For those who keep complain about their bf/gf!!!
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Food For Thot.... for those whu keep complain abt
ur gf/bf
Message: Once upon a time gt 1 newly wed
couple.. A boy n
a ger...
One dae when dey r at their new hse, d ger said to
d boy..." Eh dear ar, arbo we each take 1 piece of
paper n write down wateva we dun like abt each
other la.. Den we xchange.. Lydat we wud noe
exactly wat we dun like abt each other den we can
change.. Lydat we wud improve our relationship
ma hor?"
D boy sae ok lor....
So dey each took a piece of paper n went into
different room... After a few hours, dey came out n
xchange d papers...
D ger pass d boy a paper wif a full list of tings she
dun like abt d boy.. D boy pass d ger a blank
piece of paper...
D ger kena snook...She ask " Eh y blank de?"
D boy look into her eyes n said " Dear...I dun wan
u 2 change anything.. I luv u for wat u r.. If u
change, u r no longer d ger i fall in luv in d 1st
place.. wat for wan u 2 change?"
D ger broke into tears...
Thus, those of u dat alwaes complain abt ur better
half.. E.g "Eh y u lydat de keep dun wan go
bathe!" "Eh y u lydat de keep watch soccer!" "Eh y
u lydat de keep spend so long put makeup!" "Eh y
u lydat de keep play friendster dun pei me!".....
Dun Complain le... Remember dat when u first set
ur eyes on her/him, he/she is oredi lydat? No one
is an angel.. Learn 2 accept whu she oredi
is...Dat's y he/she makes ur better half... -
agrees~
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maybe complaining is a inbuilt programe in girls?
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Actually, it's prettie normal for a couple to grumble abt each other, we're human afterall. Not ev. thg I do will be to my guy's liking, & some of his habits may irk me.
But being in love means we accept these faults, & still love each other nonetheless. It doesn't mean we dun grumble once in awhile, tho. However, we've managed to keep it humourous by pretending to justify our grumblings to each other, e.g., "Why muz u buy a pair of earrings a wk?! They're Not like fish, they dun move" Ans: "But they sparkle, & they look prettie on me, unlike YOU, spending $ on ugly worm-like fish"
Then we haf a laff abt it, & tease each other.
Can be q. fun wat
FeowFeowOriginally posted by misslady:Food For Thot.... for those whu keep complain abt
ur gf/bf
Message: Once upon a time gt 1 newly wed
couple.. A boy n
a ger...
One dae when dey r at their new hse, d ger said to
d boy..." Eh dear ar, arbo we each take 1 piece of
paper n write down wateva we dun like abt each
other la.. Den we xchange.. Lydat we wud noe
exactly wat we dun like abt each other den we can
change.. Lydat we wud improve our relationship
ma hor?"
D boy sae ok lor....
So dey each took a piece of paper n went into
different room... After a few hours, dey came out n
xchange d papers...
D ger pass d boy a paper wif a full list of tings she
dun like abt d boy.. D boy pass d ger a blank
piece of paper...
D ger kena snook...She ask " Eh y blank de?"
D boy look into her eyes n said " Dear...I dun wan
u 2 change anything.. I luv u for wat u r.. If u
change, u r no longer d ger i fall in luv in d 1st
place.. wat for wan u 2 change?"
D ger broke into tears...
Thus, those of u dat alwaes complain abt ur better
half.. E.g "Eh y u lydat de keep dun wan go
bathe!" "Eh y u lydat de keep watch soccer!" "Eh y
u lydat de keep spend so long put makeup!" "Eh y
u lydat de keep play friendster dun pei me!".....
Dun Complain le... Remember dat when u first set
ur eyes on her/him, he/she is oredi lydat? No one
is an angel.. Learn 2 accept whu she oredi
is...Dat's y he/she makes ur better half... -
i agree with Feowolverine, being jestful always helps in a relationship. unless ur partner is the dead serious type then lan lan. if both are jestful and gives in to each other or talk things out. explosion is very much likely to happenOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Actually, it's prettie normal for a couple to grumble abt each other, we're human afterall. Not ev. thg I do will be to my guy's liking, & some of his habits may irk me.
