason why you are panicking now is because you think too much.
ya im just pissed la...even as a friend shouldnt you at least show respect to reply? I mean she has the time to do some graffiti for other friends not even a few minutes of typing a message to reply me?
haiz.. -
well, if you want to think this way.Originally posted by excused:Im quite bothered if I should just forget her.
ya im just pissed la...even as a friend shouldnt you at least show respect to reply? I mean she has the time to do some graffiti for other friends not even a few minutes of typing a message to reply me?
haiz..
ultimately you either want to date her out or get her contacts right? why not just message her something like "hey, why don't you add my msn [email protected] then we chat over there?"
you must think i'm dumb or what but think of it this way, if you don't ask now, you must go on with life, if you do, you must also go on with life. why not give it a shot? though results are not guranteed unless you look like Kim Jung Hoon or you are as rich as Li Ka Shing -
Thanks for the feedback!
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be bold a bit lar
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how to be a bit bold when she doesn't even want to reply ?Originally posted by laurence82:be bold a bit lar
you expect me to send her a msg again and expecting her to reply ?
i asked a question and she did not reply... any ladies know why ? not interested to reply ? -
could mean she is unsure, or she doesnt like uOriginally posted by excused:how to be a bit bold when she doesn't even want to reply ?
you expect me to send her a msg again and expecting her to reply ?
i asked a question and she did not reply... any ladies know why ? not interested to reply ?
or she is scared of u, coz she doesnt know what u want -
so are you saying that I should just forget about the message and pretend nothing has happened ?Originally posted by laurence82:could mean she is unsure, or she doesnt like u
or she is scared of u, coz she doesnt know what u want
if you were me what would you have done ? -
ask friend for her msnOriginally posted by excused:so are you saying that I should just forget about the message and pretend nothing has happened ?
if you were me what would you have done ? -
She's not interested and perhaps a bit freaked out. Yeah
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btw, your "what are you doing now?" means what kind? as in at the exact moment or normally what is she doing?
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tskOriginally posted by excused:so are you saying that I should just forget about the message and pretend nothing has happened ?
if you were me what would you have done ?
mr w, i tot u expert sia
u can
a) go to her friends, if u are close to them, ask them help u probe probe a bit, this method i had seen done many times
b) go directly to her and ask, 'was there anything that i said wrong?' -
Forget i i would say. Trying to date girls through online stuff? Most gals dont buy it. Unless u can somehow meet her and establish a very basic um acquaintancehsip first. Either through school..work..etc.. Where u can meet at least on a regular basisOriginally posted by excused:so are you saying that I should just forget about the message and pretend nothing has happened ?
if you were me what would you have done ? -
i prefer to ask from her directly.Originally posted by Agenda:ask friend for her msn -
I asked her what she's studying.Originally posted by Agenda:btw, your "what are you doing now?" means what kind? as in at the exact moment or normally what is she doing? -
nah better not cos this is between me and herOriginally posted by laurence82:tsk
mr w, i tot u expert sia
u can
a) go to her friends, if u are close to them, ask them help u probe probe a bit, this method i had seen done many times
b) go directly to her and ask, 'was there anything that i said wrong?' -
i neglected to read ur first postOriginally posted by excused:nah better not cos this is between me and her
i should have asked
do u like her? -
Nah Im not dating her online or anything. She has met me before. She was the one who added me first lol.Originally posted by lpx88:Forget i i would say. Trying to date girls through online stuff? Most gals dont buy it. Unless u can somehow meet her and establish a very basic um acquaintancehsip first. Either through school..work..etc.. Where u can meet at least on a regular basis
Funny how things can change sia.. The thing is I was just asking a harmless question that's all. -
aiya i got 2 choice for you
1) If she is a random girl you saw on FB or FS that you thought is like OMGWTFBBQ so chio, then forget about it.
2) If she is a friend of your friend. Just leave her a comment if you can add her on msn to chat.
kthxbye -
Nt interested?
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If I say i don't like, Im lying to you right ? haha...but does it matter ? I was just thinking a harmless question wouldn't mind right ?Originally posted by laurence82:i neglected to read ur first post
i should have asked
do u like her? -
haha...maybe I will try option 2Originally posted by Agenda:aiya i got 2 choice for you
1) If she is a random girl you saw on FB or FS that you thought is like OMGWTFBBQ so chio, then forget about it.
2) If she is a friend of your friend. Just leave her a comment if you can add her on msn to chat.
kthxbye -
1) she can't be bothered to reply
2) she saw the message, decided to reply at a later time then forgot all about it.