Between NS and Girlfriends...
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What's it with NS and Girlfriends.
Ever noticed one thing, especially for those guys who have just enlisted?
You call your girl out only once a week. There and then, she gets bored by seeing you once a week and gives those silly excuses of being very busy. Soon or later, these outings get less and less frequent. And out of the blue, she says she wants to break up with you as she had found another guy better than you (doesn't tell u directly of course).
For those who had just been enlisted, just POP or just after your Trade Course and had JUST gotten a stead b4 u were enlisted. Better watch out for warning signs...
Problems start to surface when there is a sudden change in a relationship, if the person doesn't like the change and refuses to adept to the changes he or she will most likely to source out an alternative solution to continue on with their regular lifestyles. It takes alot of committment to actually stick to one person in a steady relationship, alot of relationships dont last and the problem lies again with the committment factor. Roughly categorizing the kinds of people that i have came across, I have came up with a few sets but i'll just mention the category your stead probably falls into
1. The emotional "high" type: They'll do anything for you as long as they get some love in return for their acts, they like to get emotionally involved where the other half showers you with care tender and concern. Their lust for love (the emotion type of love) is extremely high. Becareful, because if you negject them the next moment you know they are two timing you but keeps you in the dark.
Its just a analysis and you don't have to agree with me if you choose not to. -
mi condolence
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Of course, NS = goodbye to gf
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not another potential +1 thread...
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Many of my girl friends and I stuck through our guys throughout their NS years. In fact, we looked forward to the weekends and of course the short phone calls during the week when they managed to get to the public phone.Originally posted by Texcoco:What's it with NS and Girlfriends.
You call your girl out only once a week. There and then, she gets bored by seeing you once a week and gives those silly excuses of being very busy. Soon or later, these outings get less and less frequent. And out of the blue, she says she wants to break up with you as she had found another guy better than you (doesn't tell u directly of course).
Unfortunately for me, towards end of his NS, my boyfriend cheated on me with one of the clerks there -
hmmm... something diff. Good!Originally posted by miss_soojung:Many of my girl friends and I stuck through our guys throughout their NS years. In fact, we looked forward to the weekends and of course the short phone calls during the week when they managed to get to the public phone.
Unfortunately for me, towards end of his NS, my boyfriend cheated on me with one of the clerks there -
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Oh mod! what SHOULD WE DO???Originally posted by FireIce:
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hmm, even if the guy is in NS, he cannot make a short call to his gf sometimes during the week?
Actually, most of the girls I know don't ask for much, as long as their bfs call to let them know he still thinks of her frequently, then can already
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That's why before NS you find alot of GF so you still can rely on when 1 dumps u...
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find girlfriend just for the sake of having a companion?Originally posted by FadeToBlack:That's why before NS you find alot of GF so you still can rely on when 1 dumps u...
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U asking for more trouble izzit...Originally posted by FadeToBlack:That's why before NS you find alot of GF so you still can rely on when 1 dumps u... -
Wah u poor thing ah, ur ex fall in love with a guy in NS.Originally posted by miss_soojung:Many of my girl friends and I stuck through our guys throughout their NS years. In fact, we looked forward to the weekends and of course the short phone calls during the week when they managed to get to the public phone.
Unfortunately for me, towards end of his NS, my boyfriend cheated on me with one of the clerks there -
Originally posted by Ogbunwezeh:Wah u poor thing ah, ur ex fall in love with a guy in NS.
Maybe he fell in love with a female DXO... -
WORSE! maybe he fell in luv wif his mate?Originally posted by Simple_Bear:
Maybe he fell in love with a female DXO... 
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U mean his mating partner of coz...Originally posted by BITCHY_BITCH:WORSE! maybe he fell in luv wif his mate? -
his fellow soldier lahz...Originally posted by Simple_Bear:U mean his mating partner of coz... -
Yeah i notice quite a number of female DXO in my unit behaving slutty n flirtatious. Like to wear sexy clothings too... I think their primary reason of joing SAF is to get surrounded by loads of despo n horny SAF guyz n they will felt really special in an all male working environment. SAF is a gd place for this type of personal satisfaction, SAF is the place esp for regular to be greeted n saluted by lower rank ppl, have the authority to scold them n show off their authority n dominance, where this type of personal satisfaction can't get from the outside world.Originally posted by Simple_Bear:
Maybe he fell in love with a female DXO...