Magistrate's complain against my mother- NEED HELP PLEASE!!
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As distressing as it sounds, i'm filing a magistrate's complaint against my biological mother for harrasment. Before you jump the gun, let me tell you that my mother is a crazy and psychotic. She has done things you will never believe like call strangers up, crying blemishing my wife's name. She also once called my friends over, took a packet of sugar and told them that this was all drugs. She's dillusional. Since Jan, when i finally moved out of her place, she she's been sending me mail almost daily and sms which consist of deregoratory terms and verbal abuse. Most of the material are mainly projected towards my partner. But the fact of the matter is that all this causes stress and I'm seeing a psychologist about this.
I'm going to court to face her next week, in what other way can i make my case stronger? I've got all the mail and the sms's. If i get written testimonials from people whom she have communicated about me and my wife will that help?
What else can i Do?
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aren't you gonna help her overcome her craziness and psychotic behaviours?
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u should have send her to IMH at hougang/ buangkok for proper medical attention/ treatment/ counselling...
IMH: www.imh.com.sg
instead, u sueing ur own mother... dog bite mother... how unfilial... -
I've tried, she thinks that I'm crazy. She's a very toxic person, I cannot stress how toxic is she. She was never active in my early life, my parents divorced when i was 5, She went on and become a social escort. Came into my life back when I was 13 and tried buying her love. It was like that since then. She is in denial that she has some sort of depression and psychosis.
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why dun you haf a doctor over to assess her situation then?
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then u never try hard enough to help ur mother...
i sympathise ur childhood, but she is ur mother afterall, u r borned out of her womb. its a fact and u cannot change it, and its just fate too that u r her son, and she is ur mother.
if u r going to court for the court to impose an order for her to be admitted to IMH, then its still okay. but if u r sueing her to be jailed/ fined/ detention...etc, then cannot agree with ur actions... -
I just want her to leave me alone, that's all. It was very hard enough for me to make a police report against her. The stress she cause and she's causing is already hard enough for me to bear. I just want to know is there anything i can do to make my case stronger?
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IMH specialist memos/ reports
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Since u said she got mental problem .. U think things will end after the court case? No it will not.
Why not seek professional help? AND LET SAID, she kill your partner (touchwood!) and she's a mental case .. She might jolly well just be send to a mental hospital and that's all.
I dunno bout u but like wat other said, afterall this is your mum .. In our life we can choose to be who we wanna be, who to be our other half, wat friends u wan but u can't choose who's your parents and in this life if u r destined to be her child its a kind of fate.
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Originally posted by Youreffortsarefutile:
As distressing as it sounds, i'm filing a magistrate's complaint against my biological mother for harrasment. Before you jump the gun, let me tell you that my mother is a crazy and psychotic. She has done things you will never believe like call strangers up, crying blemishing my wife's name. She also once called my friends over, took a packet of sugar and told them that this was all drugs. She's dillusional. Since Jan, when i finally moved out of her place, she she's been sending me mail almost daily and sms which consist of deregoratory terms and verbal abuse. Most of the material are mainly projected towards my partner. But the fact of the matter is that all this causes stress and I'm seeing a psychologist about this.
I'm going to court to face her next week, in what other way can i make my case stronger? I've got all the mail and the sms's. If i get written testimonials from people whom she have communicated about me and my wife will that help?
What else can i Do?
she's obviously psychotic .... but she's your mother .....
so instead of filling a complaint against her, have you thought of engaging a shrink for her ? .....
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If she's really psycho, don't think she will obey the restraint order right? Yes, you should consult doctors instead of suing her. Talk to IMH? See if they can offer solution. You got siblings who can help?