Originally posted by Nata|ie:Everyday we face struggles, face decisions to be made. And everyday gets harder, because whatever one has experienced before, will affect how one make his/her decisions on situations that they face.
Thus you wake up a different person everyday, however it doesn't mean that your beliefs change.
When it gets harder and harder each time, you may want to look at your beliefs again and ask yourself if they are realistic.
Originally posted by cherrycola:
When it gets harder, come back here to be reminded and motivated
I'm the motivator most of the time and truly hope one day that this forum will die and there are no more singles coming here with their sob story.
Originally posted by Nata|ie:Blessed is he who expects nothing, for he shall never be disappointed.
:)
True, expectations are normally the killer to a bubing r/s.
Something to motivate lost souls here.
Originally posted by cherrycola:When it gets harder and harder each time, you may want to look at your beliefs again and ask yourself if they are realistic.
Well, you have to go through that experiences to know whether that belief is worth standing firm for.
I still believe in my beliefs. :)
Never give up on love...and never give up loving...
If i have done so..i wouldn't be happy and blissful now...
Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Well, you have to go through that experiences to know whether that belief is worth standing firm for.
I still believe in my beliefs. :)
Good to have in your beliefs
But keep an open mind about changing them as you gather different experiences
Originally posted by Callan:I'm the motivator most of the time and truly hope one day that this forum will die and there are no more singles coming here with their sob story.
Well, fyi. Singles Club is not really for Singles only. We have couples, singles, anyone and everyone who are living lives to their fullest (this I assume, well, I am living my life the best I can.)
It's a LONG LONG story on how Singles Club was created, anyway, some of the Singles here love being single. Haha.
Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Never give up on love...and never give up loving...
If i have done so..i wouldn't be happy and blissful now...
Of coz. If not, I wouldn't have seen you smiling so happily the last 2 times I saw you. Hehe
Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Of coz. If not, I wouldn't have seen you smiling so happily the last 2 times I saw you. Hehe
hahaha
Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:Never give up on love...and never give up loving...
If i have done so..i wouldn't be happy and blissful now...
Congrats!
Originally posted by cherrycola:
Good to have in your beliefsBut keep an open mind about changing them as you gather different experiences
That is needless to say. I got this feeling that you are about the same age as me or younger. No offence, just a feeling. :)
Pardon me, but this is getting a little too encouraging. Meaning, are we all gonna talk and make no action? Are we gonna just sit here and talk till the our spirits are in 7th heaven and let fate take over?
I'm afterall a realist, and I believe that rather than just talk, a lot of action should be done. So since we have talked so much, it's time to do even more.
Originally posted by cherrycola:
Congrats!
thank you
Originally posted by Nata|ie:
That is needless to say. I got this feeling that you are about the same age as me or younger. No offence, just a feeling. :)
Not offended at all
Originally posted by Nata|ie:
Well, fyi. Singles Club is not really for Singles only. We have couples, singles, anyone and everyone who are living lives to their fullest (this I assume, well, I am living my life the best I can.)
It's a LONG LONG story on how Singles Club was created, anyway, some of the Singles here love being single. Haha.
I know the history of the singles club. I was here long long before any of you appeared. But of course, I'm just targeting the singles, and I think you are single. *lol*
and callen makes a move on natalie ..
just joking ... /siams
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:and callen makes a move on natalie ..
Originally posted by Callan:Pardon me, but this is getting a little too encouraging. Meaning, are we all gonna talk and make no action? Are we gonna just sit here and talk till the our spirits are in 7th heaven and let fate take over?
I'm afterall a realist, and I believe that rather than just talk, a lot of action should be done. So since we have talked so much, it's time to do even more.
Well, there are so much to be said and it's also true that actions need to be taken as well.
Good luck to all. :)
Originally posted by Callan:I know the history of the singles club. I was here long long before any of you appeared. But of course, I'm just targeting the singles, and I think you are single. *lol*
This is embarressing. My bad in failing to recognize your senority here. :)
Originally posted by ä¸�如就æ»:and callen makes a move on natalie ..
just joking ... /siams
I got spotted again. It's really hard to be a professional buaya nowadays.
Originally posted by Callan:I got spotted again. It's really hard to be a professional buaya nowadays.
ç‹—ä»” are everywhere!!!!!
Originally posted by Nata|ie:
This is embarressing. My bad in failing to recognize your senority here. :)
Nah, you just complimented me by indirectly saying that I'm young. The pleasure is mine. But I'm just a old fart trying to be important here. So just pardon my pride.
Originally posted by Callan:To put in simply, hit and let go?
erm no, i never said that. ��sabo我, big brother's watching.
it simply means you live in a strange, lopsided world where the stakes are high and what you get don't always make sense with what you give, so forget about ready answers. just know what you'd rather have and get with it lor.
Originally posted by Callan:Pardon me, but this is getting a little too encouraging. Meaning, are we all gonna talk and make no action? Are we gonna just sit here and talk till the our spirits are in 7th heaven and let fate take over?
I'm afterall a realist, and I believe that rather than just talk, a lot of action should be done. So since we have talked so much, it's time to do even more.
Haha.
I guess we are all sharing and philosophilising at the moment.
It takes courage to act and we will all probably do when we find the one.