What gals want is very simple but guys always think very com
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I wouldn't want to generalize, but the majority of guys dont take well to the idea of communication beyond a yes or no, hahaOriginally posted by the Bear:well.. i guess guys need to tell and show them more?
aiyah.. but guys... don't communicate enough?
who knows?
bunch of us blundering around.. and when a couple meets and somehow gets along famously, it's like a minor miracle isn't it?
and it's wonderful enough to keep the world going!
On the other hand, females take the idea of communication too far sometimes. They want to get to the "bottom" of things through talking. Which is not readily done. Because some things just cant be "talked though".
I have learned this through a painful lesson.
Yes, it is a miracle when two people meet and falls in love with each other. Sometimes...I just wish this kind of miracles happens more often... -
you got a point there
i remember a bunch of us guys met a friend coming into the lift... we actually just grunted about 5 times each (i'm not kidding!!) and we understood everything..
and i dunno.. maybe ladies do? sometimes there is no "bottom of things" at all? maybe some things are best left alone to be worked out by itself?
ahhh.. lessons learnt are life's lessons.. we become wiser
miracles happen when we believe AND work at it
we all hope miracles happen to us and we should work hard at it while believing it can happen..
let ie happenOriginally posted by Ferret:I wouldn't want to generalize, but the majority of guys dont take well to the idea of communication beyond a yes or no, haha
On the other hand, females take the idea of communication too far sometimes. They want to get to the "bottom" of things throught talking. Which is not readily done. Because some things just cant be "talked though".
I have learned this through a painful lesson.
Yes, it is a miracle when two people meet and falls in love with each other. Sometimes...I just wish this kind of miracles happens more often... -
actually while some of us can ask the girl to come clean and speak their mind... this kinda drop-hints and sounding-out games are quite common in a relationship.
i mean while sometimes the girl really dun mean what they told u, but guys can be really straight-forward and just agree loh. haha if dun agree the girl will say guy not understanding... haiz.... me in this kinda situations recently
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U really dun understand..Originally posted by aCid_rAIn:actually while some of us can ask the girl to come clean and speak their mind... this kinda drop-hints and sounding-out games are quite common in a relationship.
i mean while sometimes the girl really dun mean what they told u, but guys can be really straight-forward and just agree loh. haha if dun agree the girl will say guy not understanding... haiz.... me in this kinda situations recently -
I think close friends can understand each other just by eye contact or a signal.Originally posted by the Bear:you got a point there
i remember a bunch of us guys met a friend coming into the lift... we actually just grunted about 5 times each (i'm not kidding!!) and we understood everything..
and i dunno.. maybe ladies do? sometimes there is no "bottom of things" at all? maybe some things are best left alone to be worked out by itself?
ahhh.. lessons learnt are life's lessons.. we become wiser
miracles happen when we believe AND work at it
we all hope miracles happen to us and we should work hard at it while believing it can happen..
let ie happen
You are right. Some things are better left alone
I have often believe, fervently, desperately. And while we become wiser, we are left more and more scarred daily.
But life goes on doesn't it ? It's just that I wish...sometimes...little miracles happen more often... -
CORNY. Buay tahan.
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ok. my wife is not like that. so that's why i married her.