the sequel - the 24 year old (and counting) virgin
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Yep - the title basically summarizes it well for me about my current state of affairs (funny, affairs? wouldn't mind finding myself in one - its about the closest I had come to having a girlfriend). Give myself another 16 more years - I could star in the 40-year old virgin if they ever had a re-make and we could start the movie with 'based on true events.'
Nope - this ain't another sobbing story of a kid not getting laid - moved passed that when I realised getting laid was alot harder than making money.
Well here's my story - I am 24 year-old and I have been single for the last 24 years of my life - yep, never been on a date, never came close to a girlfriend, let alone a naked chick under my bedcovers.
So how did it all started? - some of you might be guessing I am probably an ugly looking freak straight out of the comic book guy or Moe in Simpsons or perhaps there was something wrong with the male genitilia, making a banana seems more appealing.
Nope none whatsoever - yet a conundrum I face through my life..........wondering what exactly is wrong with me?
Any comments? Opinions? Insults? Jokes?
I have no idea......honestly. I do have female friends and we get along extremely well.......but there is always something that got in the way - she was attached, she was older or before I could think of making a move, we ended in the 'FRIENDS' zone (and there is no going back from there once you are in the zone) and just end up as the meterosexual gay friend she could spurt out everything about to and sleep with her boyfriend.
Well I am no Ng Teng Fong (though I aspire to be), not from the Khoo family, look nothing like Edison Cheng, don't cook like Jamie Oliver or with the smarts of Christopher Langan. Yeah, I will admit that.
But I am on a fast-track to a successful career with a pretty good income, have concrete plans ahead of my life, not a bad looking guy (some girls have said I look atleast average, but I am starting to get suspicious with their honesty with the way things are turning out) and as far as my attitude goes - I am very confident, eloquent, chatty, outgoing and easy-going, except when I am in the office and growling after my juniors with a face that makes Hell Boy look like an angel.
I mean, I am not perfect, not great - but I do feel I deserve a chance, I do feel I am better than some (well atleast a few) of the guys out there in the world today to deserve atleast a date, and especially those A%^^ who are disrespectful to their gfs and maltreats them, having no idea how lucky they are, and eventually cheating on or dumping their girls for others.
I guess you really need to be single and have a string of dry seasons before you realise how lucky you are to be even on a date.
Or perhaps the problem is of my race. Well, I am of Indian descent (though not from India or local). A little bit of my childhood and my current life - I grew up in a Chinese neighbourhood, both the school I went to and the office I am going is 99% populated by the Chinese, and my closest mates are Chinese. So perhaps that's the problem?
No, no, no - it's not that I am not into Chinese girls - I am fine with any girl from any background (except Russia and Germany perhaps, think the World War and Cold War turned them into fierce, rugby players or am I wrong?).
But I am guessing its the reverse - the Chinese girls are not into an Indian guy?
Yep, this need not any verification cause the truth is they aren't - the dark skin, funny body odour, funny accent and monkey fur seems to be turn-offs. Oh yeah -I have alot of these comments and insults thrown at me through my life - so there is nothing new about it.
I know this is a long story about my rather pathetic life. But I am guessing it would be something ginteresting to talk about, make fun of, and read, lol.
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having another half does not necessary make ur life better, u know ?
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first of all, it was an interesting read.
now, my humble two cents worth:
i think awareness is a first step, which you obviously have taken. pondering over the possibilities of why you are in such a state (not pathetic, definitely), considering the insults ppl throw at you in yr life, the fact that chinese girls generally don't go for indian guys etc. i wouldn't say they are not true, but they are not absolute either, aft all there are trends in every culture.
having said that, assuming you've covered yr grounds (looks, cash, personality, religion, physique...), then maybe you are right, you don't seem to be the problem because you are not the problem. if that's the case, the opportunity just hasn't surfaced yet. at 24, yr life journey has barely begun. maybe it's a problem of perspective. why did you use the word 'virgin'? is yr goal to lose yr virginity? if it is, i think the answer is easy. if it isn't, be patient.
when the chance presents itself, be sure to seize the day
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whats the big deal?
I am 25, single my whole life and a virgin too. I don't even have any female friends. I don't smoke, gamble, drink and go clubbing. Ia m the Mr Nice guy who is still single.
