Should I create hell for my ex-manager?
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My ex-manager was a good friend but a very bad boss. She joined the company slightly later than me but I have no idea why she became a manager when both of us did not have the relevant certs. Her husband is very loaded and earning a 5 digit salary and they each have their own cars.
She brings me clubbing when I got to know her and I tot she was a good person. She wear branded stuff head to toe and is very rich. She brings me to boutiques and teaches me all about branded stuff.
But slowly she started giving work, which is under her scope.
She told me that she is pushing me for promotion and wanted to expose me to managerial work.
But I found out that she only made use of me to do her work. She modified the work I did for her to look like it was her work. I got no credit. In the end I could not complete my own work well and my boss's boss chide me and praise her. As a result my ex-manger got a pay raise.
My ex-manager flirts very well and tells me that I have to flirt with my bosses to get into their good books for promotion.
I am not ready to degrade myself.
Then I found out later my ex-manager was having an affair with her boss. I noticed it when they were having the same watch and handphone, which was expensive stuff. Her boss comes down from HQ to visit her often...too often. They went out often after our overtime at night and my ex-manager will come in late the next morning. I was asked to cover her whenever she is absent for work.
Then in the midst of all the frustration, there was a turn of events.
My ex-manager got pregnant. She insist on an abortion and not let her husband know. She cited her career shd come first. I duuno what she is talking about when she already have two kids who are always with her mother and the husband and her never worry about their children.
She goes for abortion. She even asked me to introduce a gynae & appointment as she dun wanna let her gynae know, who may alert her husband. I cover her while she was on MC. Then the following week after MC, she told me that she is going on a holiday in Indonesia. I told she was going with her husband but the husband was going overseas for business trip. She book the tour in between her husband's trip. She says she is going with her friends.
When she flew, I thought her boss will come to monitor me, as the boss felt that I am incompetent (Thanks to my ex-manager whom I covered). But he did not appear at all. I called and found that he too had taken leave, same days as my ex-manager, and also to Indonesia. I then knew, who is responsible for my ex-manager latest pregnancy.
Now that I am transferring, my ex-manager insist that I am not allowed to hand over any of my work which she asked me to do. She ia very afarid I will give her what she asked m to do. Her boss insist I do a declaration of my work before I leave, which was never done before by any previous staff.
In the midst of anger, a thought came up.
Sent an anonymous letter to my ex-manager's husband and tell him the affair. My ex-manager will be screwed for good. She will get hell from her husband. If it blows big, the company knows and both her and her boss will be the talk of the town. Both will get into hot soup.
I know it could be cruel, but this is the only payback time. Both could gang up against me again as we are still in the same company, and they suspect that I knew what is happening between them.
Should I or should I not? Someone guide me, pls. -
You have suffered unjustly,revenge for ill treatment?take it in ur stride.how long can they really cover up,sooner or later the truth will be known den maybe u start testfying and make things worse by stating ur ill treatment case.however i can only feel from what i read,it might be far worse den what you actually felt so do as you deem fit.i'm sure people here will support whatever decision you make
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if i were you.. that ex-manager can start praying to every god there is in this world as i will not resist the temptation to create hell for her
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I dont know, you should summarize all that Shit in 10 words or less, for starters.
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up to you. but as the saying goes 'what goes around comes around'
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Life is short..... why bother to take revenge....to take pleasure from other people's suffering? Go and seek your own pleasure in a more positive way.Originally posted by alien queen:My ex-manager was a good friend but a very bad boss. She joined the company slightly later than me but I have no idea why she became a manager when both of us did not have the relevant certs. Her husband is very loaded and earning a 5 digit salary and they each have their own cars.
She brings me clubbing when I got to know her and I tot she was a good person. She wear branded stuff head to toe and is very rich. She brings me to boutiques and teaches me all about branded stuff.
But slowly she started giving work, which is under her scope.
She told me that she is pushing me for promotion and wanted to expose me to managerial work.
But I found out that she only made use of me to do her work. She modified the work I did for her to look like it was her work. I got no credit. In the end I could not complete my own work well and my boss's boss chide me and praise her. As a result my ex-manger got a pay raise.
My ex-manager flirts very well and tells me that I have to flirt with my bosses to get into their good books for promotion.
I am not ready to degrade myself.
Then I found out later my ex-manager was having an affair with her boss. I noticed it when they were having the same watch and handphone, which was expensive stuff. Her boss comes down from HQ to visit her often...too often. They went out often after our overtime at night and my ex-manager will come in late the next morning. I was asked to cover her whenever she is absent for work.
