The difference between guys and gals-my friend true story.
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MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the 25th May, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks before she agreed to patch up wif me on the 10th Apr. I was so happy I could jump and pluck the moon down for her if she asked.
But ALAS, she broke off wif me again on the 14th Apr, she even wrote down her feelings on a piece of paper. I'll take a few extracts from the letter:
- during these few days that we're together, I feel that I really can't bring myself to love you, there's no feeling towards you at all.
- I am not ready to settle down at 23, and you are not the guy now to consider settling down wif. You are no longer the guy I love.
- I'm still young and there's a long way ahead of me to walk. I can't bring myself to plan my future wif you.
- I wish that you'll stop sms me, call me or look me up. I need a peace of mind, a clear mind.
- I wanna say sorry for the past few days that I've given you flase hope, for holding on and thinking far with me.
We had an hour long talk last night, she sounded happy, relaxed, excited at the new found single-dom. Though she admitted she loved me alot alot, but it was the past, the feeling has faded. I almost cried out, but I told myself not to cry infront of her. She assured me and my uncle that there's no 3rd party. She just want to be alone. Why the sudden change? I don't understand.
She let our r/s of 6 years go so easily! I really love her very much and I really feel like it's end of world now. I want to die, but I can't. I haf no mood for anything now. No one has ever made me so miserable b4, the 3 weeks of tears I've shed are more than wat I've cried when I was still young. This fall is so great, I don't think I'll be able to get up. The scar is so deep, I won't accept another.
I don't her to be owned by other ppl, other guys. I want her to be mine alone only. I even joked to her that if ever she's married to another guy and she invites me to her wedding, I'll sing Eason Chan's Hun Li De Zhu Fu. I can't imagine other guys, holding her hand, kiss her cheeks, etc. I'll go MAD. I think I'll kill the guy, kill her then kill myself. I'm serious..
There's this girl I'm very close to all along, during the 3weeks, I confided in her most of the time. She had hinted that she'll be wif me if I asked. I feel she just wanted to help me forget her. All the more I can't accept her, I can't bear to let my ex go, I don't want to hurt this good friend of mine. I've become self protected, I'm afraid I'll be hurt a 2nd time.
She flew off to China this morning 10am for a week long holiday wif her sister. Women can be so heartless ya? After hurting someone she's loved so long, still can go enjoy... -
Reconciled even before breakup?Originally posted by caramon:MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the 25th May, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks before she agreed to patch up wif me on the 10th Apr. I was so happy I could jump and pluck the moon down for her if she asked -
outer space alien time gos from december to january..Originally posted by Drain-V-:Reconciled even before breakup?
hence the problem.. -
lolx...
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Parallel universes do exist.
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Don't think that she is heartless. She may have consider things through very thoroughly before making this decision.Originally posted by caramon:MY gf of 6 years broke up wif me on the 25th May, saying she wanted to be alone. I was living in hell for 3 weeks before she agreed to patch up wif me on the 10th Apr. I was so happy I could jump and pluck the moon down for her if she asked.
But ALAS, she broke off wif me again on the 14th Apr, she even wrote down her feelings on a piece of paper. I'll take a few extracts from the letter:
- during these few days that we're together, I feel that I really can't bring myself to love you, there's no feeling towards you at all.
- I am not ready to settle down at 23, and you are not the guy now to consider settling down wif. You are no longer the guy I love.
- I'm still young and there's a long way ahead of me to walk. I can't bring myself to plan my future wif you.
- I wish that you'll stop sms me, call me or look me up. I need a peace of mind, a clear mind.
- I wanna say sorry for the past few days that I've given you flase hope, for holding on and thinking far with me.
We had an hour long talk last night, she sounded happy, relaxed, excited at the new found single-dom. Though she admitted she loved me alot alot, but it was the past, the feeling has faded. I almost cried out, but I told myself not to cry infront of her. She assured me and my uncle that there's no 3rd party. She just want to be alone. Why the sudden change? I don't understand.
She let our r/s of 6 years go so easily! I really love her very much and I really feel like it's end of world now. I want to die, but I can't. I haf no mood for anything now. No one has ever made me so miserable b4, the 3 weeks of tears I've shed are more than wat I've cried when I was still young. This fall is so great, I don't think I'll be able to get up. The scar is so deep, I won't accept another.
