I share the same surname as my husband. We have been together for 25 years. My brother-in-law shares the same surname as his wife. They have been together for over 30 years.

In any case, I don't think a lasting relationship is influenced by surname. Well, at least not in my case. We grow in a relationship. The 25 years were not all smooth sailing. But we "grew" together (fortunately) with all the ups and downs that life threw at us. A strong sense of commitment.....I think that was our strong point. I do feel very blessed and am contented with what I am and what I have.