But I don't give a damn. I am happy with my life even without a gf.
Maybe when I reach 30 years old than I will start to kan chiong but definetly not now
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Keep at it. Whining helps. It's true.
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worst case comes you can buy a foreign bride
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Originally posted by Pro-Socialism:
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Originally posted by livingontheedge:
Yep - the title basically summarizes it well for me about my current state of affairs (funny, affairs? wouldn't mind finding myself in one - its about the closest I had come to having a girlfriend). Give myself another 16 more years - I could star in the 40-year old virgin if they ever had a re-make and we could start the movie with 'based on true events.'
Nope - this ain't another sobbing story of a kid not getting laid - moved passed that when I realised getting laid was alot harder than making money.
Well here's my story - I am 24 year-old and I have been single for the last 24 years of my life - yep, never been on a date, never came close to a girlfriend, let alone a naked chick under my bedcovers.
So how did it all started? - some of you might be guessing I am probably an ugly looking freak straight out of the comic book guy or Moe in Simpsons or perhaps there was something wrong with the male genitilia, making a banana seems more appealing.
Nope none whatsoever - yet a conundrum I face through my life..........wondering what exactly is wrong with me?
Any comments? Opinions? Insults? Jokes?
I have no idea......honestly. I do have female friends and we get along extremely well.......but there is always something that got in the way - she was attached, she was older or before I could think of making a move, we ended in the 'FRIENDS' zone (and there is no going back from there once you are in the zone) and just end up as the meterosexual gay friend she could spurt out everything about to and sleep with her boyfriend.
Well I am no Ng Teng Fong (though I aspire to be), not from the Khoo family, look nothing like Edison Cheng, don't cook like Jamie Oliver or with the smarts of Christopher Langan. Yeah, I will admit that.
But I am on a fast-track to a successful career with a pretty good income, have concrete plans ahead of my life, not a bad looking guy (some girls have said I look atleast average, but I am starting to get suspicious with their honesty with the way things are turning out) and as far as my attitude goes - I am very confident, eloquent, chatty, outgoing and easy-going, except when I am in the office and growling after my juniors with a face that makes Hell Boy look like an angel.
I mean, I am not perfect, not great - but I do feel I deserve a chance, I do feel I am better than some (well atleast a few) of the guys out there in the world today to deserve atleast a date, and especially those A%^^ who are disrespectful to their gfs and maltreats them, having no idea how lucky they are, and eventually cheating on or dumping their girls for others.
I guess you really need to be single and have a string of dry seasons before you realise how lucky you are to be even on a date.
Or perhaps the problem is of my race. Well, I am of Indian descent (though not from India or local). A little bit of my childhood and my current life - I grew up in a Chinese neighbourhood, both the school I went to and the office I am going is 99% populated by the Chinese, and my closest mates are Chinese. So perhaps that's the problem?
No, no, no - it's not that I am not into Chinese girls - I am fine with any girl from any background (except Russia and Germany perhaps, think the World War and Cold War turned them into fierce, rugby players or am I wrong?).
But I am guessing its the reverse - the Chinese girls are not into an Indian guy?
Yep, this need not any verification cause the truth is they aren't - the dark skin, funny body odour, funny accent and monkey fur seems to be turn-offs. Oh yeah -I have alot of these comments and insults thrown at me through my life - so there is nothing new about it.
I know this is a long story about my rather pathetic life. But I am guessing it would be something ginteresting to talk about, make fun of, and read, lol.
Modern Indians usually put cologne and we have no problems with that, but the major issue is culture and religion. would we have to convert our religion when we're with you? let's say to each his own, what about the kid? marriage culture is also different, everything is so different and difficult. it's not impossible though, my mom's boss' child marries a chinese (i know it's long lol)
anyway good luck =)
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Oh, don't let society put too much pressure on you.
So what if you have never had a gf or had sex? Big deal...
We're not wild beasts, so there's plenty more to life than sex. And married life ain't all it's made out to be anyways. I envy your freedom.
So unless you've always had aspirations of having children, don't worry!
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hmmmm..
getting laid or not, doesn't really matter.
do you wank?
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Originally posted by Pro-Socialism:
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NPNT.
