ask u all har..
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y he canot go find his own kind leh.
which ger fer nth will wander to back lanes.Originally posted by gLc:Girl, guai type, got go out but always stay safe in streets. -
Originally posted by gLc:Do u all think its hard for a ITE student to get together with a JC girl whom o levels have scored 6 points.
Girl, guai type, got go out but always stay safe in streets.
Boy, smokes, go home late after 12 midnight.
Both love each other, but boy thinks it will not work out in the long run, what do u all think?
* My friend asked me this.
Say say say say.... I have to agree.Originally posted by popikachu:possible...
but both must be really loving each other...
I havent even pass sec 3 while my girl is a business graduate. What more, we belong to diff race/religions. Double whammy. We try not to anticipate the future so much since anything can equally happen really. Whether it'll work out or not, we're willing to gamble our days and effort away for our own love's sake.
Its either want or don't want, can't be half-hearted, if only to prevent heartbreaking and confusing talks later on.
Not sure... but when against so much odds, and out of kindness for the significant other, gotta do stuffs to provide stability for the relationship.Originally posted by gLc:Besides, lets say the guy doesnt go for further studies next time.
How?
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cool....tough road eh?good for u to last so longOriginally posted by Gauze:Not sure... but when against so much odds, and out of kindness for the significant other, gotta do stuffs to provide stability for the relationship.
Hope your friend is able to reach his conclusion soon.
good luck for the rest of ur journey together 
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Thanks. Tough at first, many things to go through with and settle. Now, the only plan is to save up till a good time to ROM.
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the guy shld RHK the ger??
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Wad if chuck RHK the infantry?
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i think the bad habits of the guy and stuff will affect the relationship to a certain extent, but for me i think if the relationship is to be permanent, meaning marriage and stuff, we really have to be practical..
if the guy doesn't want to study anymore, he has gotta make sure he can earn enuf to support a family..
and back to TS qn, if we're toking abt can they be happily together for the 1st few yrs, without financial factors, it will be more of the girls' parents' views abt the guy, and family pressure really can really be tough.. sad to say, but the guy shud give up what the society deems as bad habits and appease the parents, if he wants the girl to have less stress from the parents..
but if its long-term marriage kind, then, again, financial problems comes in.. love is blind and stuff yes.. but love needs to be practical too.. if the guy can support the girl and stuff with his current education level and job income, then there's no problem, but if the guy cant do that and yet he is unwilling to learn new skills and do the appropriate stuff to earn money, it's not long b4 the r/s breaks down due to practical issues..
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isnt it boring if his gf is sumtin like him ? its like lookin into the mirror everyday lolOriginally posted by Hello Kitty:y he canot go find his own kind leh.
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i think okOriginally posted by gLc:Do u all think its hard for a ITE student to get together with a JC girl whom o levels have scored 6 points.
Girl, guai type, got go out but always stay safe in streets.
Boy, smokes, go home late after 12 midnight.
Both love each other, but boy thinks it will not work out in the long run, what do u all think?
* My friend asked me this.
hmm does qualification really matter if you love that person?I don't mind alot actually also but must at least secondary sch grad la. -
Frankly I think at your age, level of education in relationships play a minor role. It only matters when you're well past your 20s and moving into the serious dating / commitment phase. Even then, I know of well educated female colleagues (UCLA grads etc) moving around pubs and hitting home way past midnight and they are far from epitome of badness.Originally posted by gLc:Do u all think its hard for a ITE student to get together with a JC girl whom o levels have scored 6 points.
Girl, guai type, got go out but always stay safe in streets.
Boy, smokes, go home late after 12 midnight.
Both love each other, but boy thinks it will not work out in the long run, what do u all think?
* My friend asked me this.
At the same time, few of the most driven people (locals and ang mohs) I've met are those who cannot spell / speak proper English, but manage more than a decent foothold in my line of work. I don't think education, PSLE or O level aggregates determine how successful you can become, gLC. In my humble opinion, it's mostly discipline and luck.
The education you receive and places you choose to pursue your studies may influence your social circle - they may fashion your social life as you get older but they don't determine romantic compatibility and we're in the 21st century.
Unless your girl is born of royal blood or related to the Queen, just hang out with her, laugh a lot and take it easy because I think you're only 18. -
What I was trying to say is, your level of education does not determine your social/financial status, so why vex over it at this point?Originally posted by gLc:you must admit that social and financial problems are going to be a big issue, its the way the system makes them out to be over time.