Was it a 'hint'? Or am I just dreaming?
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Hello Hello,
Well, the below story may bore some of you to sleep, but this has been a question running through my head ever since that night we had dinner. Would appreciate your opinion on the matter.
So here's what happened - to make long story short.
I guess I should introduce the girl. She was a very close friend of mine. We hanged out, studied together, chat endlessly over coffee and perhaps the only girl I would talk to on the phone for about 4 hours. Once we were just sitting in her car, we spoke for the whole night from 10 pm to 7 am in the morning.
This was a girl who shared everything with me - her secrets, family issues, problems, stuffs about her family's wealth she would never tell anyone, her dreams, and even fantasies (by this I mean, her bedroom fun of coz). Same goes for me. Someone we could trust.
Okay, I guess I am starting to bore some of you already so I will skip to the story at hand.
Well there is one evening we were having dinner, just the two of us. We were chatting as normal and came across the topic of 'the type of guys she would go for and consider for a relationship.'
Somewhere along the line, she mentioned the below statement:
'I would go out with guys like you' (or something along those lines, can't remember the exact words).
Subsequent to this, we just went silent and continued eating, eventually replacing the conversation with another topic.
What I would like to know is whether this was a hint? Was it a hint that she would date me, consider me more than a friend, and a doorway to a relationship?
If it is...............boy am I the dumbest guy ever!!!!
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then try dating her lah.
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i think your more like a best friend to her.
and that......... would pose a problem.
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tell you wat...
"Joo need Teh Tiger beer..."
If u come online to get courage, most likely u'll just get flamed or +1... If u wanna go for it then jia you... I'm sure you got rough idea, just tat u need some confirmation which getting from ppl in forum is rather dumb... But still go for it...
Or maybe u can play ard with words... like if she said she like guys like u, ask her why? ask her in a smiling or luffing way so incase if the reply is not wat u wanted, u wont be sooo embarassed... If u wanna go a step further, simply reply to her that her type is wat you looking for... See how she reply...
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TS, take your chances with her....
not physically.....not yet
Wish you success
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Yes, you are the dumbest guy ever.
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i am sensing a chance though. she may be interested in you
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yeh u dumbo. i think she likes you but she could also be unsure of her feelings. why dun u test her also by dropping some hints and check her reaction out.
you can also put ur hand over her shoulder casually while walking together, then let go. do this a few times and see how she reacts.
when sitting opposite each other, u can also put ur hand over her hand for a few seconds as if to emphasise something and then let go. do this a few times and see how she reacts.
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Chunk of words... Turns me off nowadays lol
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still ok ah... Wall of text is worst when the engrish ish phail...
TS posted still quite ok ah...
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
still ok ah... Wall of text is worst when the engrish ish phail...
TS posted still quite ok ah...
my english = phail. T.T
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Originally posted by popikachu:
my english = phail. T.T
euuu ish not TS wor... u wan TS draw diagram bo???
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Originally posted by ^Acid^ aka s|aO^eH~:
euuu ish not TS wor... u wan TS draw diagram bo???
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wtf are u waiting for?
She's hinting hard at u, and here u are asking the obvious?
Aniwae, the decision's gonna be hard.
cos if things get sour, forget about "sharing" with her again.
choose properly. be her bff, or bf. -
someone like you still not enough to catch the hint?
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dumb.... real dumb..
its so obvious... what you should do now is maybe just try to be normal... go out with her as usual and when the chance arises, maybe just ask her, what would she do if you decided that you want to start courting her and take the relationship to the next level... see her response... like that she will act shy and try to shift the conversation to other topics, but observe her reaction, maybe she is damn happy deep down, blushing with happiness. Then conclude by telling her that you will start to court her as from today.
I know how you feel, you will happy, your heart beat increases, you are nervous when you see her, all those feelings when you are in love with this person and when this person gives you a chance. Go for it, i would say, otherwise you are the dumbest person i have ever encountered.
You will never know unless you try, if you dont try, then you might live to regret it for the rest of your life.
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you BOZO! .___________________________________________________.
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should reply... why do u think u like ppl like me? we haven even go out as couple yet..
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gxgx...
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should reply... why do u think u like ppl like me? we haven even go out as couple yet..
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quite obvious loh, revealing interest in you already.
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Originally posted by livingontheedge:
Hello Hello,
Well, the below story may bore some of you to sleep, but this has been a question running through my head ever since that night we had dinner. Would appreciate your opinion on the matter.
So here's what happened - to make long story short.
I guess I should introduce the girl. She was a very close friend of mine. We hanged out, studied together, chat endlessly over coffee and perhaps the only girl I would talk to on the phone for about 4 hours. Once we were just sitting in her car, we spoke for the whole night from 10 pm to 7 am in the morning.
This was a girl who shared everything with me - her secrets, family issues, problems, stuffs about her family's wealth she would never tell anyone, her dreams, and even fantasies (by this I mean, her bedroom fun of coz). Same goes for me. Someone we could trust.
Okay, I guess I am starting to bore some of you already so I will skip to the story at hand.
Well there is one evening we were having dinner, just the two of us. We were chatting as normal and came across the topic of 'the type of guys she would go for and consider for a relationship.'
Somewhere along the line, she mentioned the below statement:
'I would go out with guys like you' (or something along those lines, can't remember the exact words).
Subsequent to this, we just went silent and continued eating, eventually replacing the conversation with another topic.
What I would like to know is whether this was a hint? Was it a hint that she would date me, consider me more than a friend, and a doorway to a relationship?
If it is...............boy am I the dumbest guy ever!!!!
Hi livingontheedge,
She is hinting to you that she likes you, and is waiting for your reply. Please don't let her wait too long.
Cheers.
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gg
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She wants your brother
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Originally posted by popikachu:
Chunk of words... Turns me off nowadays lol
Hello Hello,
Well, the below story may bore some of you to sleep, but this has been a question running through my head ever since that night we had dinner. Would appreciate your opinion on the matter.
So here's what happened - to make long story short.
I guess I should introduce the girl. She was a very close friend of mine. We hanged out, studied together, chat endlessly over coffee and perhaps the only girl I would talk to on the phone for about 4 hours. Once we were just sitting in her car, we spoke for the whole night from 10 pm to 7 am in the morning.
This was a girl who shared everything with me - her secrets, family issues, problems, stuffs about her family's wealth she would never tell anyone, her dreams, and even fantasies (by this I mean, her bedroom fun of coz). Same goes for me. Someone we could trust.
Okay, I guess I am starting to bore some of you already so I will skip to the story at hand.
Well there is one evening we were having dinner, just the two of us. We were chatting as normal and came across the topic of 'the type of guys she would go for and consider for a relationship.'
Somewhere along the line, she mentioned the below statement:
'I would go out with guys like you' (or something along those lines, can't remember the exact words).
Subsequent to this, we just went silent and continued eating, eventually replacing the conversation with another topic.
What I would like to know is whether this was a hint? Was it a hint that she would date me, consider me more than a friend, and a doorway to a relationship?
If it is...............boy am I the dumbest guy ever!!!!
nah the condensed version,all in red