Are we too quick to judge ppl?
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I had a talk with my friend yesterday...We were talking about this guy(lets name him B)
Friend:I hate B
Me:Why?
Friend: He thinks i am flithy rich and he always talks behind my back, saying that i am stupid enough to treat him and if i dun...he says i am stingy...We all know hes poor and still he go get himself a g/f....Shouldn't he use that money that he have to spend it on himself instead
Me:Hmmm......
Friend: He spends his whole holidays at home...if he is so free, why can't he go out and find work and instead ask us friends for money
Me: hmm...i understand what u mean....You done with what u wanted to say yet?
Friend:Ya...i guess so
Me:You see.....If i were in your shoes....i will also be angry at him for doing that...Next time,just don't treat him...just treat him when u feel like it,dun treat him because u feel like it.
How do we know that the money is being splurged on his g/f? we are not his g/f,we do not have any proof either
And before u start saying his lazy...i would like to tell you that his parents refuse to let him go out.....u not knowing that...cannot be too quick to judge on whats going on.
Are we too quick to judge ppl at times, we are not them and thus cannot judge a person.....
example: If that guy always answers before he thinks, we should not call him stupid. We should say that he is too quick in answering,maybe he wants to let everyone he knows or he thinks he knows and wants to give it a try?
We cannot presume that we know him....we are not him...we are just viewing from the outside...
The only person who knows him well enough would be:
1) himself
2) His family (some parents dun even know their children)
(Moral of the convo is: Don't presume to know the person inner-out but instead look at a person at all views even so don't CLAIM that he such-such a person)
P.S:Yes,Ah dee,Uncle brat and cindi jie...i know i should be on my report now but i am taking a break.....
Just wanted to tell people my feelings
Please give comments and views
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StarPuppy! U suxor!
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just what i would have expected of you to doOriginally posted by alexkusu:StarPuppy! U suxor!
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er...i was 2 quick to judge
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u judge me too quick. Im actually a person of angelic natureOriginally posted by StarPuppy:just what i would have expected of you to do -
ok...maybe u are...we shall see.....Originally posted by alexkusu:u judge me too quick. Im actually a person of angelic nature 
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Star puppy having problem again...
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simi problem?Originally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:Star puppy having problem again... 
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Originally posted by StarPuppy:
Starpuppy has finally come of age...ni3 zhong1 yu2 zhang2 da4 le4
I had a talk with my friend yesterday...We were talking about this guy(lets name him B)
Friend:I hate B
Me:Why?
Friend: He thinks i am flithy rich and he always talks behind my back, saying that i am stupid enough to treat him and if i dun...he says i am stingy...We all know hes poor and still he go get himself a g/f....Shouldn't he use that money that he have to spend it on himself instead
Me:Hmmm......
Friend: He spends his whole holidays at home...if he is so free, why can't he go out and find work and instead ask us friends for money
Me: hmm...i understand what u mean....You done with what u wanted to say yet?
Friend:Ya...i guess so
Me:You see.....If i were in your shoes....i will also be angry at him for doing that...Next time,just don't treat him...just treat him when u feel like it,dun treat him because u feel like it.
How do we know that the money is being splurged on his g/f? we are not his g/f,we do not have any proof either
And before u start saying his lazy...i would like to tell you that his parents refuse to let him go out.....u not knowing that...cannot be too quick to judge on whats going on.
[b] Are we too quick to judge ppl at times, we are not them and thus cannot judge a person.....
example: If that guy always answers before he thinks, we should not call him stupid. We should say that he is too quick in answering,maybe he wants to let everyone he knows or he thinks he knows and wants to give it a try?
We cannot presume that we know him....we are not him...we are just viewing from the outside...
The only person who knows him well enough would be:
1) himself
2) His family (some parents dun even know their children)
(Moral of the convo is: Don't presume to know the person inner-out but instead look at a person at all views even so don't CLAIM that he such-such a person)
P.S:Yes,Ah dee,Uncle brat and cindi jie...i know i should be on my report now but i am taking a break..... Just wanted to tell people my feelings
Please give comments and views [/b]