Ah boy broke his favourite mother's jewellery by accident for example
Mum

:NAG NAG NAG NAG
Uncle and other elders(irritated mood):Why you so.......
Mother throws Ah boy's model aeroplane because she thought he did not want it.
Ah boy gets

Mother:sorry lar
Uncle and other elders: Forgive her shes your mother after all
Am i astonished?NO, when a son does something wrong and disappoints his parents the parents will get agitated
and
when the mother disappoints her son instead, other elders cover up for her
WTF???