Originally posted by Catknight:So to all singles who are in church, pray and be earnest but do not be too hopeful about finding a life partner in church..and if people look down on you cause you do not meet their expectations...pray again cause you're single does not make you less of a believer
i say to all singles in church, pray to God that He will give you what you need, He will mould you into the person that He wants you want you to be, pray that He will make you the right one for your right one.
Originally posted by Catknight:So to all singles who are in church, pray and be earnest but do not be too hopeful about finding a life partner in church..and if people look down on you cause you do not meet their expectations...pray again cause you're single does not make you less of a believer
i think u should post this in the christian forums...
i dun think non-christians go church to look for potential life partners unless invited someone they are interested in to do so..
to think that everyone goes to church to look for potential life-partners speaks volumes about your naviety if i may be kind... to be unkind, do you think that churches are the only place to find potential life-partners?? i find this opinion distasteful to a non-christian...
Originally posted by Catknight:In the name of the father, son and holy spirt, one must guard against women who bring men down as Eve does so with Adam..amen
Pray to God that He will give you the strength to guard against your heart, ask Him to give you the wisdom to choose wisely, pray to Him to give you discernment for this matter.
do not blame anyone else. do not judge but discern
Rish maybe you found your other half ,that;s good
Originally posted by pigsticker:i think u should post this in the christian forums...
i dun think non-christians go church to look for potential life partners unless invited someone they are interested in to do so..
to think that everyone goes to church to look for potential life-partners speaks volumes about your naviety if i may be kind... to be unkind, do you think that churches are the only place to find potential life-partners?? i find this opinion distasteful to a non-christian...
I agree with u totally.
Originally posted by Catknight:Rish maybe you found your other half ,that;s good
no i have not actually.
I'm just pointing out how bad the singles are having it here due to materialism and pop culture creeping into religious houses....if you are having ahard time finding mate in church, what makes you think you can do better with 5Cs SDU club?
Originally posted by pigsticker:i think u should post this in the christian forums...
i dun think non-christians go church to look for potential life partners unless invited someone they are interested in to do so..
to think that everyone goes to church to look for potential life-partners speaks volumes about your naviety if i may be kind... to be unkind, do you think that churches are the only place to find potential life-partners?? i find this opinion distasteful to a non-christian...
Looks in.
Hangs head low.
Leaves.
Originally posted by pigsticker:i think u should post this in the christian forums...
i dun think non-christians go church to look for potential life partners unless invited someone they are interested in to do so..
to think that everyone goes to church to look for potential life-partners speaks volumes about your naviety if i may be kind... to be unkind, do you think that churches are the only place to find potential life-partners?? i find this opinion distasteful to a non-christian...
i think what cat knight meant was that he is looking another christian that share his beliefs and his goal in life. he meant no offense intended though.
Then I think he post in the wrong forum.
A girl can drop on you anywhere, in the bus stop, coffeeshop whatever. Just because people have found success in a Church doesn't mean you can.
I go to a Church, but i only went for their youth service once. Not because the girls there are of a different age group but because i don't go to Church for the ladies.
Btw, maybe you should try CHC, heard there are many of your kind around there.
It's not abt posting in christian and non christian forums...but the trend of singles attitude towards dating and marriage ,it's just that I highlighted the christian point of view
Originally posted by Catknight:I'm just pointing out how bad the singles are having it here due to materialism and pop culture creeping into religious houses....if you are having ahard time finding mate in church, what makes you think you can do better with 5Cs SDU club?
why not?? if i ever go to a church, i look for spiritial fulfillment... if i go to SDU, i look for a life-partner...
Will you go to the wet market to look for God?? and will you go to church to buy fresh fish??
Originally posted by Catknight:I'm just pointing out how bad the singles are having it here due to materialism and pop culture creeping into religious houses....if you are having ahard time finding mate in church, what makes you think you can do better with 5Cs SDU club?
actually finding your other half is hard, it's not as easy as it seems. applies everywhere. in my view, the people who truly love you for you are, not because of what you have or what you do not have, not because of what you can achieve or that kind of thing. but loving you for who you are is the person you seek for. not focus on the person that you cannot have that kind of thing.
Originally posted by Catknight:It's not abt posting in christian and non christian forums...but the trend of singles attitude towards dating and marriage ,it's just that I highlighted the christian point of view
Since u highlighted a christian POV, u post it there. Not here.
Originally posted by rlsh07:i think what cat knight meant was that he is looking another christian that share his beliefs and his goal in life. he meant no offense intended though.
Heh, I suspect what the Knight of Cats meant was, for most of the things going wrong in our lives, first blame it on the government. Then blame it on the opposite gender. If all else fails, blame it on the church.
Originally posted by Catknight:It's not abt posting in christian and non christian forums...but the trend of singles attitude towards dating and marriage ,it's just that I highlighted the christian point of view
to put it this way.. this is a secular thread... maybe even sinful... after all we make love and not war
religion has no place in this forum...
Originally posted by stellazio:A girl can drop on you anywhere, in the bus stop, coffeeshop whatever. Just because people have found success in a Church doesn't mean you can.
I go to a Church, but i only went for their youth service once. Not because the girls there are of a different age group but because i don't go to Church for the ladies.
Btw, maybe you should try CHC, heard there are many of your kind around there.
Sorry I don't go to church for the woman, din't insult ppl without proof...but not being hypocrites I too think it will be ideal to find a good mate in the church you attend, don't you:?
Originally posted by stellazio:A girl can drop on you anywhere, in the bus stop, coffeeshop whatever. Just because people have found success in a Church doesn't mean you can.
I go to a Church, but i only went for their youth service once. Not because the girls there are of a different age group but because i don't go to Church for the ladies.
Btw, maybe you should try CHC, heard there are many of your kind around there.
that's gd for you. because u do not go church for ladies. the other things are secondary.
Originally posted by Catknight:Sorry I don't go to church for the woman, din't insult ppl without proof...but not being hypocrites I too think it will be ideal to find a good mate in the church you attend, don't you:?
it is ideal but you do not critize the people in your church just because you cannot find any in the church.
Originally posted by Catknight:Sorry I don't go to church for the woman, din't insult ppl without proof...but not being hypocrites I too think it will be ideal to find a good mate in the church you attend, don't you:?
Then why do you lament about that fact in your title? If you had change the females to God, i think you might have better cause for justifying your claim.
Wow thought abt the separation of church and state in forum...I thought you guys are broadminded enough to accept singles from all walks of life...not just from freethinkers..
When the right one comes along, it doesn't matter where u meet that person.
Originally posted by Catknight:Wow thought abt the separation of church and state in forum...I thought you guys are broadminded enough to accept singles from all walks of life...not just from freethinkers..
yeah our singles club accept every one , whether ur single a not, whether you are a christian everyone. but i mean here is a place where everyone chill though.
we did not say we dun accept you. why are you so sensitive abt it?