Isnt it a trend for indian guy to be with chinese gal?
thats not the point aniwae.
pretty common for those iin their 20's to lack of a social life. -
if you are toking about lossing your "V" then just go Geylang lar....
if you toking of finding a gal, then you got to work harder... BTW it not that you have a GF you get to lose it :) not all gals have sex before marrage :)
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stop whining...
I'm 27 and I'm rich enough, not ugly and till now still single.
so what?
whining can't help,...when you think you have no problem that's the problem is.
logically, if everything is ok, should have gf right but the fact speak the other way round.
that's what my best friend told me. asked me to change.
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Originally posted by Pro-Socialism:
Nice
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lol
my cousin married an indian guy leh
already have a 2 year old kid liao leh
and she ish chinese
see hweeling 1 la
rike then go for it
dun dilly dally
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Originally posted by livingontheedge:
But I am guessing its the reverse - the Chinese girls are not into an Indian guy?
Mayb u shld realli go 4 indian gals.. go 4 ur own type.. thx.. -
Originally posted by livingontheedge:
Yep - the title basically summarizes it well for me about my current state of affairs (funny, affairs? wouldn't mind finding myself in one - its about the closest I had come to having a girlfriend). Give myself another 16 more years - I could star in the 40-year old virgin if they ever had a re-make and we could start the movie with 'based on true events.'
Nope - this ain't another sobbing story of a kid not getting laid - moved passed that when I realised getting laid was alot harder than making money.
Well here's my story - I am 24 year-old and I have been single for the last 24 years of my life - yep, never been on a date, never came close to a girlfriend, let alone a naked chick under my bedcovers.
So how did it all started? - some of you might be guessing I am probably an ugly looking freak straight out of the comic book guy or Moe in Simpsons or perhaps there was something wrong with the male genitilia, making a banana seems more appealing.
Nope none whatsoever - yet a conundrum I face through my life..........wondering what exactly is wrong with me?
Any comments? Opinions? Insults? Jokes?
I have no idea......honestly. I do have female friends and we get along extremely well.......but there is always something that got in the way - she was attached, she was older or before I could think of making a move, we ended in the 'FRIENDS' zone (and there is no going back from there once you are in the zone) and just end up as the meterosexual gay friend she could spurt out everything about to and sleep with her boyfriend.
Well I am no Ng Teng Fong (though I aspire to be), not from the Khoo family, look nothing like Edison Cheng, don't cook like Jamie Oliver or with the smarts of Christopher Langan. Yeah, I will admit that.
But I am on a fast-track to a successful career with a pretty good income, have concrete plans ahead of my life, not a bad looking guy (some girls have said I look atleast average, but I am starting to get suspicious with their honesty with the way things are turning out) and as far as my attitude goes - I am very confident, eloquent, chatty, outgoing and easy-going, except when I am in the office and growling after my juniors with a face that makes Hell Boy look like an angel.
I mean, I am not perfect, not great - but I do feel I deserve a chance, I do feel I am better than some (well atleast a few) of the guys out there in the world today to deserve atleast a date, and especially those A%^^ who are disrespectful to their gfs and maltreats them, having no idea how lucky they are, and eventually cheating on or dumping their girls for others.
I guess you really need to be single and have a string of dry seasons before you realise how lucky you are to be even on a date.
Or perhaps the problem is of my race. Well, I am of Indian descent (though not from India or local). A little bit of my childhood and my current life - I grew up in a Chinese neighbourhood, both the school I went to and the office I am going is 99% populated by the Chinese, and my closest mates are Chinese. So perhaps that's the problem?
No, no, no - it's not that I am not into Chinese girls - I am fine with any girl from any background (except Russia and Germany perhaps, think the World War and Cold War turned them into fierce, rugby players or am I wrong?).
But I am guessing its the reverse - the Chinese girls are not into an Indian guy?
Yep, this need not any verification cause the truth is they aren't - the dark skin, funny body odour, funny accent and monkey fur seems to be turn-offs. Oh yeah -I have alot of these comments and insults thrown at me through my life - so there is nothing new about it.
I know this is a long story about my rather pathetic life. But I am guessing it would be something ginteresting to talk about, make fun of, and read, lol.
Hi livingontheedge,
Have you ever considered using some of the dating services?
Cheers.