What is love??? Read this and you may get your answer...
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Love
When you think of your past love, you may view it as a failure.
But when you find a new love, you view the past as a teacher.
In the game of love, it doesnÂ’t really matter who won or who lost.
What is important is you know when to hold on and when to let go!
You know you really love someone when you want him or her to be happy, even if his or her happiness means that you are not part of it.
Everything happens for the best.
If the person you love doesnÂ’t love you back, donÂ’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you will never know unless you give it a try.
You will never love a person you love unless you risk for love.
Love strikes in hurting.
If you donÂ’t get hurt, you donÂ’t learn how to love.
Love doesnÂ’t hurt all the time.
Though the hurting is still there to test you, to help you grow.
DonÂ’t find love, let love find you.
That is why it is called falling in love because you donÂ’t force yourself to fall.
You just fall.
You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters.
If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress.
It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing.
The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go.
We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse.
But donÂ’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time.
To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure.
But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self.
To love is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love; fall but not stumble, be constant but not too persistent, share and never be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt but never keep the pain.
Love is like a knife.
It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul that always last for a lifetime.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling.
It should inspire you and give you joy and strength.
But sometimes the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end.
Loving people means giving them the freedom that they choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him or her the freedom to find his or her way, whether it lead towards you or away from you.
Love is a painful risk to take but the risk must be taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only then you will experience the fullness of humanity and that is love.
Only love can hurt your heart, fill you with desire and tear you apart.
Only love can make you cry and only love knows why.
If you are not ready to cry, if you are not ready to take the risk, if you are not ready to feel the pain, then you are not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we get hurt, then I figured that is why it is called falling in love.
Whatever happened, donÂ’t give up!
It is just a trial.
Have faith in yourself and cheer up.
When you decide to love, allow it to grow.
When you promise to love, refuse it to die!
May all my friends find their true love and be with their loved ones foreverÂ… -
so, what is the moral? love sux?
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i still dont get it -
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Wah all these chiminology very chim leh
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This Thing Called Love
There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or yourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words.
We say 'take care' or 'don't drive too fast' or 'be good.' But really, these are just other ways of saying 'I love you,' 'you are important to me,' 'I care what happens to you,' 'I don't want you to get hurt.'
We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say, is the one thing we don't say. And yet, because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted
Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments which are expressed insincerely
An impulsive hug says I LOVE YOU even though the words might be saying very different. Any expression of a person's concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface.
A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully, he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same
A daughter comes home late, way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may hear only the anger, but if she listens carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. "I was worried about you," the father is saying. 'Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.
We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely
We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone who has not listened to the love we have tried to express.
The problem is listening for love is that we don't always understand the language of love which the other person is using. A girl may use tears or emotions to say what she wants to say, and her boyfriend may not understand her because he expects her to be talking his language. Thus, we have to force ourselves to really listen for love.
The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but they don't listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize.
Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place after all:
LOVE is a happy thing.
It makes us laugh.
It makes us sing.
It makes us sad.
It makes us cry.
It makes us seek the reason why.
It makes us take.
It makes us give.
Above all else, it makes us LIVE.
It is not the presence or absence of people that makes the difference because a person need not be lonely even if he is alone. Sometimes it is good to be alone. But that does not make us lonely. It is not a matter of being present WITH someone. It is a matter of being present to someone.
So remember...
If you love someone, tell them. Remember always to say what you mean. Never be afraid to express yourself. Take this opportunity to tell someone what they mean to you. Seize the day and have no regrets.
Most importantly, stay close to your friends and family, for they have helped make you the person that you are today and are what it's all about anyway.
Pass this along to your friends. Let it make a difference in your day and theirs. The difference between expressing love and having regrets is that the regrets may stay around.
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so long to read.....can u provide bulletpoints?Originally posted by hxm:Wah all these chiminology very chim leh -
i love u man!Originally posted by Hydro:This Thing Called Love
Pass this along to your friends. Let it make a difference in your day and theirs. The difference between expressing love and having regrets is that the regrets may stay around. 
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can somebody summerise into point form...
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NB. u guys and ur long thesis make love a boring subject......zzzzzz... read already can sleep.
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no, should sayOriginally posted by hyuuga neji:can somebody summerise into point form...
can somebody pls summarize in 10 words or less what the hell that was about. -
Hmm.
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Love is Winged Cupid painted Blind.Originally posted by the.raven:no, should say
can somebody pls summarize in 10 words or less what the hell that was about. -
love is not meant to be talked...it's meant to be madeOriginally posted by the.raven:no, should say
can somebody pls summarize in 10 words or less what the hell that was about. -
hmm...12 words...okOriginally posted by bratpig:love is not meant to be talked...it's meant to be made
dont talk love...make love
5 words -
whoa 2 different summaries, which one is correct?
ok dun care.
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