muslim marriages when.....
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when one partner has to convert....haiz... this is wad i m going thru...problematic.....my mom not happie...say everything listen to the mother in law...thn i this mom for wad?
say all this type of things...as she noes tt muslim marriages is like this... everything is muslim way mah... thn my sis oso never give in woa lao...thn my bro and i kena stuck in the fucking center....damn shitty feeling.... juz quarrelled wif my mom... juz now tok abt money thn she buey song woa lao...my sis and her like enemies now... is this type of marriages so scary??? if so thn i don wanna get married.... knn somemore my sis is eldest...haiz..... wad to do sia?? feel like juz runing away....
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i think my mom cannot tahan tt my sis got no chinese wedding... haiz.... i wonder wad was it like for my mom and dad to get married...
was there the same conflict? haiz... only god noes...this matter haf been buging me...as its drawing nearer~~ more prob. come out... i think it drives down to one thingy.... my mummy she pu de ~ hmm... actually... i oso...coz last time she and i....we always quarrel.... untill fight...but now when she is gone....i got no more sis to fight wif...things will b diff.i donno wad to say oso now...at this moment.... but...one thing is for sure... i love my sis.... jiejie...wo ai ni~ tuei pu qi... -
cross cultural marraiges are very special...it involves 2 person who are really in love with each other, and 2 families who are willing to accept the other...take heart, dun look at it as losing a sister, but gaining a brother-in-law...it's not like she's going to migrate to some far away country...
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i noe... haiz... but sure diff one.... haiz~~~
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of course it's different! you will be more exposed to a new culture, your family has to adapt to someone of a different race,(not forgetting he has to adapt to yours). afterall, the way they were brought up is different from yours. look on the bright side, at least, you can improve your bahasa melayu and try to pick up some minah...Originally posted by ^TzM 53^:i noe... haiz... but sure diff one.... haiz~~~
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wah liew, did i hear wrong?? haha well, ivan, u should be happy for your sist lor. Now its the time lor, time for both of ya'll to come to another stage of life, where she starts her own family and u have to look for your path too. Don think so much lah, everyone has to come to this stage, this is just the starting nia...Originally posted by ^TzM 53^:i think my mom cannot tahan tt my sis got no chinese wedding... haiz.... i wonder wad was it like for my mom and dad to get married...
was there the same conflict? haiz... only god noes...this matter haf been buging me...as its drawing nearer~~ more prob. come out... i think it drives down to one thingy.... my mummy she pu de ~ hmm... actually... i oso...coz last time she and i....we always quarrel.... untill fight...but now when she is gone....i got no more sis to fight wif...things will b diff.i donno wad to say oso now...at this moment.... but...one thing is for sure... i love my sis.... jiejie...wo ai ni~ tuei pu qi...