Will you marry a girl ......
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..... that is pregnant with other people's child due to
a)rape
b)willingly with another guy but the guy dumped her -
no way!Originally posted by Faramir:..... that is pregnant with other people's child if she beg you to marry her? -
will marry her if we are truly, deeply in love
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i beg to diff,if she had someone elses child,u think she is in love with u?Originally posted by pat33:will marry her if we are truly, deeply in love 
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den i will love the child, as i love her. ai wu qi wu.
but if the feeling isn't mutual, den its kinda sad.
but but still yes. child is innocent. -
Depends, I would say. How she gt pregnant in the first place? If it is becoz of rape or other criminal intention and through no fault of the gal, i can manly say "why not". Thats provided u lUv her larOriginally posted by Faramir:..... that is pregnant with other people's child if she beg you to marry her?
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ya...i agree if she was raped but u think wu duan duan got child,u think she really loves u meh?Originally posted by BonJovi:Depends, I would say. How she gt pregnant in the first place? If it is becoz of rape or other criminal intention and through no fault of the gal, i can manly say "why not". Thats provided u lUv her lar -
i beg to diff,if she had someone elses child,u think she is in love with u?
You confusing the diff betwenn sex and love. Sex can be love and love can be sex. But they are NOT the same thing. -
if a girl went to bed with other man everyday and everytime she comes back...she says she only loves her bf...u think thats logical?Originally posted by pat33:You confusing the diff betwenn sex and love. Sex can be love and love can be sex. But they are NOT the same thing. -
the gal work as prostitute to earn money so her bf can continue his education..Originally posted by StarPuppy:if a girl went to bed with other man everyday and everytime she comes back...she says she only loves her bf...u think thats logical?
so why are u surfing sgforums instead of studyin? -
if a girl went to bed with other man everyday and everytime she comes back...she says she only loves her bf...u think thats logical?
First, you paint extreme scenerio. A girl to bed with men everyday? Would any one be fooled by her to marry her?
Second, she told you that she is pragnant with a child that is not your. The point is she told you. She did not lie to you.
Third, I must say choice of life is individual. Personally, I tends to see human as imperfect. We all make mistakes, don't we?
Fourthly, as I said you are confusing the diff between love and sex. Don't bringing up extreme scenerios for a moment and ask yourself this- Is love and sex the same thing? -
Everyone has a past, it matter whether u can step over it & look forward to the future. Whether is it rape, or being dumped by other guys, it is a sense of judgement that whether how much love bet u & the girl. And if i & her are truely & seriously in love, why not give her a chance & forget her past.Originally posted by Faramir:..... that is pregnant with other people's child due to
a)rape
b)willingly with another guy but the guy dumped her
Regardless how much barriers & chagllenges ahead of us, i believe if we can hold hand in hand, over the time, we will eventually overcome all these problems & build a future that we crate for.
How many times in ur life can u really find a hong yan zi ji? It just happen by chance or luck & u can anticipate it. So, the right person come into ur life, i will definitely wont let go so easily. -
well say... it really have to depend the one in the position.... is not for us to say wat they should or should not do......Originally posted by babymac13:Everyone has a past, it matter whether u can step over it & look forward to the future. Whether is it rape, or being dumped by other guys, it is a sense of judgement that whether how much love bet u & the girl. And if i & her are truely & seriously in love, why not give her a chance & forget her past.
Regardless how much barriers & chagllenges ahead of us, i believe if we can hold hand in hand, over the time, we will eventually overcome all these problems & build a future that we crate for.
How many times in ur life can u really find a hong yan zi ji? It just happen by chance or luck & u can anticipate it. So, the right person come into ur life, i will definitely wont let go so easily.
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if let say.......Originally posted by Faramir:..... that is pregnant with other people's child due to
a)rape
b)willingly with another guy but the guy dumped her
will u marry a girl who has a child from her previous marriage
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if u kenna rape, and pregnant, u still want to keep the baby meh? what if u kenna rape by a bangla? how the baby going to find his father next time?
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Baby is innocent. It's subjective & many religions are actually against abortion.Originally posted by leddy:if u kenna rape, and pregnant, u still want to keep the baby meh? what if u kenna rape by a bangla? how the baby going to find his father next time? -
Everyone does have a past.
to marry someone is not about who they have been with,IT IS ABOUT WHO THEY WILL BE WITH
never marry out of sympathy,you are cheating yourslef,your spouse and yes,even the child that came with the package.
Do not hold it against the girl that she got 'knock up' and is left now to 'catch the falling ball'
It takes 2 hands to clap,but it is ture that it is harder to clap when there is excessive 'baggage' from the past that has not been dealt with.
Virginity is overarted,I know of a lot of girls who are not,but that will never make them trully lesser persons in GOD eyes or in the eyes of anyone who can really see.
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since i'm a girl, i'd change the question to "will i marry a guy who's pregnant with another girl's child due to rape or other unforeseen circumstances?"
hmm....... i don't fancy marrying any guy who gets pregnant. -
Are you living in the matrix?Originally posted by Cinderella.:since i'm a girl, i'd change the question to "will i marry a guy who's pregnant with another girl's child due to rape or other unforeseen circumstances?"
hmm....... i don't fancy marrying any guy who gets pregnant.
Or am I?