How many times have you...

• Lovespirit

  29 Apr 05, 14:05

  experience:
  U have no lack of admirer but none of them fit into your requirement.. either cmi in term of looks and character.. and the one u like just nv happen to like u back... when i said nv, they really nv...
  
  pple just keep telling u how attractive you are, and don't believe u when u say there's no suitable candidate. Guys all have a illusion tt u r attached, and none dare to come after you or take initiative...
  
  And u ended up eating maggi mee at home on every single weekend.
  
  destiny has played a prank on me..
• morbid

  29 Apr 05, 14:11

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  experience:
  U have no lack of admirer but none of them fit into your requirement.. either cmi in term of looks and character.. and the one u like just nv happen to like u back... when i said nv, they really nv...
  
  pple just keep telling u how attractive you are, and don't believe u when u say there's no suitable candidate. Guys all have a illusion tt u r attached, and none dare to come after you or take initiative...
  
  And u ended up eating maggi mee at home on every single weekend.
  
  destiny has played a prank on me..

  I agree wif u. If u're a lady den PM me,lets get 2 noe each other
• bratpig

  29 Apr 05, 14:12

  you are telling us you are very attractive issit? then you got no boyfriends?
  
  dont sad la...i think you will receive a lot of PM from alot of people here
• Lovespirit

  29 Apr 05, 14:15

  Originally posted by bratpig:

  you are telling us you are very attractive issit? then you got no boyfriends?
  
  dont sad la...i think you will receive a lot of PM from alot of people here

  No, i'm beginning to suspect what pple have been telling me are lies, if not i would not be left on the shelf...the guy i like just don't like me back..
  is it be'cos of my character? i don't know.. i'm so tired of waiting..is there really a special one out there..
• Oyster Omelette

  29 Apr 05, 14:20

  Err, I can intro you some bhb and hum sup guys here to you. Enjoy!
• dcx

  29 Apr 05, 14:20

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  No, i'm beginning to suspect what pple have been telling me are lies, if not i would not be left on the shelf...the guy i like just don't like me back..
  is it be'cos of my character? i don't know.. i'm so tired of waiting..is there really a special one out there..

  Frankly speaking, if you're a very pretty/attractive girl, i'll never dare to get close to you...y? Becoz no confidence...as i always feel that pretty girls are always with handsome guys...(hMz...however, sometimes, such things differ...)
  
  Anyway...what i would suggest is that you need not have to wait...let's say that if you like a guy, take the initiative...and if you failed, nvm...next step....if you succeed, good for you.....
  
  
• varatare

  29 Apr 05, 14:21

  Hi Loverspirit
  
  There is really someone special for you out there. Dont just wait, you have to be actively looking for him too.
  
  Regards
  
  

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  No, i'm beginning to suspect what pple have been telling me are lies, if not i would not be left on the shelf...the guy i like just don't like me back..
  is it be'cos of my character? i don't know.. i'm so tired of waiting..is there really a special one out there..

• bratpig

  29 Apr 05, 14:24

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  No, i'm beginning to suspect what pple have been telling me are lies, if not i would not be left on the shelf...the guy i like just don't like me back..
  is it be'cos of my character? i don't know.. i'm so tired of waiting..is there really a special one out there..

  Not really. Sometimes guys just dont have the courage to woo you cuz u r too pretty. Then again...looks are not everything lor...maybe the 2 of u just dont click leh
  
  dont worry...you will find the one eventually...no use hurrying and anyhow choose right?
• Lovespirit

  29 Apr 05, 14:26

  Originally posted by dcx:

  Frankly speaking, if you're a very pretty/attractive girl, i'll never dare to get close to you...y? Becoz no confidence...as i always feel that pretty girls are always with handsome guys...(hMz...however, sometimes, such things differ...)
  
  Anyway...what i would suggest is that you need not have to wait...let's say that if you like a guy, take the initiative...and if you failed, nvm...next step....if you succeed, good for you.....
  
  

  I'm average looking, girl-next-door type of face...
  anyway i tried before le, take initiative, and got rejected.. TWICE... one say he has no confidence to be with me, the other said tt our living lifestyle differ..
  
  ridiculous. i don't stand why guys like to come out with lame excuses when they simply don't like you.. why can't they be more frank...
• bratpig

  29 Apr 05, 14:31

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  I'm average looking, girl-next-door type of face...
  anyway i tried before le, take initiative, and got rejected.. TWICE... one say he has no confidence to be with me, the other said tt our living lifestyle differ..
  
  ridiculous. i don't stand why guys like to come out with lame excuses when they simply don't like you.. why can't they be more frank...

  they took your feelings into account leh
• Lovespirit

  29 Apr 05, 14:31

  Originally posted by varatare:

  Hi Loverspirit
  
  There is really someone special for you out there. Dont just wait, you have to be actively looking for him too.
  
  Regards
  
  

  i;m just so tired... the result of me actively searching only ended up with me gettin more rejection... anyway thank you... just wanted to pour my agony here... so disheartened..
• dcx

  29 Apr 05, 14:34

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  I'm average looking, girl-next-door type of face...
  anyway i tried before le, take initiative, and got rejected.. TWICE... one say he has no confidence to be with me, the other said tt our living lifestyle differ..
  
  ridiculous. i don't stand why guys like to come out with lame excuses when they simply don't like you.. why can't they be more frank...

