how to tell a butch?

• balance_else_complacent

  18 Mar 08, 20:42

  Hi,

  I have dated a few times a lady who always turn up wearing jeans and polo or something but never in a dress.

  does this mean she is a butch?

  Please help me how i can find out if she is a butch in a tactful manner or best practise of the social industry.

  any litmus test?

  thanks!

• Fatum

  18 Mar 08, 20:45

   

  she's going out with you already ..... isn't the answer obvious ? .....

   

• skeujin

  18 Mar 08, 20:47

  Originally posted by Fatum:

   

  she's going out with you already ..... isn't the answer obvious ? .....

   

  no leh. tt only proves she has bad taste....

• pigsticker

  18 Mar 08, 20:48

  tell her u are gay

• monoslayer

  18 Mar 08, 21:00

  ask her straight, "ASGM?"

• soleachip

  18 Mar 08, 21:08

  Originally posted by balance_else_complacent:

  Hi,

  I have dated a few times a lady who always turn up wearing jeans and polo or something but never in a dress.

  does this mean she is a butch?

  Please help me how i can find out if she is a butch in a tactful manner or best practise of the social industry.

  any litmus test?

  thanks!

  Well mate, sometimes it's possible to convert a butch.

• pewpew

  18 Mar 08, 21:25

  maybe she dosen't like dresses? ask her out to an expensive restaurant if you got lui lo. she SHOULD be wearing a dress.

• caleb_chiang

  18 Mar 08, 22:04

  what's wrong with jeans and polo?

• ifish

  18 Mar 08, 22:10

  u actually can tell a whether she a butch when u see one.. well, at least i can..

  but looking at the butch "partner" is the difficult part

• soleachip

  18 Mar 08, 22:11

  Originally posted by balance_else_complacent:

  Hi,

  I have dated a few times a lady who always turn up wearing jeans and polo or something but never in a dress.

  does this mean she is a butch?

  Please help me how i can find out if she is a butch in a tactful manner or best practise of the social industry.

  any litmus test?

  thanks!

  Erm is she the feminine sort?

• rlsh07

  18 Mar 08, 23:05

  wat's wrong with wearing jeans and polo? wat's wrong with not being in a dress? it's just her style. take it easy lo. i mean if she is a butch, why she go out with you though.

• Deino

  18 Mar 08, 23:07

  butch?

  butches got short hair and act like a guy.....simple as that....any girl that doesn't act like a guy is not a butch.....she will treat you like how a brother would treat you.....

  a butch will try wotever means to act like a guy......got it?......

• rlsh07

  18 Mar 08, 23:08

  Originally posted by Deino:

  butch?

  butches got short hair and act like a guy.....simple as that....any girl that doesn't act like a guy is not a butch.....she will treat you like how a brother would treat you.....

  a butch will try wotever means to act like a guy......got it?......

  
  nat also treat guys sometimes like brothers lo. but she not butch though. so that point i dun agree though

• Deino

  18 Mar 08, 23:11

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  nat also treat guys sometimes like brothers lo. but she not butch though. so that point i dun agree though

  you got me wrong....the way she treats a guy has its feminine side....but the way a butch would treat a guy would be all out how a man treats a man........

• rlsh07

  18 Mar 08, 23:12

  Originally posted by Deino:

  you got me wrong....the way she treats a guy has its feminine side....but the way a butch would treat a guy would be all out how a man treats a man........

  
  hmm.. but a butch will change eventually one.

• Deino

  18 Mar 08, 23:16

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  
  hmm.. but a butch will change eventually one.

  well that depends on whether they had more man hormones or female hormone though

  there is one butch i know that i think would never change though

• rlsh07

  18 Mar 08, 23:17

  Originally posted by Deino:

  well that depends on whether they had more man hormones or female hormone though

  there is one butch i know that i think would never change though

  
  is by choice wat

• Deino

  18 Mar 08, 23:20

  Originally posted by rlsh07:

  
  is by choice wat

  well yesh........but sometimes, people are too weak to choose and let their body dictate who they would become.....

• rlsh07

  19 Mar 08, 00:24

  Originally posted by Deino:

  well yesh........but sometimes, people are too weak to choose and let their body dictate who they would become.....

  
  hmm.. or they let their emotions to dictate though.

• seotiblizzard

  19 Mar 08, 03:57

  Why is this thread here?

• rlsh07

  19 Mar 08, 20:01

  Originally posted by seotiblizzard:

  Why is this thread here?

  
  he thinks he's going out with a butch or could ts think he's dating a butch though?

• cApitaland

  19 Mar 08, 20:09

  why wud she date you if she is a butch..  its just what she finds she is comfortable in. maybe she doesn't haf any fashion sense.

• rlsh07

  19 Mar 08, 20:10

  Originally posted by cApitaland:

  why wud she date you if she is a butch..  its just what she finds she is comfortable in. maybe she doesn't haf any fashion sense.

  
  yeah maybe hor. some girls dun pay attention one lo.

• balance_else_complacent

  19 Mar 08, 21:10

  Originally posted by pewpew:

  maybe she dosen't like dresses? ask her out to an expensive restaurant if you got lui lo. she SHOULD be wearing a dress.

  
  point taken :)

• rlsh07

  19 Mar 08, 21:11

  Originally posted by balance_else_complacent:

  
  point taken :)

  
  so i suppose u will start saving up then right?