Should I go for her

• KamHoe

  11 Apr 05, 21:36

  There is a girl that I like. Know her for 5 years already and getting really close lately. She is really nice and hardworking. But already got a bf.
  
  Should I go for her or shouldn't I go?
• CoolMyth

  11 Apr 05, 21:40

  Fair advice: All's fair in love. Go for it.
  
  Honest advice: Better not. Why want to be a 3rd party?
• jay_rocks

  11 Apr 05, 21:43

  don go chap ji kar. ltr u sure kena reject de cauz she alreadi got bf le
• Omega-broly

  11 Apr 05, 21:43

  As long as they not married, u will still have a chance to win her heart.
• hisoka

  11 Apr 05, 21:46

  erm i personally wont do it( will wait for break then swoop in though) but if you feel strongly hor go for it
• BrUtUs

  11 Apr 05, 21:56

  Originally posted by KamHoe:

  There is a girl that I like. Know her for 5 years already and getting really close lately. She is really nice and hardworking. But already got a bf.
  
  Should I go for her or shouldn't I go?

  will u be happy if a guy suddenly come in and jio your gf? better not dude.... forgetaboutit....
• KamHoe

  11 Apr 05, 22:18

  I felt like she knows me very well and I can really talk to her openly. She really listen to me. And Sometime quite happy together.
  
  Is it really that bad to go after someone already attached?
• ha8n

  11 Apr 05, 22:22

  yes ,unless she broke off
• FireIce

  11 Apr 05, 22:23

  make ur feelings known to her
  but let her make the choice
• KamHoe

  11 Apr 05, 22:27

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  make ur feelings known to her
  but let her make the choice

  Thanks,
  
  Think this is what I should do.
• Gordonator

  11 Apr 05, 22:30

  find out how she feels about u first. maybe can ask her friends to help u ask.
• agk_titan

  11 Apr 05, 22:33

  its like warfare bro....do some recon first..
  find out wats the situation like between her and her bf
  
  like they keep having quarrels..got something against each other..etc
  
  if conditions suitable for you to strike then go ahead man~
  
  u love her..want her to be happy..then shld do it when her bf isnt doing that mah
• AngGuKuay

  11 Apr 05, 22:39

  Jia You!!!
• KamHoe

  11 Apr 05, 23:14

  wish myself best of luck and best of effort.
  
  hope for the best and ready for the worse.
• plo30360

  11 Apr 05, 23:16

  Originally posted by KamHoe:

  wish myself best of luck and best of effort.
  
  hope for the best and ready for the worse.

  Even if you don't get her. Remember Singapore, got higher female popluation. Plenty of fish in the sea. Thus, knowing that you are the precious commodity in this case, should boost your morale.
• bratpig

  11 Apr 05, 23:17

  seriously dont do it lor...u will only bring misery to yourself...the probablity of her accepting you is friggin low....and even if she did....u should know...this kinda girl who jumps ship....u still want meh?
• starblue

  11 Apr 05, 23:17

  it's always not nice to go for attached girls. i mean, if i were attached, and a guy friend tells me he likes me, i'll avoid him. dunno if that girl is like me or not loh....
• SMAPLionHeart

  11 Apr 05, 23:20

  DON'T GO FOR ATTACHED GIRLS!
  
  its stealing pple's gf..like what happened to me..
• KamHoe

  11 Apr 05, 23:39

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  DON'T GO FOR ATTACHED GIRLS!
  
  its stealing pple's gf..like what happened to me..

  What happened to you?
  
• binZ

  11 Apr 05, 23:54

  Originally posted by agk_titan:

  its like warfare bro....do some recon first..
  find out wats the situation like between her and her bf
  
  like they keep having quarrels..got something against each other..etc
  
  if conditions suitable for you to strike then go ahead man~
  
  u love her..want her to be happy..then shld do it when her bf isnt doing that mah

  ha ha. i agree in someways tat it is like warfare. knowin the situation is impt.
  
  but.. if u really like the girl, i dun think it is good to strike when she is still uncertain and vulnerable. if u do so.. i guess u probably dun like her tat much and probably just want a "kick" out of this...
  
  wait for ur chance, dude.. even if it nv come, be happy tat she is with someone she really likes.. love is not about conquer only u know. its about giving~ especially for someone tat deserve it. if she dun deserved it, dun waste time in the first place. ^^
  
  sorry~~ im a blunt fellow. no offence thoug.
• bratpig

  11 Apr 05, 23:58

  Originally posted by binZ:

  ha ha. i agree in someways tat it is like warfare. knowin the situation is impt.
  
  but.. if u really like the girl, i dun think it is good to strike when she is still uncertain and vulnerable. if u do so.. i guess u probably dun like her tat much and probably just want a "kick" out of this...
  
  wait for ur chance, dude.. even if it nv come, be happy tat she is with someone she really likes.. love is not about conquer only u know. its about giving~ especially for someone tat deserve it. if she dun deserved it, dun waste time in the first place. ^^
  
  sorry~~ im a blunt fellow. no offence thoug.

  u guys are sick...fancy using warfare to steal other people's gf
• plo30360

  12 Apr 05, 00:01

  Originally posted by bratpig:

  u guys are sick...fancy using warfare to steal other people's gf

  All is fair in love and war. Its totally different thing if you steal another man's wife though...
• the.raven

  12 Apr 05, 00:48

  be a jerk and steal his GF
  
  are you asshole enough to do it???!?!
• SMAPLionHeart

  12 Apr 05, 00:49

  Originally posted by KamHoe:

  What happened to you?
  

  later the bf come find you...
  
  im a victim of gf stealers..
• Simple_Bear

  12 Apr 05, 11:34

  Yoz...
  
  Seriously U might wanna consider the consequences of going after a gal in a relationship...
  
  E.g. an angry BF might come after U...
  
  I dun advise U to go after a gal who is attached
  
  But if she isnt happy in the relationship...maybe...U can try going after her...
  
  U muz gather the 'intelligence'...before embarking on any operations...tt will increase Ur chances of success...
  
  All the best Dude...
  
  Cheers...