But being in love means we accept these faults, & still love each other nonetheless. It doesn't mean we dun grumble once in awhile, tho. However, we've managed to keep it humourous by pretending to justify our grumblings to each other, e.g., "Why muz u buy a pair of earrings a wk?! They're Not like fish, they dun move" Ans: "But they sparkle, & they look prettie on me, unlike YOU, spending $ on ugly worm-like fish" Then we haf a laff abt it, & tease each other.
Can be q. fun wat
FeowFeow -
Maybe my bf should read about this....
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or is it sometimes u go too far... don everything blame on bf.. must check urself alsoOriginally posted by Ayla:Maybe my bf should read about this.... -
when you're pissed with the little bad habits of your partner, quickly think about the time he held you tight when your parents quarrel, or the time she cried cos you fell down and hurt yourself and bleeding in the knee, of how you both were cooking together in the kitchen, or......
xiang1 ai4 rong3 yi4, xiang1 chu3 nan2. compromises are inevitable. -
wat if don have sweet memories?Originally posted by starblue:when you're pissed with the little bad habits of your partner, quickly think about the time he held you tight when your parents quarrel, or the time she cried cos you fell down and hurt yourself and bleeding in the knee, of how you both were cooking together in the kitchen, or......
xiang1 ai4 rong3 yi4, xiang1 chu3 nan2. compromises are inevitable.
wonder if u can really do that when it happens to u.
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very true, so if ur gf is slim when u met her, accept her as she is and get angry if she becomes fat after that...Originally posted by misslady:Dun Complain le... Remember dat when u first set
ur eyes on her/him, he/she is oredi lydat? No one
is an angel.. Learn 2 accept whu she oredi
is...Dat's y he/she makes ur better half... -
You won't understand...Originally posted by dzylim:or is it sometimes u go too far... don everything blame on bf.. must check urself also
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if only life was that simple it can be summed up by a hundred words (or so) posted on an online forum..
such thinking will only make u complacent.
falling in love with a person once upon a time doesn't mean u have to continue loving a person based on that instant in time. pple change, whether or not they're in love. we all (i hope!) want to change for the better, whether or not we're in love.
also when we're single, there are things we do that no one will complain. for example a guy staring at a girl becos she's damn chio. now if this guy had a gf next to him, isn't it disrespectful (at the least) to his gf if he were to do it as a habit? this is something he has to control. when he's not with her, he can look all he wants, provided it doesn't go further. but still, isn't he "modifying" his usual behavior out of respect, love, courtesy even, to his gf?
it's a nice story, but we live on earth, not in words.
i love words, it's where i can escape, but dun forget to come back and live a happy life, NOT totally based on ideals.. -
I disagree with the first part, but totally agree with the secondOriginally posted by FeowFeow:Actually, it's prettie normal for a couple to grumble abt each other, we're human afterall. Not ev. thg I do will be to my guy's liking, & some of his habits may irk me.
not all got complain, it depends on individuals. anyway, my ex-colleague complain about his wife everytime aiyo.. cannot tahan him... guess, he make his first complain when i barely know him!
... and I am not the only, almost everyone he met... pathetic... -
You know why relationships fail? Because we have people who read this type of article and starts to have unrealistic expectation of their partners.
In any relationship, there is bond to be little habits which annoys the other and misunderstandings.
If we look at a relationship as being a machine in motion. If there is a loose screw, stop the machine and tighten it. If not, the loose screw may just cause an accident. If your other half did something you do not like totally, bring it up to him/her in private. Tell him/her directly that you do not like to see that happening. Make compromises, ask him/her what he/she do not like about you and try to change it. This way, the relationship can grow.
It's the little things that makes all the big differences.
By the way, rewards are nice.