  Well...to be frank with you, they'll hurt you even more....
  
  Sometimes, girls're juz like you...though they would wanna hear the truth, but they'll rather be ignorant n prefer lies...
  
  Right...you may say that you wan them to be more frank...but what makes you so sure that they'aint frank with you?
  
  Dun like's dun like...
  Diff. Lifestyle's diff. lifestyle..
  No confidence to be with you could be that he has no confidence in himself...
  
  I like your openness...however...you do not have the patience...juz two failed attempts n you wanna give up? Or impatient?
  
  Btw...what's the hurry of getting into a r/s? you badly need love or a guy? (Here in Sgforums sure have lots of it.. )
  
  No point hurrying....i believe u too wanna find/ have a bf that love you sincerely...not one whom is playboy/flirt/unfaithful...
• chunyong

  29 Apr 05, 15:22

  Originally posted by morbid:

  I agree wif u. If u're a lady den PM me,lets get 2 noe each other

  
• Kenashi

  29 Apr 05, 15:23

  Originally posted by bratpig:

  you are telling us you are very attractive issit? then you got no boyfriends?
  
  dont sad la...i think you will receive a lot of PM from alot of people here

  
• Kenashi

  29 Apr 05, 15:26

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  I'm average looking, girl-next-door type of face...
  anyway i tried before le, take initiative, and got rejected.. TWICE... one say he has no confidence to be with me, the other said tt our living lifestyle differ..
  
  ridiculous. i don't stand why guys like to come out with lame excuses when they simply don't like you.. why can't they be more frank...

  what do u expect them to say!!
  U expected them to say "I don't like U" straight into yr face?
  then u will say that they are heartless!!
• chunyong

  29 Apr 05, 15:27

  Originally posted by Kenashi:

  

  i follow the classic NKF phrase 'Ni PM le mah ?'
  
  
• Kenashi

  29 Apr 05, 15:29

  Cheer up lah, at least u got admirers
  Poor me, only 1 admirer n ganna rejected twice by the gals I loved!!
  But that's life!!
  Just got to live with it!!
  
• Marmalade Boy

  29 Apr 05, 15:31

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  i;m just so tired... the result of me actively searching only ended up with me gettin more rejection... anyway thank you... just wanted to pour my agony here... so disheartened..

  Without effort...
  Without failure...
  Without hardship...
  Without heartache...
  Without time...
  Would you be able to learn how to cherish and treasure the person you are with...
  Think about it...
  
• hopy

  29 Apr 05, 15:51

  u can't rush and find such things one mah... fr my experience, it always happen when u least expected it...
• Estee

  29 Apr 05, 15:55

  come for sgforums outings.... who knows? you might find someone here... http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=61467&page=22
  
  by the way.... this is not for the benefit of me hor... i dun like girls anyway...
• hopy

  29 Apr 05, 15:55

  Originally posted by Estee:

  come for sgforums outings.... who knows? you might find someone here... http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=61467&page=22
  
  by the way.... this is not for the benefit of me hor... i dun like girls anyway...

  x2
• varatare

  29 Apr 05, 16:09

  Hi Lovespirit
  
  Have you heard of Treasure Hunt? The treasure is always tough to find, because if it is too easy, someone mostly already got it. Think your relationship as a treasure and you are the treasure hunter.
  
  Regards
  
  

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  i;m just so tired... the result of me actively searching only ended up with me gettin more rejection... anyway thank you... just wanted to pour my agony here... so disheartened..

• Kenashi

  29 Apr 05, 16:26

  Originally posted by Estee:

  come for sgforums outings.... who knows? you might find someone here... http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=61467&page=22
  
  by the way.... this is not for the benefit of me hor... i dun like girls anyway...

  
• ShrodingersCat

  29 Apr 05, 17:17

  Originally posted by Lovespirit:

  experience:
  
  And u ended up eating maggi mee at home on every single weekend.
  
  destiny has played a prank on me..

  uhh.. seriously what I think you need to do is to
  
  Get A Life.
  
  Just because you are single doesn't mean the world stops revolving. I think there are many singles in this forum that are very happily enjoying their independence and freedom.
  
  Rejection is no big deal - there are also lots of people you are not interested in. So what's so surprising that some people are not interested in you? It isn't easy AT ALL for two people who genuinely like each other to meet.
  
  A lot of people find confident, interesting people attractive, regardless of how they look. That means you have your own interests, your own thinking, your own friends.
  
  A person who looks good but is emotionally very dependent on his/her partner/have no confidence/self absorbed cannot be a good partner even if one may find them momentarily attractive.
  
  So why just stick around at home every weekend? Get out and do something! Find something you enjoy doing and you will usually meet more people while enjoying yourself. This way, you might meet someone 'accidentally' while making your life fuller. At any rate, you will be leading a more interesting life than wasting time mourning about what's wrong with yourself.
• harrow

  29 Apr 05, 17:29

  Hi Love Spirit, I totally understand hw u feel....
  
  But sometimes, dun u somehow feel that the inability to find the one could be your standards are too high? So those admirers of yours seem to CMI?