Then in the midst of all the frustration, there was a turn of events.
My ex-manager got pregnant. She insist on an abortion and not let her husband know. She cited her career shd come first. I duuno what she is talking about when she already have two kids who are always with her mother and the husband and her never worry about their children.
She goes for abortion. She even asked me to introduce a gynae & appointment as she dun wanna let her gynae know, who may alert her husband. I cover her while she was on MC. Then the following week after MC, she told me that she is going on a holiday in Indonesia. I told she was going with her husband but the husband was going overseas for business trip. She book the tour in between her husband's trip. She says she is going with her friends.
When she flew, I thought her boss will come to monitor me, as the boss felt that I am incompetent (Thanks to my ex-manager whom I covered). But he did not appear at all. I called and found that he too had taken leave, same days as my ex-manager, and also to Indonesia. I then knew, who is responsible for my ex-manager latest pregnancy.
Now that I am transferring, my ex-manager insist that I am not allowed to hand over any of my work which she asked me to do. She ia very afarid I will give her what she asked m to do. Her boss insist I do a declaration of my work before I leave, which was never done before by any previous staff.
In the midst of anger, a thought came up.
Sent an anonymous letter to my ex-manager's husband and tell him the affair. My ex-manager will be screwed for good. She will get hell from her husband. If it blows big, the company knows and both her and her boss will be the talk of the town. Both will get into hot soup.
I know it could be cruel, but this is the only payback time. Both could gang up against me again as we are still in the same company, and they suspect that I knew what is happening between them.
Should I or should I not? Someone guide me, pls. -
i hate my former GM too but there is nothing i can do!!!
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Revenge is not a good outlet to vent your frustration.
What comes around, goes around
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GO for IT!! show them!
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Need my help?
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If you are asking this here and judging from what you've written, u don't have the guts (or brains) to create hell.
might as well, stay where u are, suck thumb and do what you are told daily. -
errrr,lazi to read. if u wan,becareful of the consequences can le
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What do you gain? Nothing. Thats what you gain.
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perhap, you can hve a affair with your ex manager husband, maybe he might be a good catch? I think that will be perfect revenge.
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Hey, I know how it feels to be sabotaged, backstabbed, shot down. It sucks. But hey, most people experience this at one time or another.
From my own experience, my humble opinion is this: Since you are already transferring, I feel it's better to put all that in the past. Because if you take steps to blow up the matter, it would not look good for you as well. Besides all the trouble of a company investigation, I would be more concerned about what your new bosses and colleagues think of you when they learn of this. Would they think you are untrustworthy, a trouble maker, someone who spends more time setting people up than actually doing your work? Unless you plan to leave the company, this is the immediate baggage you'll carry into your new position. I don't think it's a good start. It's better to treat this as a new beginning, and carry on with your life.
Anyway, your ex-boss has created alot of trouble for herself already. So caught up in the rat race that she's willing to sacrifice her dignity and integrity... well, she sucks. -
There is karma in this world.She will get her dues soon.Leave the place and reject any demands she places on you.You should not continue to work in this company.Give your required notice and leave.
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karma? i dont believe in it!!!
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Ex manager and her boss made my life shit, should I take revenge?Originally posted by the.raven:I dont know, you should summarize all that Shit in 10 words or less, for starters. -
she can derive pleasure by seeing them sufferOriginally posted by ditzy:What do you gain? Nothing. Thats what you gain. -
seems like a lot of managers made the life of a lot of people miserable. why dont we take revenge against all managers? easier that way - dont always have to ask!!!Originally posted by shade343:Ex manager and her boss made my life shit, should I take revenge?
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After all that you been through, its understandable to seek revenge... But can you live with the guilt that occurs afterwards? Anyway you may get instant relief after the incident but if you believe in karma, what comes around will come around..
Anyway its understandable to want to take revenge... but maybe its better to seek pleasure in more positive ways?
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ya managers all suck, they dont know ShitOriginally posted by dragg:seems like a lot of managers made the life of a lot of people miserable. why dont we take revenge against all managers? easier that way - dont always have to ask!!!
thats why I wanna work alone next time, spend whole day in some lab and do experiments, and talk to myself, occasionally break out into maniacal laughter -
childish... absolutely childish...
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you are saying this only because you have not started work yet!!Originally posted by starblue:childish... absolutely childish...
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can intro her to croco??
