are you happy being single *discussion*
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lol got bored so decided to make a discussion about being single =D are you happy being single? i know i'm not but mayb that'll pass soon (recent breakup)
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Why u spoof my thread?
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I am always happy being single...
but now, i feel so lucky that i have found my her...
lol
contradicting eh?
haha
>.<"
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sorry to intrude, but i need your help :)
Please help me vote for the photo contest
http://www.thericeproject.com/?action=vote&e=30
This is a photo contest to go on a trip to Sri Lanka to help the tsunami victim..
I really want to go and it is a good experience for me....
Appreciate if you could help me vote.
just key in your particular and press vote :)
urgent..
thanks thanks..:)
love,
wendy leong (lotusfairy)
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well.. ppl need to be contented to be single. i mean a person can't be 100 % happy being single though
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yap. sometimes bo bian one lah. mai hiam still can entertain ownself and get by one lah.
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Originally posted by LOTUSfairy:
sorry to intrude, but i need your help :)
Please help me vote for the photo contest
http://www.thericeproject.com/?action=vote&e=30
This is a photo contest to go on a trip to Sri Lanka to help the tsunami victim..
I really want to go and it is a good experience for me....
Appreciate if you could help me vote.
just key in your particular and press vote :)
urgent..
thanks thanks..:)
love,
wendy leong (lotusfairy)
you can't be serious lotus! got contest after expiry date then announce!!! nnb.
which photo? auntie vote for you.
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evrything got its benefit
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wah lao if i knew about this contest i would've won. such is life.
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i think is gift of life by wendy leong
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okies, vote liao. now lotus owns auntie one huge bottle of whiskey!
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mi also vote le though
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i'm happy i'm alive...lol...
ok with being single...just wished i could either be single superhero like Hancock or an ordinary guy who gets married to his ideal wife and have kids...lol...
being single is somewhat boring if we got nothing to do...
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Assuming you are just talking about happiness with respect to singlehood, how happy you are as a single will depend on how strong your desires to attachement/relationship is.
Thus,
1. If you have no desire to be attached, then you will always be happy.
2. If you have a small desire to be attached, then you will be happy most of the time.
3. If you have a strong desire to be attached, then you will be unhappy most of the time.
4. If you have a very strong desire to be attached, then you will be depress all the time.
All of us starts at level 1 (like when we are just a baby, no attachment, but always happy), but as we grow older, our desires will start to increase depending what kind of environment we grew up in.
Controling ones desire for attachment is difficult. Although I underdstand that no desire for attchement is the best , I still have desire to get attached.
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Desire...
Doesn't it add joy in life?
Hmm...
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at times i wished this is utopia...
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Now you ask me if Im sincere
Thats the question that I always fear
Verse seven is never clear
But Ill tell you what you want to hear
I try to give you all you want
But giving love is not my strongest point
If thats the case its pointless going on
Id rather be alone
-I Was Only Joking, Rod Stewart -
Being single is good...
But being attached is better...hahaha
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It depends.
im happy being single. but sometimes i desire the feeling and love to be attached.
and when i was attached.
i was happy being attached, but sometimes i desire the freedom of being single.
What can i say, you'll see the grass is green on your side, but occasionally the grass on the other side will look greener.
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i attached,but sometime the other half make me felt so sad that i dont know what to do,should i be blessfull and happy that i attached or not..?as this few days i having high fever everyone ask me dont go work and stay at home rest but i went to work ytd with the tempt of 39 degree..and i go work partly for him to help out at his home as he still studying soo now financier of course i took the responsibly isnt?sometime the things he does i felt his love and care sometime he just seem dont care..i so confuse by him time to time..got anyone guide me along this long hard journey of love?i call him up today when he at sch as he got free period then he keep telling me to go work "la"..as i so piss that i just told him if he so great enough go work himself and support himself or me?i know a kid dont have much saving as he birthday coming so i want prepare a outin?a dinner or someting?something special?but it goin to cost,who goin to pay?him?with the 100buck he have?you all know sg life is expensive isnt?i soo tired and stress up by work but no matter what when i reach home i will hang my smile and not release my stress to him or anyone in family?but who understand i breaking down times to times deep inside?so now i should listen to him and go work today whereby i still sick?is driving me insane to go work and face soo much data entry paper works and havin a fever,did he ever care my health cant take it if anything happen how he goin to responsible for those who concern me?but now i got a feel of being single although life will not have passion or those feel but life will be much more ease isnt?i soo tired and thinking of gave up time to time..i know when he see this it will seem hurtfull here but please forgive me as i love you so much that you can hurt me soo easily times to times.i dont know whats on your minds..but whats on my mind is just doubt.. i sorry to trouble you all read so long post but same time thanks for reading.. by:extremly confuse galz..
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life soo hard...
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Originally posted by I.M.T.K.W.Y.H.H.O.P.K:
i attached,but sometime the other half make me felt so sad that i dont know what to do,should i be blessfull and happy that i attached or not..?as this few days i having high fever everyone ask me dont go work and stay at home rest but i went to work ytd with the tempt of 39 degree..and i go work partly for him to help out at his home as he still studying soo now financier of course i took the responsibly isnt?sometime the things he does i felt his love and care sometime he just seem dont care..i so confuse by him time to time..got anyone guide me along this long hard journey of love?i call him up today when he at sch as he got free period then he keep telling me to go work “la”..as i so piss that i just told him if he so great enough go work himself and support himself or me?i know a kid dont have much saving as he birthday coming so i want prepare a outin?a dinner or someting?something special?but it goin to cost,who goin to pay?him?with the 100buck he have?you all know sg life is expensive isnt?i soo tired and stress up by work but no matter what when i reach home i will hang my smile and not release my stress to him or anyone in family?but who understand i breaking down times to times deep inside?so now i should listen to him and go work today whereby i still sick?is driving me insane to go work and face soo much data entry paper works and havin a fever,did he ever care my health cant take it if anything happen how he goin to responsible for those who concern me?but now i got a feel of being single although life will not have passion or those feel but life will be much more ease isnt?i soo tired and thinking of gave up time to time..i know when he see this it will seem hurtfull here but please forgive me as i love you so much that you can hurt me soo easily times to times.i dont know whats on your minds..but whats on my mind is just doubt..
i sorry to trouble you all read so long post but same time thanks for reading..by:extremly confuse galz..
wall of text...
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sorry as i wrote there too..too much tots to express..and i having high fever so my mind just blown off>>shoo"<<< hahahaha
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Originally posted by I.M.T.K.W.Y.H.H.O.P.K:
sorry as i wrote there too..too much tots to express..and i having high fever so my mind just blown off>>shoo”<<<
hahahaha
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