Whoever asking for a date should pay?
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But, how many women have actually asked you out? does that means guys should keep paying or stop asking ladies out for a date?
any suggestions?
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guys always pay fulls stop
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any reason why?Originally posted by Pyoro:guys always pay fulls stop -
Can be Dutch what
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because ladies are to be pampered. like giving flowers, opening doors and pulling the chairs out for her etc......Originally posted by caramon:any reason why? -
Go dutch. Problem solved.
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Does woman expects to be paid for? I mean, we don't want them to say we are cheap..Originally posted by elindra:Can be Dutch what -
waiter seperate checks for me and the lady beside meOriginally posted by shade343:Go dutch. Problem solved. -
if that's the case... I tink nobody will wan to take the intiative to date pple liao cos they muz pay for the exp during the date mah...
On dutch or share the cost is the best... -
There will be a few that expects the guy to pay
But I think most ladies don't hold that expectation anymore -
But.... think most guys will offer to pay lor due to their pride.
Guy's Mind.... What will others think of him when seeing a lady paying for him? That's e feedback I hv gotten from most of my guy frens. -
Dun like to pay for woman , then to go out with woman lor. Singapore gahmen never say must go out with woman mah.
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They are bluffing you.. In fact, guys love ladies to pay for them.. it makes them feel good..Originally posted by XinYi:But.... think most guys will offer to pay lor due to their pride.
Guy's Mind.... What will others think of him when seeing a lady paying for him? That's e feedback I hv gotten from most of my guy frens. -
Oh is it? Never knew that.
But how come most of the time my guy frens will always ask the waiter or cashier to take the payments from them instead of getting it from the ladies?
hmmmm..... a gesture of a gentleman? -
most ladies i go out with will ask to go dutch or pay me back after i pay for them. else they treat me back another time (and they do). those who do not have earning power yet, i will treat them. cos usually we don go exp places. only my wife and godsis got special deal from me. no need to pay me back.
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they pride too big. i don mind if a lady pays for me. i will direct the bill to them if its their turn to pay.Originally posted by XinYi:Oh is it? Never knew that.
But how come most of the time my guy frens will always ask the waiter or cashier to take the payments from them instead of getting it from the ladies?
hmmmm..... a gesture of a gentleman? -
you are married. it is different. i think the thread is about singles dating right?
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dont be so stingy la ............
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funny why women ask for equality in every area yet when it comes to paying they conveniently forget.......
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YOu can always inform the waiter that you and your partner intend to go dutch before you start ordering.Originally posted by Pyoro:waiter seperate checks for me and the lady beside me -
You mean YOU feel good if a lady pays for you?Originally posted by caramon:They are bluffing you.. In fact, guys love ladies to pay for them.. it makes them feel good..
Last time I tried to pay for my gf's bill, she strongly insisted we go dutch But who doesnt like a free lunch? -
are u dragamon?Originally posted by dragg:funny why women ask for equality in every area yet when it comes to paying they conveniently forget....... -
hey even now that i am married i still go out with my female friends. and don forget that before i wan married i was also single. to tell u the truth i have gone out with a fair share of ladies and they are not like wat this thread says. my wife tells me that this happens oni when the guy INSIST on paying for everything.Originally posted by dragg:you are married. it is different. i think the thread is about singles dating right? -
i don mind. as long as both of us are working and earning money, it does not matter to me who pays. if she pays for me then the next time is my treat. simple as that. no need waste time calculation all the 10% 5% 1% charges.Originally posted by shade343:You mean YOU feel good if a lady pays for you? Last time I tried to pay for my gf's bill, she strongly insisted we go dutch But who doesnt like a free lunch? -
Go dutch.