Life is the process of finding love, every person will
need to find four people in their life.
First person is yourself,
Second person is the one you love most,
Third person is the one who love you most,
And the fourth, is the one you spend the rest of
your life with.
In life, firstly you will meet with the one you love
most, and learn how love feels;
Because you know how love feels, so you can find
the person who love you most;
When you have experienced the feeling of loving
others and being loved, you will then know what it
is you need most,
Then you will find the person who is most suitable
for you, to be able to spend the rest of your life
with.
Sadly, in real life, these three people are usually
not the same person.
The one you love most, doesnt love you;
The one who love you most, is never the one you
love most;
And the one you spend your life with, is never the
one you love most or the one who love you most,
He is just the person who happens to be at the
right place at the right time.
Which person are you in other peoples life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves you, he really
loves you;
But when he doesnt love you anymore, he really
dont love you anymore;
When he loves you, he cant pretend that he
doesnt;
Same goes, when he loves you no more, theres
no way he can pretend he loves you.
When a person doesnt love you and wants to
leave you.
You must ask yourself if you still love him,
If you also dont love him anymore, dont ever not
let him leave just to save your pride.
If you still love him, you should wish him
happiness, and hope that he will be with the one
he loves most, not stop him from it.
If you stop him from finding true happiness with the
one he loves, it shows you already dont love him,
And if you dont love him, what rights do you have
to blame him for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive,
If you like the moon, you cant just take it down
and put it in your basin,
But the moonlight still shines upon you.
In other words, when you love a person, you can
use another method of possessing the person.
Let him become a permanent memory in you life.
If you really love a person, you must love him for
what he is;
Love him for his good points, and the bad,
You cant wish for him to become like what you
like him to be just because you love him.
If he cant change to become what you like him to
be, you dont love him anymore.
When you really love a person, you cannot find a
reason why you love him,
You only know that no matter when and where,
good mood or bad mood, you will wish to have this
person be with you;
Real love is when two people can go through the
toughest problems without asking for promises or
listing criterias.
In a relationship, you have to put in effort and give
in at times, not always be on the receiving end;
Being away from each other is a type of test,
If the relationship isnt strong, then you can only
admit defeat.
Real love will never become hate.
When two people are in love,
They love to ask each other to swear, to make
promises.
Why do they ask each other to swear and
promise?
Because they dont trust each other, they dont
trust their lover.
These swears and promises are useless;
Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you
will never change!
We all know that the sky will never fall, the ocean
will never dry,
Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?
Be careful when making promises, dont make
promises that you cannot keep.
Swear by things that can never happen, because it
can never happen, so no harm just saying it
casually.
Remember, Swearing by things that can never
happen are the most touching!!
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but
what you do is another;
The one saying, doesnt believe; the one listening,
also doesnt believe.
In this big endless world, which person have you found?
And who has found you?
Do u really noe?