Originally posted by Lovespirit:
Just a feeling, recently have been out meeting new pple. Came across a couple of guys with sickening character and attitude, and i wonder is this a trend happening in the male population.
When i say sickening character, it mean they are trying too hard to impress. Expectin me to throw myelf at them etc...
Example 1: Guy A ....
Example 2: Just yesterday tok to this guy B ....
Are singaporean guys feelin too insecure?
tt y some are so eager to impress.
True, we gals seek for financial security, but still, character matters a lot.
Doesn't mean u have a luxury car or livin in some landed property, gals will sure throw themselves at u. even if some will, but not me..
Meet these kinds of subspecies all the time. I weed them out mercilessly.
I know these guys are not in yours or my league and they don't know what are they doin' wrong. But are very quick to lay the blame on the local sg girls If they can't get a sg girl, they get a foreign one and say spikeful things later - see the trend and who else to avoid in here?

- Ah.. no offense to the nice chaps here. You know who you are.
So don't waste time and move on. They call up, usually to something they want you to do for them ie: keep them company or what ever garbage. Some might even get hanky panky later cause they bring you out and expect something in return for their time.
Lots tell me to flaunt flesh, dress more sexy, change my hair, lose weight, and they show off their BMW/Lexus/Aeroplanes/expensive suits/watches/taste/plasma TV/etc. You name it, I've heard it all. Ultimately these men are extremely unreliable and as you said - jerks who want to use you. Do be careful - if you ain't a player, don't play with these player.