I'm inspired to share with SC members...
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Top 3 Signs He Is Not Interested (at all)
When he lets you know how busy he is lately
Anytime you try to make contact, he cuts the conversation short. Bring up work, school or any other excuse to justify the fact that he has to run. He is sure to point out that he loves whatever it is that is taking up all his time and that he wouldn't change a thing about his life.
Tell you he has a friend that is perfect for you
After he's decided you are not the one for him, he uses the information he gathered to push you onto another person. Point out how his buddy also cried when he saw the movie What Dreams May Come or any other common points you guys may have. His buddy may be annoyed, but at least he'll be rid of you.
Subtly highlight clashes of opinion
Politics, morals, values — there are all kinds of hot-button issues he can subtly drop that will turn you off. If he knows you are a smoker, he spouts off something negative about tobacco.
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Not true leh this...
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When he lets you know how busy he is lately
Anytime you try to make contact, he cuts the conversation short. Bring up work, school or any other excuse to justify the fact that he has to run. He is sure to point out that he loves whatever it is that is taking up all his time and that he wouldn't change a thing about his life.
Not true. We can be honest at times.
Tell you he has a friend that is perfect for you
After he's decided you are not the one for him, he uses the information he gathered to push you onto another person. Point out how his buddy also cried when he saw the movie What Dreams May Come or any other common points you guys may have. His buddy may be annoyed, but at least he'll be rid of you.
True.
Subtly highlight clashes of opinion
Politics, morals, values — there are all kinds of hot-button issues he can subtly drop that will turn you off. If he knows you are a smoker, he spouts off something negative about tobacco.
Sometimes its just a clash of opinions. Nothing more. -
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Originally posted by Pitot:
No lah, if they are free usually they'll be quick to counter offer another day mah. So everytime tell you he is not free so the problem is not his schedule liao. The problem is me - such is life.
[b]When he lets you know how busy he is lately
Anytime you try to make contact, he cuts the conversation short. Bring up work, school or any other excuse to justify the fact that he has to run. He is sure to point out that he loves whatever it is that is taking up all his time and that he wouldn't change a thing about his life.
Not true. We can be honest at times.
Tell you he has a friend that is perfect for you
After he's decided you are not the one for him, he uses the information he gathered to push you onto another person. Point out how his buddy also cried when he saw the movie What Dreams May Come or any other common points you guys may have. His buddy may be annoyed, but at least he'll be rid of you.
True.
Subtly highlight clashes of opinion
Politics, morals, values — there are all kinds of hot-button issues he can subtly drop that will turn you off. If he knows you are a smoker, he spouts off something negative about tobacco.
Sometimes its just a clash of opinions. Nothing more.[/b] -
Not really leh.
Must see who mah.
Depends on the guy.
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So you've been rebuffed through these various methods?Originally posted by soleachip:No lah, if they are free usually they'll be quick to counter offer another day mah. So everytime tell you he is not free so the problem is not his schedule liao. The problem is me - such is life.