Do you prefer singlehood?
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/me enjoys singlehood and will not be getting into a r/s anytime soon .
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grr i hate being single :(
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depends on mood
i'm in the period of the year when i just want to be left alone
of course, i don't mind a companion when it's time to party
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Yes.. singlehood got its advantages and disadvantages.
Advantages... can go out with anyone without having need to report to someone.
Disadvantages... can be lonely at times.
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Originally posted by X-men:
Yes.. singlehood got its advantages and disadvantages.
Advantages... can go out with anyone without having need to report to someone.
Disadvantages... can be lonely at times.
If you are always out with someone(who ever it is) , it's not easy to be lonely. Sometimes I wish I have more time to myself.
Actually sometimes I feel that even when you are in a relationship, you dun really have to report to the person all the time. Trust is the key to managing a r/s in this manner, and such relationship are really enjoyable.
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sometimes i like single sometimes i like double
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Originally posted by Callan:
If you are always out with someone(who ever it is) , it's not easy to be lonely. Sometimes I wish I have more time to myself.
Actually sometimes I feel that even when you are in a relationship, you dun really have to report to the person all the time. Trust is the key to managing a r/s in this manner, and such relationship are really enjoyable.
actually i think 'reporting' is quite important to maintain a r/s.
don't have to see it in such a negative light, it's just about letting your other half know where or what you are doing and avoid unncessary suspicion and guessing in the r/s.
essentially give each a sense of security to make the r/s more stable
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Originally posted by TehJarVu:
sometimes i like single sometimes i like double
I prefer the California King.
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Originally posted by candiz:
actually i think 'reporting' is quite important to maintain a r/s.
don't have to see it in such a negative light, it's just about letting your other half know where or what you are doing and avoid unncessary suspicion and guessing in the r/s.
essentially give each a sense of security to make the r/s more stable
I dun mind if my partner just tells me that she is not free to meet up today because she is going out with her friends or whoever. She dun have to tell me who, what, where, why, how. If I have chosen her as my gf in the first place, I must firstly have trust in her. I dun guess nor be suspicious because such behavior is rather negative and seldom have any positive effects in a r/s. Let's say there is no such thing as marriage in this world, then the only possible reason the 2 of us can be together as a couple for the rest of our lives would be love ad trust. So if such basic conditions are not met, there is no reason to be in the relationship in the first place.
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Originally posted by Callan:
I dun mind if my partner just tells me that she is not free to meet up today because she is going out with her friends or whoever. She dun have to tell me who, what, where, why, how. If I have chosen her as my gf in the first place, I must firstly have trust in her. I dun guess nor be suspicious because such behavior is rather negative and seldom have any positive effects in a r/s. Let's say there is no such thing as marriage in this world, then the only possible reason the 2 of us can be together as a couple for the rest of our lives would be love ad trust. So if such basic conditions are not met, there is no reason to be in the relationship in the first place.
u cannot look at the issue from a guy's perspective only
it's not that gals don't trust, just that gals are slightly less secure and it helps alot if the guy can give her assurance and not just mere assertion of 'trust him'.
and guy's flirtatious tendency only make gals more insecure
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Originally posted by candiz:
u cannot look at the issue from a guy's perspective only
it's not that gals don't trust, just that gals are slightly less secure and it helps alot if the guy can give her assurance and not just mere assertion of 'trust him'.
and guy's flirtatious tendency only make gals more insecure
Trust me on what I'm going to say, I have yet cheated on anyone but a lot of girls have cheated on me. Shouldn't I be the one feeling insecure in this case? I dun think it is about the gender, guys or girls alike, if you are insecure, you are insecure. Just like there are girls who flirts and there are guys who flirts alike. My perspective is that as a person, it does not point to any gender in particular. It is asexual.
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Originally posted by jesslyn1992:
grr i hate being single :(
why ?
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Originally posted by Callan:
Trust me on what I'm going to say, I have yet cheated on anyone but a lot of girls have cheated on me. Shouldn't I be the one feeling insecure in this case? I dun think it is about the gender, guys or girls alike, if you are insecure, you are insecure. Just like there are girls who flirts and there are guys who flirts alike. My perspective is that as a person, it does not point to any gender in particular. It is asexual.
i always wanna cheat on my gf, but no heart to do so. but the intentions were there. and i always end up kena cheated instead, , , sian. . . . . -
back to topic, i'd prefer to be in a r/s . . . . it provides me with a sense of belonging, satisfying the desire to be desired.
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honestly, its not about sex, time or anything else but love.
I like to be attached because I like to be loved, and shower her with love. But in reality, managing the relationship isn't as easy as that.
Love to me its all about the feeling. If the feeling is not right, or isn't there in the first place, dun go into a relationship just because you're lonely.
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is loving someone really exhausting? i did regret when breaking up wif my ex.
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as what brainy always says in aa.
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Originally posted by MoDeX:
is loving someone really exhausting? i did regret when breaking up wif my ex.
Its not exhausting if you have found the right person who'd loves you.You may think she's demanding, childish, untrusting, unreasonable etc....but in the end, it is just because there is a lack of communication and understanding in relationship. Like I said, managing a relationship isn't easy....
Move on and not brood on the past...but dun be afraid to fall in love again. We all learn from failures.
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Is it just me or is this thread so full of hurt, secret feelings
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Originally posted by asharae:
Its not exhausting if you have found the right person who'd loves you.You may think she's demanding, childish, untrusting, unreasonable etc....but in the end, it is just because there is a lack of communication and understanding in relationship. Like I said, managing a relationship isn't easy....
Move on and not brood on the past...but dun be afraid to fall in love again. We all learn from failures.
i'll do agree.. time to move on..
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Being single u hv d advantage of doing things u want. Marriage is a commitment but on d other hand, u hv husband n children to love u n can keep u accompany when u r old.Friends come n go, they cant stay with u all d time.
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Originally posted by voice.00:
you seems very frickle-minded..make up of mind to be married or stay single.If u r married, u hv husband n children to keep u company through old age. But being single, unless u hv alot of friends or else u will be very lonely when u r old...so think abt it seriously!!
wad if the SO pass on before u, and ur kids decides to put u in a "home"?
GG man -
make frens wid da senior citizenz in da 'home' lo
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i still prefer life with a partner
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single FTW
can keep changing "partners"