I don't her to be owned by other ppl, other guys. I want her to be mine alone only. I even joked to her that if ever she's married to another guy and she invites me to her wedding, I'll sing Eason Chan's Hun Li De Zhu Fu. I can't imagine other guys, holding her hand, kiss her cheeks, etc. I'll go MAD. I think I'll kill the guy, kill her then kill myself. I'm serious..
There's this girl I'm very close to all along, during the 3weeks, I confided in her most of the time. She had hinted that she'll be wif me if I asked. I feel she just wanted to help me forget her. All the more I can't accept her, I can't bear to let my ex go, I don't want to hurt this good friend of mine. I've become self protected, I'm afraid I'll be hurt a 2nd time.
She flew off to China this morning 10am for a week long holiday wif her sister. Women can be so heartless ya? After hurting someone she's loved so long, still can go enjoy... -
Originally posted by Drain-V-:Reconciled even before breakup? wtfomg
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is this the good post you mentioned earlier this morning? i already told you i won't believe.
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don like that la...ppl break up liao,u still like that...Originally posted by dragg:is this the good post you mentioned earlier this morning? i already told you i won't believe. -
Even if the story is true, its common what.
Its common for some people to get sick of each other after a long time, especially at that kinda young age (late teens to early 20's). In fact, if the feeling is gone, its better to break up. And its common for people to feel depressed and shocked after breaking up, like to feel like its the end of the world, etc. And its also common for people to come back, patch up for a while, just to confirm their feelings.
Er....the question is: what's this gotta do with the difference between guys and girls? (as mentioned in your title) -
r u hallucinating?
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just move on. forget about her.....
after a few months, you will find her having another boyfriend....
This is the fact. she just could not be with you anymore and she will be single now and open for the rest of the guys.....
it's normal. just let go and move on. -
You should watch Sex and The City, there's such a thing called BreakUp-Sex.
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gentlerock, i like the cat in your sig. hehe.. so cute...
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girls are heartless. i can understand how you feel. they are like "cant be bothered" thinking that we guys are like tying them down. KNN!
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You know what FireIce will say to this, right? "You want an animated sig too? Good, sarport us and rber to join P-member"Originally posted by starblue:gentlerock, i like the cat in your sig. hehe.. so cute... 
The link to the cat is here, if you want it http://www.gifs.net/animate/catwalk.gif -
i bet u 10 bucks she went china wif her new bf.
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Originally posted by gentlerock:Er....the question is: what's this gotta do with the difference between guys and girls? (as mentioned in your title) i wanna know also...
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u spelled false wrong...which is amazing since u define false urselfOriginally posted by caramon:But ALAS, she broke off wif me again on the 14th Apr, she even wrote down her feelings on a piece of paper. I'll take a few extracts from the letter:
- during these few days that we're together, I feel that I really can't bring myself to love you, there's no feeling towards you at all.
- I am not ready to settle down at 23, and you are not the guy now to consider settling down wif. You are no longer the guy I love.
- I'm still young and there's a long way ahead of me to walk. I can't bring myself to plan my future wif you.
- I wish that you'll stop sms me, call me or look me up. I need a peace of mind, a clear mind.
- I wanna say sorry for the past few days that I've given you flase hope, for holding on and thinking far with me. -
concept the same. probalby not this trip... but i'm sure next trip to europe / australia / chian will go together with her new bf...Originally posted by a13xz:i bet u 10 bucks she went china wif her new bf.
kid, wake up!!! forget about all the stories/reasons she told u....
you just got dumped .... buckle up... tomorrow is better...
probably you will find a better one...
STERN WARNINg:
don't go to investigate who her next new bf is, what is the real story blah blah blah... None of them is your business anymore... -
'cause it's an inconsistency in a lie.Originally posted by Drain-V-:Reconciled even before breakup? -
thank you very much!
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Originally posted by Boo!!:thank you very much!
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Originally posted by Respect_the_dead:
thank you very much! -
thank you very much!Originally posted by Boo!!:
thank you very much!
