are you happy being single *discussion*
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YES! I miss it so much!
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Originally posted by mistyblue:
YES! I miss it so much!
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Originally posted by I.M.T.K.W.Y.H.H.O.P.K:
i attached,but sometime the other half make me felt so sad that i dont know what to do,should i be blessfull and happy that i attached or not..?as this few days i having high fever everyone ask me dont go work and stay at home rest but i went to work ytd with the tempt of 39 degree..and i go work partly for him to help out at his home as he still studying soo now financier of course i took the responsibly isnt?sometime the things he does i felt his love and care sometime he just seem dont care..i so confuse by him time to time..got anyone guide me along this long hard journey of love?i call him up today when he at sch as he got free period then he keep telling me to go work “la”..as i so piss that i just told him if he so great enough go work himself and support himself or me?i know a kid dont have much saving as he birthday coming so i want prepare a outin?a dinner or someting?something special?but it goin to cost,who goin to pay?him?with the 100buck he have?you all know sg life is expensive isnt?i soo tired and stress up by work but no matter what when i reach home i will hang my smile and not release my stress to him or anyone in family?but who understand i breaking down times to times deep inside?so now i should listen to him and go work today whereby i still sick?is driving me insane to go work and face soo much data entry paper works and havin a fever,did he ever care my health cant take it if anything happen how he goin to responsible for those who concern me?but now i got a feel of being single although life will not have passion or those feel but life will be much more ease isnt?i soo tired and thinking of gave up time to time..i know when he see this it will seem hurtfull here but please forgive me as i love you so much that you can hurt me soo easily times to times.i dont know whats on your minds..but whats on my mind is just doubt..
i sorry to trouble you all read so long post but same time thanks for reading..by:extremly confuse galz..
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I c many happy singles. Singles should b happpy?
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Originally posted by crsteo:
I c many happy singles. Singles should b happpy?
why singles cannot be happy
why attached cannot be sad?
care to share such gay logics?
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Originally posted by seotiblizzard:
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Originally posted by popikachu:
Wtf? -
Sometimes i feel having a gf is quite good.
But most of the time...naaaaaaaaaaaaaa
Havent met the one
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singles are happy cause we don't have to worry about what other party thinks. It's kinda free in a sense? =S. I'm happy being single also lolx... but sometimes will still be bothered by some minor stuffs......
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When all the hypes quiets down, all singles or maybe some, will feel lonely and wish for a company. hmm..... of cos not for physical pleasure only la......
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I'm single since year 2008 started, and I'm loving it..
being single is like what people mentioned,
you don't have to worry about the other person in your life.
You don't have to go out when you don't feel like.
You don't have to stop caring for other friends that you treasured just because the other person don't like it.
You don't have to report to anybody except yourself.
You have more time and freedom to do financial planning and less financial burden or future to worry about.
Having the other party,
Brings you happiness when he/she surprises you with actions.
You have someone always(supposingly) there for you and depend on each other.
Add on commitments, and responsibilities. eg. for guys/girls have to secure marriage funds, future funds or Housing planning.
add on relationship building, eg. parents, siblings of each other. Meaning increase in cash flow for such events thus require a more well executed financial plan in order not to be portrayed as a miser.
Add on Jealousy, anger, denial especially when the time clash for both. PMS timings, both men and women have PMS. no more late nights.. have to report whereabouts with explanations/excuses/lies.
in summary, the sweetness of holding someone's hand is really one of a kind. but to hold on to it forever takes more than just a desire to feel love. because love don't last and it'll all revert to responsibilities and commitments that bond the relationship together.
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been single since 2006. love interest here nd there but never got close to being the actual r/s. and it's good. my life's good. i'm happy being single but that could be just me. and it's true that sometimes when i'm lonely, i tend to crave for a person's hug, someone to be my side etc.