Is she into you?
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NEVER invest your heart, time, money or energy with a woman who is not interested in you. Although this might seem like common sense, in reality we always see the exact opposite scenario. Love is a two way street. A one sided affair will only be just that, one sided.
Men have been brainwashed by mainstream media into thinking that he should have perseverance/determination when pursuing a woman he is interested in. We see it all the time in cinemas and on TV. The usual story goes like this. A guy goes after a lady he is interested in. After being rejected for the first time, he refuses to give up. He thinks of ways and means to win her heart. He starts to do various nice things for her in a bid to win her over. And after a while, the lady finally falls for him due to all his efforts. This is classic brainwashing because this is not how it works in reality. And every time men watch these scenarios in movies and drama serials, we begin to think that this is how it’s supposed to be. It can’t be further from the truth. This bullshit out there is seriously ruining our chances with women and is counter-productive. If the lady is interested in the guy, she will display certain signs. If she is not, then she is not. No matter what you do, she will never be interested in you. Period.
Men need to learn to read signs of interest. When you see the red man on the traffic light, you do not cross the road. When you see the green man, you cross. Men are crossing even when the red man is on. It’s suicide, my fellow brothers. Here are some green signs you can rely on to gauge her interest in you.
Before you approach her, you notice that she is repeatedly looking at your direction and checking you out. Some girls who are shy or nervous might resort to stealing glances instead. When you approach her to initiate small talk, her eyes seem extra bright and she’s all smiles. Some of them will try very hard to contain their high interest in you but it will show through their nervousness. When talking to her, the conversation is flowing freely. Her responses are NOT short or one word answers or utter silence. After 5-8 minutes of small talk, you ask her for her number. She gives it to you WITHOUT hesitation. She doesn’t come up with some stupid excuse like “Why don’t you give me your number instead”, “I don’t have a phone”, “I don’t even know you well”, “We’ve only spoken for 5 minutes”. The list goes on, but I think you guys get the drift here. As long she does not give you her number, she has absolutely no interest in you. It’s time to move on to the next girl! On very rare occasions there might be exceptions, but she will still offer some other contact alternative such as email address with enthusiasm and without you asking for it.
When you ask her out for a specific date, such as Tuesday 8pm Marina Square Starbucks, she agrees or counters with another specific date and time if she cannot make it on your proposed date. If she does not counter with another specific date and time, it’s a sign of lack of interest in you. It’s time to delete her number and hustle other girls. If she agrees and subsequently breaks the date on the actual day few hours before with some stupid excuse like her sister is giving birth and she needs to be at the hospital, it means lack of interest. It’s time to delete her number and hustle other girls. The exception is when she breaks the date DAYS IN ADVANCE and counter offers another specific date and time to make up for it.
When you finally meet her on the actual date, her eyes are still bright and she’s still all smiles. Conversation is still flowing freely. She will tend to ask you a lot questions that are too personal for a friend. Do note that she should not be asking you questions in an interrogative manner. You will know because it will feel like you are being grilled by the police at Criminal Investigation Department. She laughs at your corny jokes. She does NOT offer to pay for her own share of drinks/food. She will create chances to accidentally touch or bump into you. She mentions the future with you included. Like “I had fun, hope to see you again” or “My favorite band is playing next Saturday, would you like to come with me to watch them perform”.
If you are getting none of the green signs and full of red signs, you better get out of there and start hustling other women. NEVER invest your heart, time, money or energy with a woman who is not interested in you. -
How bout something for the ladies?
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Getting boring like i said. Again another man article. Not only men are brainwashed by the media btw.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Getting boring like i said. Again another man article. Not only men are brainwashed by the media btw.
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TS has issues ? -
love is more about giving than receiving ma.............
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Originally posted by Fenixx:
love is more about giving than receiving ma.............
yupp, and it works both ways.
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
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TS has issues ?Btw, i LOVE women. But women have no problems understanding men. On the other hand, most men are clueless when it comes to women. And there is already a lot of advice out there for women. Whether women are being brainwashed, i do not wish to comment.
Hugs and kisses to you ladies!
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Orly
women have no problems understanding men. On the other hand, most men are clueless when it comes to women
Fail here. Assumptions once again. Love is about two sides not just one.
Oh ya, whats with that name of yours ? Promoting your blogspot once again ?
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Orly
women have no problems understanding men. On the other hand, most men are clueless when it comes to women
Fail here. Assumptions once again. Love is about two sides not just one.
Oh ya, whats with that name of yours ? Promoting your blogspot once again ?
agreed
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Orly
women have no problems understanding men. On the other hand, most men are clueless when it comes to women
Fail here. Assumptions once again. Love is about two sides not just one.
Oh ya, whats with that name of yours ? Promoting your blogspot once again ?
naisely said
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oh no. she's not into me. i'm in her.
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
Btw, i LOVE women. But women have no problems understanding men. On the other hand, most men are clueless when it comes to women. And there is already a lot of advice out there for women. Whether women are being brainwashed, i do not wish to comment.
Hugs and kisses to you ladies!
zzzzz. . .
i'd say women are as clueless as men are.
