Dated 5 years
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u dated a gal for 5 years. When u proposed to her, she said she's not ready for marriage. Will u wait for her or change a gf?
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I will propose again in the near future, if not then forget it... u dont live forever u know
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i waited almost 1 decade before she agree.
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Hard to say lah....only can really tell when we're in that position, at the ground level, feeling the waters.....
I've dated a girl for 8 years before. She wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she promptly broke up with me and married another guy in just a few months following our break-up. How's that? -
Maybe wait for her.. but in the mean time initiate plan B -
5 years liao still not ready?
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very volatile gal so wat happen to u thereafter?Originally posted by gentlerock:Hard to say lah....only can really tell when we're in that position, at the ground level, feeling the waters.....
I've dated a girl for 8 years before. She wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she promptly broke up with me and married another guy in just a few months following our break-up. How's that? -
Try waiting for a while longer. It was good that she didnt reject u. She only said she wasnt ready.
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wah she so despo to get married arh?Originally posted by gentlerock:Hard to say lah....only can really tell when we're in that position, at the ground level, feeling the waters.....
I've dated a girl for 8 years before. She wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she promptly broke up with me and married another guy in just a few months following our break-up. How's that? -
if both of u have been happy being together all these while, what's wrong with waiting?
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ya how many 5 years are there ..Originally posted by Gordonator:5 years liao still not ready? -
Originally posted by gentlerock:Hard to say lah....only can really tell when we're in that position, at the ground level, feeling the waters.....
I've dated a girl for 8 years before. She wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she promptly broke up with me and married another guy in just a few months following our break-up. How's that?
sad...she thinks u doesnt love her deeply so she broke up and married someone who she thinks love her... if she was wrong = regret..... -
Originally posted by gentlerock:Hard to say lah....only can really tell when we're in that position, at the ground level, feeling the waters.....
I've dated a girl for 8 years before. She wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she promptly broke up with me and married another guy in just a few months following our break-up. How's that? -
Oh, seriously, after that I was actually happier, feeling free. Free from all the nagging, reporting, being traced, etc.Originally posted by margarita:very volatile gal so wat happen to u thereafter?
Thanks to all who have responded... but really, there's no regret at all. I realised this only after we broke up for a while. -
why u so like tat one . i'll have done the same if i'm herOriginally posted by gentlerock:Oh, seriously, after that I was actually happier, feeling free. Free from all the nagging, reporting, being traced, etc.
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This was not the only case ok?Originally posted by margarita:why u so like tat one . i'll have done the same if i'm her
I was dating a foreign girl living in Bangkok for 2 years.....and she also wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she took off with some unsuspecting Thai guy, married him and moved back to Japan. Her maternal instincts were really really damned strong....she has 2 kids now (3rd one miscarriage just last year).
My love life very messy one.
OK OK...back to you. Why did you ask that question? Someone asked you to marry him after 5 years ah? Or you suddenly got interested in girls and asked a girl to marry you? -
Originally posted by gentlerock:Hard to say lah....only can really tell when we're in that position, at the ground level, feeling the waters.....
I've dated a girl for 8 years before. She wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she promptly broke up with me and married another guy in just a few months following our break-up. How's that?
... ouch... that must have hurt... -
sigh .. yi yan nan jing ..Originally posted by gentlerock:This was not the only case ok?
I was dating a foreign girl living in Bangkok for 2 years.....and she also wanted to get married, but I wasn't ready. So she took off with some unsuspecting Thai guy, married him and moved back to Japan. Her maternal instincts were really really damned strong....she has 2 kids now (3rd one miscarriage just last year).
My love life very messy one.
OK OK...back to you. Why did you ask that question? Someone asked you to marry him after 5 years ah? Or you suddenly got interested in girls and asked a girl to marry you? -
Sorry sorry....Mandarin isn't one of my best points....Originally posted by margarita:sigh .. yi yan nan jing ..
yi yan nan jing = one round Nanjing? -
curious....
anyone actually pick up gals at gym joints?
im quite a hardcore gym goers, when i train,
no energy/ breath/time to talk to another person, let alone gal. -
U abit out of point lehz...Originally posted by NuLife:curious....
anyone actually pick up gals at gym joints?
im quite a hardcore gym goers, when i train,
no energy/ breath/time to talk to another person, let alone gal. -
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paiseh.....long lumber... -
Originally posted by gentlerock:(deleted)
paiseh.....long lumber... -
we havent seen eye to eye. BUT!! how old are u.. if u are like over 25.. erm i could consider u wait.. if u are below 25.. she may not be the right one ?Originally posted by margarita:u dated a gal for 5 years. When u proposed to her, she said she's not ready for marriage. Will u wait for her or change a gf?
take ur time and see.. ask her why she said no.. -
obviously the gal has second thoughts.
better to give up than waste time.