Originally posted by rumie:
i'll love her as long as the sex is still gd.. haha~ just kidding!!!
i feel that, as people here have suggest, try not seeing or contacting her for days and see if you miss her or not.
and even if you do, i think it doesnt mean anything as you might just be lonely.
think of it this way... if, for some reason, ur gf wants you to lend her $1000 cash, will you? yes i will. as in, if my bf la...
if... your gf ask you to skip a day's work or school just to be with her, will you? this one must see mood. but most prob, will.
if... your gf asked you not to hang out with your friends and just be with her on a single day even though you know both of you won't be doing anything much, will you? this one also must see mood. but most prob no.
if... you've an impt meeting at work or a class test tmrw, and your gf called and asked you to meet her because she's feeling really low and you're just about to sleep, will you? if he's feeling really low, i might ba...
if... you're really tired, and just wanna sleep, and your gf asked you to come out to entertain her, will you? NOO!!!!
so what do you think? do i still love him? actually, yes i do i do. deep down inside i know i love him very much and i think life would be very different without him. he treats me very good. all the things he has done for me....i know de. but i seldom tell him i love him because i only say it when i really mean it. or you know, sometimes you just don't feel like saying it. saying too much "i love you"s is really meaningless i think.
now i think he thinks that i don't know all the things he has done for me. today he asked me whether i have fallen in love with someone else. it's totally ridiculous. coz he thinks that i do not treat him as nicely as last time. last time i was very siao, always make noise. now i grow up le, my behaviour sorta change le...eh? i also dunno why. i don't like kissing anymore. i don't like cuddling in bed. all these i don't want anymore. not like last time when i was younger...urgh. don't even want to say what happened last time. just that now, i'm quite disgusted with kissing and stuff. don't get me wrong. there's nothing wrong with kissing and urm..showing affection. but now that i have grown older, i seem to see things more clearly. and some stuff, i really want to leave them till when we are older. i want to tell him that but i think that would hurt him so much.
oh. i know this thread supposed to be for guys ah.
anyway, i'm really touched to know that guys, despite the majority always behaving like they don't care about anything, can feel so deeply. i always thought girls were the more emotional ones.
haiz. i feel like crap. also dunno what i'm talking..byeeee
