what would you do?
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hmm.. what would you do if your parents disapprove very strongly of your gf/bf just simply because ur bf/gf has a long term illness which cannot be cured and have the possibility of having relapse?
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
hmm.. what would you do if your parents disapprove very strongly of your gf/bf just simply because ur bf/gf has a long term illness which cannot be cured and have the possibility of having relapse?
i just do wat i want...ignore my parents and stay with her...
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Originally posted by alvin-ncs:
i just do wat i want...ignore my parents and stay with her...
what if ur parents want to disown you for this? -
The power of true love will overcome everything... Just that... Does true love even exist in this world now who does not understand what is love?
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Originally posted by popikachu:
The power of true love will overcome everything…
Just that…Does true love even exist in this world now who does not understand what is love?
U this few days very emo isit?
keep talking abt true love.
LOL.
Love is love.
there is no true love.
If its false love, how can u say it is love in the first place?
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Originally posted by rlsh07:
hmm.. what would you do if your parents disapprove very strongly of your gf/bf just simply because ur bf/gf has a long term illness which cannot be cured and have the possibility of having relapse?
There are many valid reasons why the parents would disapprove. In this day and age, I'd think they are coming from a rational and objective point of view. I am quite certain they are thinking for their child even if the relationship is not their place and not for their business.
If, I am not financially independent and capable of my own life, say below 21, I'll take a back seat, pull back from romantic involvement with my bf and maintain platonic friendship. If I can't even be responsible enough for my own life, there is no chance in hell I'll be good enough hanging around a guy who has enough problems of his own and a long term illness to boot.
If I'm confident of holding up in times of need after evaluating all the negatives, then the choice I make is the choice that works. Best to take a principled stand, inform my parents they're going to have to respect this decision if I'm expected to remain a part of their lives.
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what kind of illness?? AIDS, then thank you lor...
if not, who cares....
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I share soleachip's view. I think thats very mature of her.
If you can't even afford to take care of yourself, I don't think you are in a position to take care of others. If you 'truly love' the opposite party then I'd think you should be wise enough to know that you are simply not meant for him/her just yet.
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Originally posted by cApitaland:
I share soleachip's view. I think thats very mature of her.
If you can't even afford to take care of yourself, I don't think you are in a position to take care of others. If you 'truly love' the opposite party then I'd think you should be wise enough to know that you are simply not meant for him/her just yet.
anyway it's just a what if question though. not true one. anyway i just want to see how would people respond to that kind of question because i'm the girl in the question and my ex did because of this break up with me because he cannot take the pain and suffering if there was anything that happen to me though. -
Originally posted by rlsh07:
anyway it's just a what if question though. not true one. anyway i just want to see how would people respond to that kind of question because i'm the girl in the question and my ex did because of this break up with me because he cannot take the pain and suffering if there was anything that happen to me though.I'm sorry to hear that. Hope you're feeling better these days.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
I'm sorry to hear that. Hope you're feeling better these days.
actually i'm consistently going to the doctor for check up every three months, so very stable now in terms of health. in terms of other areas, i'm better though so want to know more new frens, go to more outings. hahaha -
Originally posted by rlsh07:
actually i'm consistently going to the doctor for check up every three months, so very stable now in terms of health. in terms of other areas, i'm better though so want to know more new frens, go to more outings. hahahaIt's best to get out more under the sun with friends. I think SC has a couple of outdoor activities going on a weekly basis. They'll start to psycho you for wakeboarding, skating and DOTA gatherings after dinner tomorrow. :)
I had asthma when I was a kid, had to go on in for regular check ups as well. Glad you're taking things well and looking on the bright side.
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Originally posted by soleachip:
It's best to get out more under the sun with friends. I think SC has a couple of outdoor activities going on a weekly basis. They'll start to psycho you for wakeboarding, skating and DOTA gatherings after dinner tomorrow. :)
I had asthma when I was a kid, had to go on in for regular check ups as well. Glad you're taking things well and looking on the bright side.
yeah i guess so... hmm.. thanks =)