Advice for a friend who just broke up
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My friend just broke up with his girlfriend a few days ago.
during weekend, his friend told him that his ex-gf had fun with a guy and they both went to hotel. He went crazy and went in front of the hotel waiting for them. ...
As a good friend, he called me. He told me that he kept imagining the scene when his ex-gf having sex with another guy. It drove him crazy...
So now, he followed his ex-gf or tried to track her down (e.g. by calling her house number to ensure that she was at home not going out at night with another guy)
I don't know what to advise him. For me, he already broke with the gf. Who cares about what she does. it's a has been. case closed....
Anyone has this kind of experience and how you cure your obsession of your ex-gf? -
your friends a weirdo.
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ex-bf turn stalker? eerie man... he should seek help. if not, he may turn out in another headline in wan bao.
whenever, someone broke up with you (in a relationship). he/she is giving you an opportunity to choose again - perhaps, someone even better
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Slap him hard in the face !
Make sure it leaves a handprint on his face !
Shout at him to wake up !
"She is no longer yr gf wtf are you doing ?
She is not your wife you have no right to even do that!
She is just a s l u t who sleeps around and u are lucky that u have dumped her!"
this method is test many times liao
It works ! -
Originally posted by Glen999:
hey, she'd call the police... if he doesn get his act up together
My friend just broke up with his girlfriend a few days ago.
during weekend, his friend told him that his ex-gf had fun with a guy and they both went to hotel. He went crazy and went in front of the hotel waiting for them. ...
As a good friend, he called me. He told me that he kept imagining [b]the scene when his ex-gf having sex with another guy. It drove him crazy...
So now, he followed his ex-gf or tried to track her down (e.g. by calling her house number to ensure that she was at home not going out at night with another guy)
I don't know what to advise him. For me, he already broke with the gf. Who cares about what she does. it's a has been. case closed....
Anyone has this kind of experience and how you cure your obsession of your ex-gf?[/b] -
I think he needs a good cry
Seriously. Get him out, talk to him calmly, allow him to grief. Then the recovery can start. -
ahh.. this is crazy..
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Tell him he deserves better.
Advise him to think of all her negative traits & all her irritating habits.
Tell him it is good riddance to get rid of her.
Better to find out abt her cheating than after marriage.
Introduce some nice girls to him- let him know there are more trees in the forest. -
i think he and the ex have both same group of friends and this causes problem.
when you want to forget, she just appears in front of your eyes....
He told me that he knows it's not normal. But he cannot let go. Whenever he saw her. He will think of how she had sex with other guys...+ all the sweet time they have had.
i think i will ask him to get out of singapore for vacation etc.... hopefully time will cure his stupid brain.. -
sometimes, it's so much easier said than done...Originally posted by gerrykoh:Tell him he deserves better.
Advise him to think of all her negative traits & all her irritating habits.
Tell him it is good riddance to get rid of her.
Better to find out abt her cheating than after marriage.
Introduce some nice girls to him- let him know there are more trees in the forest.
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Sometimes it is best for the girl to confront him about his habit of stalking her unless she is so blur that she is not aware?
It sometimes take the girl to ask what the hell is he doing to wake him up. -
if he's not the initiator, he's gng to take a long time to heal... lend him listening ear and advise him not to do silly stuffs...
but if he was the initiator, ask him to go bang wall.. -
try to convince him that the girl is a slut and a bimbo etc to make him lose interest
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yeah ... why should she be the one enjoying while he saddens ...
hope he cheers up ... boost up his ego ...
friends and self are more important than a heartbreaker -
relationships and friendships are like a veil of illusion over reality, people come people go, even if you love them so.
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agree totally...friends come and go...life is ever changing...so yeh bring him somewhere he can get away from his ex..then shud be ok lar...if he still goes on stalking..he is a certified looney...then my next advice is mental hospitalOriginally posted by Ito_^:relationships and friendships are like a veil of illusion over reality, people come people go, even if you love them so. -
he still not getting over her yet... one day he will wake up...but hope not in the prison cell though
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he said that he has work to do in singapore .. cannot have vacation...
i just told him to avoid her ....