Approaching the opposite sex............
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Hi everyone out there.. need your views / help / feedback:
As everyone knows, every one likes to make new friends ..
Now the thing is, if you want to approach a girl (of guy) assuming both about same age.. how are you going to start the conversation?
Like you meet this person on the bus or anywhere else and you want to get to know him/her better.
Anyone has any things to share on how to start a friendly conversation? -
Haha... Its not easy unless its through friends... Cos if someone approach me I won't know what motive the person has...
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Just do the wrong thing
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talk abt weather
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maybe this can help....
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=125933
if you want to make a long-lasting impression, you can try "xiao-jie, ai sio gan mai?" -
"Miss, I would like your views on any one area of technical development which will assist Australian industries to meet Kyoto Protocol targets."
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today evening i saw a nice girl.. walk from the bus stop(we took same bus)
then she walk to her home.. i took the same route and by chance saw her house.. she was alone and we like so called walk together... (private housing estate.. few people around)
i felt like striking conversation with her but didnt know how to
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tell her that her buttons are undoneOriginally posted by 105090:today evening i saw a nice girl.. walk from the bus stop(we took same bus)
then she walk to her home.. i took the same route and by chance saw her house.. she was alone and we like so called walk together... (private housing estate.. few people around)
i felt like striking conversation with her but didnt know how to -
so fakeOriginally posted by fuck fuck fuck:tell her that her buttons are undone -
just tell her you find her pretty and was wondering if she would mind having you as a friend lor, in that kind of circumstances with nothing in common how you appraoh her also means that anywayOriginally posted by 105090:today evening i saw a nice girl.. walk from the bus stop(we took same bus)
then she walk to her home.. i took the same route and by chance saw her house.. she was alone and we like so called walk together... (private housing estate.. few people around)
i felt like striking conversation with her but didnt know how to -
"erm, excuse me, may i know the time please?? hey! that's a cute watch, where did you get it?"
"waiting for a friend? me too... *big smile*"
"hey, can i borrow your newspaper for a while?"
"hey, you know stats by any chance?? can you help me with this sum?? i totally suck at it ya know...
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just talk about anything loh... i don't think people will feel you're wierd one lah.. as long as you speak naturally, not showing that you're hitting on them, sure ok one. at least it's always worked for me. ;p -
hi, wanna check out my.....?
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got once i was in the mrt, this guy beside me look deep in my eyes and said......"u have nice blue eyes........"
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and informed him tt there is this technology called "colored contact lens".......
then he went on to some small talk like where me working blah blah blah.....then ask for lumber.....blah blah blah
me no give lumber, oni give email.......and he oso no email me.........bah! -
my house run out of salt...i need to...
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I actually have friends (both guys and girls) who dare to approach the opposite sex by just walking up and saying "May I get to know you?".....even if the person they're approaching is not alone. And some of them have succeeded too.
As for me, I don't dare to, unless one of the following conditions are met:
(1) She has given me a signal like a smile or some other form of acknowledgement.
(2) We have seen each other before and know each other by face.
(3) I've been drinking.
(4) She's been drinking.
(5) No one is looking.
At times I've succeeded....other times, I been rejected. -
" .....need to have the salty taste of your sweat? "Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:my house run out of salt...i need to... -
Bro, you already answered it yourself.Originally posted by 105090:Hi everyone out there.. need your views / help / feedback:
As everyone knows, every one likes to make new friends ..
Now the thing is, if you want to approach a girl (of guy) assuming both about same age.. how are you going to start the conversation?
Like you meet this person on the bus or anywhere else and you want to get to know him/her better.
Anyone has any things to share on how to start a friendly conversation?
"As everyone knows, everyone likes to make new friends" -
how abt start with a 'hi'......Originally posted by 105090:Hi everyone out there.. need your views / help / feedback:
As everyone knows, every one likes to make new friends ..
Now the thing is, if you want to approach a girl (of guy) assuming both about same age.. how are you going to start the conversation?
Like you meet this person on the bus or anywhere else and you want to get to know him/her better.
Anyone has any things to share on how to start a friendly conversation? -
+1...Originally posted by CoolMyth:maybe this can help....
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=125933
if you want to make a long-lasting impression, you can try "xiao-jie, ai sio gan mai?" -
Handsome and chim english will do the trick
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I think the question is "does it work on you?"Originally posted by starblue:"erm, excuse me, may i know the time please?? hey! that's a cute watch, where did you get it?"
"waiting for a friend? me too... *big smile*"
"hey, can i borrow your newspaper for a while?"
"hey, you know stats by any chance?? can you help me with this sum?? i totally suck at it ya know... "
just talk about anything loh... i don't think people will feel you're wierd one lah.. as long as you speak naturally, not showing that you're hitting on them, sure ok one. at least it's always worked for me. ;p -
thanks all for e help
will approach her if i see her.. some more i know where she stays.. -
eh gd luck hor~
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wow! you live in a private estate! you must be rich! im live in one too! im rich too.
lets get together and dispise those poor people! -
seriously,this has been discussed few times b4 (origin u mayb noe ah)
at times ,im in public or train n really fancy this special girl ,she realised oso im looking at her ( to the girl 2day wearing pink
2day on subway coming down frm semb-im wearing yellow polo -Tee, we were looking at each other but i dared not smile though u smile ),there will
b some awarkard (yes ,the place not both of u 2persons only),thus u may hope tat there will b chances tat u hv the balls 2
go over n introduce urself.. haha..actually happen 2me quite few times liao (off record me not super handsome but ok lah) when sitting bside girl
n the girl will hv some connection (u noe tat she oso looking at u..)
therefore all best ..