how to get it back ?
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well.. I didnt know.. he tells me.. if he breaks.. he scared he regret.. but what if i really ask for a break? And he really wans? I dun wish to lose him loh..
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Indecisive in a relationship is wat tortures ppl...Originally posted by snowiesnow:well.. I didnt know.. he tells me.. if he breaks.. he scared he regret.. but what if i really ask for a break? And he really wans? I dun wish to lose him loh..
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If we gets together. great.
but what if we breaks? I dun think I can face him as a friend. things wont be same without him for sometimes. and life needs to goes on.. hmmz. -
There r pros n cons...think wat U wan...U cant haf the best of both worlds...Originally posted by snowiesnow:If we gets together. great.
but what if we breaks? I dun think I can face him as a friend. things wont be same without him for sometimes. and life needs to goes on.. hmmz.
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before anything like that.Originally posted by snowiesnow:If we gets together. great.
but what if we breaks? I dun think I can face him as a friend. things wont be same without him for sometimes. and life needs to goes on.. hmmz.
What do you think you've done that have created the 'fade'?
Or what qualities you have to think you're still holding him?
Some decisions are caused by you. So you need to troubleshoot. -
a break up now will be a better option. shortens the pain.
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actually.. I really did nothing also. He juz started to act strange.. and lesser sms and lesser calls from him. I asked him. and he say he duno wat happen. His feelings fade. and he doesnt know how to face me. .
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How long have you guys been together?Originally posted by snowiesnow:actually.. I really did nothing also. He juz started to act strange.. and lesser sms and lesser calls from him. I asked him. and he say he duno wat happen. His feelings fade. and he doesnt know how to face me. .
Anything happened before? -
since v.days . only like 2 months plus? and. yet. so fast his feelings gone? I wanna know w.h.y. and.. nothing happen also.. we never quarrel.. everything is good until last sat. these things happen.
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Somethings, there's no whys and time limit for a relationship to go stale.Originally posted by snowiesnow:since v.days . only like 2 months plus? and. yet. so fast his feelings gone? I wanna know w.h.y. and.. nothing happen also.. we never quarrel.. everything is good until last sat. these things happen.
Some people realise certain things faster and another.
So they don't know how to cope with the change and realization, they choose to leave it there.
I'd advice you to break up with him. His lost(you leave him suddenly) might panick him and regain the feelings.
If you choose to leave him. You must be sure of your reason to do so.
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2 months no wonder.
the early part of any relationship is call the honeymoon phase.
This is the sweetest part of any relationship and you will enjoy the best time with him but there is a catch in this phase any bad points about each other is erased and you will try to cover it up even it appeears.
No one really can gauge how long is the honeymoon phase can last but it will end when you 2 finally realise that there is some bad points in each other. Like snoring, smoking, gambling and many more. If you wish to go further you must accept each other faults.
For your case I believe the honeymoon phase for you 2 is over and he is thinking whether is good to continue on.
My suggestion is for a one week break. To let both side think it over. I understand is hard for you but is no point in holding on to a guy who no longer loves you. He may just be waiting for a new girl to come along and using you for a standby. -
hmm.. maybe.. its good. anyway we're having exams also.. he says after exams then say. meaning 2 weeks. later. I can conclude.. is a break.. I realli duno.. haharzs.
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T|me will tell....as most ppl here see ur case as "hopeless"..i.e. chances of you getting back togather as couple is rather impossible and even if being togather, his feelings for you seems to be distant away from you...Originally posted by snowiesnow:hmm.. maybe.. its good. anyway we're having exams also.. he says after exams then say. meaning 2 weeks. later. I can conclude.. is a break.. I realli duno.. haharzs.
So..the question would be lying on you..would you wan to have that kinda of relationship?
No doubts abt your love for him...however, lots of doubts from him...well....traditional saying> "It takes two hands to make a clap" ...
Take this period of time for you and him to do some thinkings...however, do concentrate on your coming exam...
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Yes that's what i mean... he will only stay with her due to lust...Originally posted by Guest_111:Wrong! No guy will stay or be with someone who just gives in. Lust and Love are 2 completely different things. -
This shows that he is already uncertain of his feelings. U can try to leave him alone fro the time being to let him sort out his thots. If he does come back to u after that automatically, have a good talk with him...Originally posted by snowiesnow:well.. I didnt know.. he tells me.. if he breaks.. he scared he regret.. but what if i really ask for a break? And he really wans? I dun wish to lose him loh..
Even if he comes back and says he wants a break, have a nice talk with him and settle it well... -
U have the right not to keep him as a friend if u 2 really breakup. Choose what is best for urself. Sometimes, one needs to know when to love oneself and leave the others aside...Originally posted by snowiesnow:If we gets together. great.
but what if we breaks? I dun think I can face him as a friend. things wont be same without him for sometimes. and life needs to goes on.. hmmz. -
somehow.. we never talk nowadays.. Ppl around us tot that we are quarrelling and everyone thinks that Its MY fault when I DUN even know wat had happenz. zzz
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accept it. he is tired of u already and wans someone fresh. don be surprise to find him with another gal some day.Originally posted by snowiesnow:somehow.. we never talk nowadays.. Ppl around us tot that we are quarrelling and everyone thinks that Its MY fault when I DUN even know wat had happenz. zzz
well in singapore there are 4 million peopls. abt 2 million are male, half of them are married leaving 1 million, half of them are marriagable age which will give u 500k. half are good men = 250k, half are looking for a desirable mate = 125k. another half of that are attached leaving 62k. half are working and earn enough for a decent relationship = 31k. half of those are not mommy's boy which will be 15k. half of those will treasure u more then their friends leaving u with 7.5k. take away half who got sh_it in their eyes u will get 3.25k and half shy one leaving 1.65k.
quick grab a guy before they run out. -
i feel weird......
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HAHA i also wan that 1.65k . . . U think so easy get ar. Why is .. not bias ar.. But.. somehow Its always the guy hurting the gerl. hMmz.
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hy weird.
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Originally posted by snowiesnow:
Read some of the other posts here. It works both ways.
But.. somehow Its always the guy hurting the gerl. hMmz. -
In my last relationship , i admit i hurt the gurl alot...
but honeymoon period or what..seriously..it ended really fast... -
Hmm.. Somehow I reckon a chance that a 3rd party might be involved could be rather high (but it's just a guess?) if not some variant which is close... Other things might be that he could be facing with other problems... (though relatively less convincing...)Originally posted by snowiesnow:since v.days . only like 2 months plus? and. yet. so fast his feelings gone? I wanna know w.h.y. and.. nothing happen also.. we never quarrel.. everything is good until last sat. these things happen.
How old are the both of you by the way?
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yupz. we're broth quite young.. I also duno if there's a 3rd party. he says he will tell mi if there is 1. but den. who believes.