Originally posted by Caloybehavian:a while a go a friend of mine broke up totally with his boyfriend... she waited for 2 months wondering if ever his boyfriend will get back to him..my friend have done everything bring him flowers, and chocolates as well as cards to try to win him back... but things did not work well.. i advice him to date online or get out later and go to bars...
His bf? You mean he is ... ![]()
Dear diary,
last night i cried all becasue of my ex. he has come back to haunt me alive. he said that he and i have not made a clear broke up?wtf? i already told him very nicely previous we are just not made together.somemore, i own up to him some things, that i should not have done during the relationship period with him.
now another party who likes me, very well known as a girl. she cried this morning, like just now after i told her everything.now, i feel so bad. someone is blackmailing me, someone is so stress and having her exams today.what the fuck did i do till i made this became?
i feel so useless that i cant even clear every single problems im having.
brainy
Originally posted by cApitaland:eh u still got feelings for him uh.
i dont have at all.
Dear brainy,
If I were you, I'd let the police handle it. ![]()
Originally posted by kiseki:Dear brainy,
If I were you, I'd let the police handle it.
i wished :(
braine, simple case go police file a report that your ex is harassing you.
If he try more that 3 times.
You can ask police for protection or even they can dropby your door step or patrol downstair. They will keep a look out for your ex. If he see him around your house area after warning. They will take him in and give free coffee session.
If he keep bombing your fone.. hmm police will suggest you change you line. unless his sms incured or violent like: " I going to kill you" "I want you dead." or "you going to die in my hand". This such case police will take the next action to find that person.
Basically if you are scare he will come to door step to create problem. just file a report. If he really show up. pls call police. Let police handle will be better than you kana blackmailed.
Originally posted by Bubblyl3:braine, simple case go police file a report that your ex is harassing you.
If he try more that 3 times.
You can ask police for protection or even they can dropby your door step or patrol downstair. They will keep a look out for your ex. If he see him around your house area after warning. They will take him in and give free coffee session.
If he keep bombing your fone.. hmm police will suggest you change you line. unless his sms incured or violent like: " I going to kill you" "I want you dead." or "you going to die in my hand". This such case police will take the next action to find that person.
Basically if you are scare he will come to door step to create problem. just file a report. If he really show up. pls call police. Let police handle will be better than you kana blackmailed.
actually im not afraid of him, but he wont come to my area, nor have the time to do so. all i know, he can just give my mom a call, i'll be gone for good. i know my mom will scold and do so many things. plus, i apologise to him already..and if i dont do anything upon my ex's request, he will start telling my mom..
do i have to be his sex slave?
Originally posted by brainerror:actually im not afraid of him, but he wont come to my area, nor have the time to do so. all i know, he can just give my mom a call, i'll be gone for good. i know my mom will scold and do so many things. plus, i apologise to him already..and if i dont do anything upon my ex's request, he will start telling my mom..
do i have to be his sex slave?
then be honest with ur mum first
nothing is worse than to be blackmailed by someone ...
and ur ex is a jerk to use what you've done to blackmail you ...
Break it to your mum first. Talk to her nicely, let her know you're serious, tell her the whole matter and what the jerk is trying to do. I'm sure once she gets past being upset and all, she will forgive you. She will even support you in bringing that jerk into the hands of the law.
Yup, in the past when i got problems i am also like u brainy, try to solve myself .. till one day my mother find that something is wrong with mi she talk to mi and tell mi one sentence w0ot i feel damn touched, "No matter how old r u, no matter r u married anot, as long i am still ard on this earth u are always my little boy and i will be there to help u and be there for u"
Ok apparently, that was like when i am sec 2 and not that little.
and pls, brainy ..don't blackmail him back so that he will not blackmail you as what i saw someone suggesting to you in SB..
I don't know the full story, so can't help much. But I would say that talking to ur mum about it is the best solution..
I agree with ah blue. Don't follow inappropriate advice brainy. Talk to your mum, so that he won't have anything on you. You will feel much better, really.
thank you everyone..
mid, i let what your mom said..
Originally posted by brainerror:thank you everyone..
mid, i let what your mom said..
U let my mom wat?
Originally posted by Midlusionz:U let my mom wat?
I think she means like. ![]()
Originally posted by Midlusionz:U let my mom wat?
my error, i liked your mom's phrase.
everyone, to share good news, we had broke contact thou im crying now.
i think, i still cant bear to let go of him.
Dear diary,
i'm going to confess next week,
using a montage that i have made...
hopes that i can make it this time...
ncs
Originally posted by brainerror:
my error, i liked your mom's phrase.
everyone, to share good news, we had broke contact thou im crying now.
i think, i still cant bear to let go of him.
That's good. Uhh, not worth crying over such junk. Move on! ![]()
Originally posted by alvin-ncs:Dear diary,
i'm going to confess next week,
using a montage that i have made...
hopes that i can make it this time...
ncs
Good luck!!! ![]()
Originally posted by kiseki:Good luck!!!
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Dear Diary,
i've been jumping into conclusions to fast and blaming people for everything.Pls grant me the ability to change myself so that i wont be so hot-headed.
Originally posted by alvin-ncs:
Why are you blushing? ![]()
Originally posted by eeden.:Dear Diary,
i've been jumping into conclusions to fast and blaming people for everything.Pls grant me the ability to change myself so that i wont be so hot-headed.
Dear eeden,
Only you can change yourself. I'd say, as long as the determination is there, you can do it.
Originally posted by kiseki:Dear eeden,
Only you can change yourself. I'd say, as long as the determination is there, you can do it.
haha thanks alot. ![]()
Originally posted by brainerror:Dear diary,
last night i cried all becasue of my ex. he has come back to haunt me alive. he said that he and i have not made a clear broke up?wtf? i already told him very nicely previous we are just not made together.somemore, i own up to him some things, that i should not have done during the relationship period with him.now another party who likes me, very well known as a girl. she cried this morning, like just now after i told her everything.now, i feel so bad. someone is blackmailing me, someone is so stress and having her exams today.what the fuck did i do till i made this became?
i feel so useless that i cant even clear every single problems im having.brainy
Dont worry. Im here for u. Everything will turn out fine.![]()
PS. Tell me tht mofo name.