Are you one of those that cant make it with the boys, thus creating these articles so that they will fall prey to you?
These arent advises. They're just INSTRUCTION that you'd wish men would follow for the benefit of the women.
Be glad that in this 21st century, men are not dragging women by their hairs after being clubbed. -
Originally posted by sinicker:
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oh no. she's not into me. i'm in her. -
Originally posted by sinicker:
-looks at thread title-
oh no. she's not into me. i'm in her.
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
zzzzz. . .
i'd say women are as clueless as men are.
Are you one of those that cant make it with the boys, thus creating these articles so that they will fall prey to you?
These arent advises. They're just INSTRUCTION that you'd wish men would follow for the benefit of the women.
Be glad that in this 21st century, men are not dragging women by their hairs after being clubbed.If women do not understand men, they would not be wearing make up, wearing high heels and short skirts. Men are too easy for women to read.
I can see you have a good imagination but i don't even wish to make it with the boys. I only wish more good guys possess the knowledge to make it with good women.
When someone is not clear on a certain subject. In my opinion, its best to impart knowledge in a instructional manner which is very specific as compared to giving general principles which are greatly subjected to interpretation.
In this 21st century, divorce cases are on the rise. Divorce rate in USA is 50% and two thirds of the time women file for divorce first. Singapore is heading right in that direction.
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HAHA! So what you're trying to imply is that men are shallow, so looking pretty and revealing flesh is all that needs to be done by women? Is that what you have observed on the internet? Or did the latest movie you caught gave you the idea? statement is flawed, woman! Don go around acting like a guy!. .
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
HAHA!
So what you’re trying to imply is that men are shallow, so looking pretty and revealing flesh is all that needs to be done by women? Is that what you have observed on the internet? Or did the latest movie you caught gave you the idea?
statement is flawed, woman!
Don go around acting like a guy!.
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Men are not shallow, men are just more visual than women. Looking attractive is only the beginning, women need to be more than that of course. I don't need the internet or movie to give me any ideas, just look at how much women spend money on make up and other stuff to make sure they look pretty to attract men.
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
If women do not understand men, they would not be wearing make up, wearing high heels and short skirts. Men are too easy for women to read.
I can see you have a good imagination but i don't even wish to make it with the boys. I only wish more good guys possess the knowledge to make it with good women.
When someone is not clear on a certain subject. In my opinion, its best to impart knowledge in a instructional manner which is very specific as compared to giving general principles which are greatly subjected to interpretation.
In this 21st century, divorce cases are on the rise. Divorce rate in USA is 50% and two thirds of the time women file for divorce first. Singapore is heading right in that direction.
Understanding.
You boldly claimed women understand men by make up and short skirts. Yes you are right, men are visual beings. But wait, are you implying that women aint ?I can see you are baised in your trains of thought. Relationships are not black and white, 1+1=2.
The bolded parts are your bais or assumptions. I seriously need to run a bias check everytime i see your comments.
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Originally posted by maskedangel:
HAHA!
So what you’re trying to imply is that men are shallow, so looking pretty and revealing flesh is all that needs to be done by women? Is that what you have observed on the internet? Or did the latest movie you caught gave you the idea?
statement is flawed, woman!
Don go around acting like a guy!.
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-_-"TS is a guy la...wah lao...
U mean you couldn't tell from all the MCP comments?!
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Understanding.
You boldly claimed women understand men by make up and short skirts. Yes you are right, men are visual beings. But wait, are you implying that women aint ?I can see you are baised in your trains of thought. Relationships are not black and white, 1+1=2.
The bolded parts are your bais or assumptions. I seriously need to run a bias check everytime i see your comments.
i posted a topic called 'Do looks matter to women' and you replied to it. Please question everything you read, do not assume its the truth.
Just because you bolded some parts of my post doesn't mean it is false.
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
i posted a topic called 'Do looks matter to women' and you replied to it. Please question everything you read, do not assume its the truth.
Just because you bolded some parts of my post doesn't mean it is false.
Ya ? I replied to it ?
Dint i clearly indicate on my post the reasons ? If you think i am incorrect, you can always rebutt
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One cannot live on love and fresh air alone.
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till now we only hear demands on men in "nice phrases" (which we could just see through without much intellectual exercise)....we have yet to achieve balanced interests in the legal framework...
ita real lop sided system which we will more singles n divorces...
women understanding men? they have more knowledge n problems with their nails than with understanding us
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Originally posted by TTFU:
Ya ? I replied to it ?
Dint i clearly indicate on my post the reasons ? If you think i am incorrect, you can always rebutt
Ya, this is what you replied. "Thats why love needs to be carefully maintained. By both parties. The spark needs to be there to keep love in a fresh state."
Seems like you agree with what i posted, there's nothing to rebutt.
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Originally posted by SgLoveCop@blogspot:
Ya, this is what you replied. "Thats why love needs to be carefully maintained. By both parties. The spark needs to be there to keep love in a fresh state."
Seems like you agree with what i posted, there's nothing to rebutt.
Ya two sided ? Anything to do with your post ?