Originally posted by Quinsy:
Hmm? I just replied to XciteZ's thread to say that I got messaged by him. I blocked him. I don't know why should I report him. Cuz I'm not sure if its valid or not!?
Harassment is about you getting unwanted attention.
It does not matter if its not valid to others as long as you feel it is valid.
Each person's standard is different.
I feel harassed when in office, when male directors speak of gang raping a female colleague. I brought that up with my management. Even when I am not that female colleague or know the male director very well. To me, its harassment and to me, I feel threatened. I do not want to wait till one day it explode in my face and then I regret and say how come I never took action. By then if I report, my manager will scold me for not bring up this issue earilier.