To local guys and gals
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Ok i am a foreigner by birth and a PR. I travel quite often and stayed abroad for a few years too. Many local guys complain to me that local women are materialistic and have high expectations ect. My male colleagues also say that. By by far what is the problem u all are are facing?
The educated women out there u have to think because as u know women have a limited lifespan in a male's world. u can only look as good by age 35 and once u hit 30, men may not be attracted as much to u as to a younger girl if they know your age. As guys now are getting increasingly sophisticated Am not realli trying to bash women on this but i think local guys are ok to me. Sure there are some who may be awkward or childish in their thinking but they are men afterall, they may change after settling down, I have known a few good examples . A man can still be desired after age 40 and can still father a child. My own father is a good example. He looks like someone in his 30s although he may be over 50 now. Yah he gets glances by women my age in their 20s ect.
And the guys should stop complaining on how women are materialictic ect. Maybe they will not find u as bad as they perceive u to be.
In other countries i have seen couples who became high school sweethearts married and setttled down later. But seldom can we see such a trend here?This could be the best time to find a partner dont u think? ...during school days.
So u guys and gals here hook up and be happy. Life is short. Enjoy it rather than complaining about it. -
get a life instead of posting such useless thread.
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This thread might turn into a gender bashing flamefest...
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i don't see the point of this thread...
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why not? the person here is telling us to go for BGR during our school days like maybe secondary. but how many will work?Originally posted by starblue:i don't see the point of this thread... -
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I recently got "un-attached" again.. so i'm single.
one of my frens said, go find another lar!
i was like.. ok, i'll just go to the ATM machine and press another "her" out... gimme a moment please?
i'm trying to say it's not that simple. having said that, perhaps you might wanna share with me your situation? i mean, do u have a high school sweetheart you're married to, and all your friends are married or attached happily for a long time and didn't really have problems with being bastard men or materialistic women?
pls share, i hope i didn't come across as challenging you, i mean if u have good stories to tell, it's a refreshing change, honestly!
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Singapore? only bad stories. recently i went to jurong point, saw a couple with a group of the guy friends. the girl was like only 16 plus, look very slutty wear tube, put make up, the guy also very young, navie and innocent looking trying to gel up his hair to match the girl, quite handsome.Originally posted by jOhO:I recently got "un-attached" again.. so i'm single.
one of my frens said, go find another lar!
i was like.. ok, i'll just go to the ATM machine and press another "her" out... gimme a moment please?
i'm trying to say it's not that simple. having said that, perhaps you might wanna share with me your situation? i mean, do u have a high school sweetheart you're married to, and all your friends are married or attached happily for a long time and didn't really have problems with being bastard men or materialistic women?
pls share, i hope i didn't come across as challenging you, i mean if u have good stories to tell, it's a refreshing change, honestly!
most of the guy's friends oogling at her, then i tell my friend, this is potential vixen, when a better, richer guy come along and she will go, damn sad for the guy, may even see his post in AA.
most of the girl whom i known have looks, tell me that they will prefer some1 who have car but when they say they prefer means thay must have. In singapore, no car, no beautiful girls. At the same time, single middle aged man turn to foreign brides as wifes. -
There's a saying...Originally posted by GaLtwenty:... because as u know women have a limited lifespan in a male's world. u can only look as good by age 35 and once u hit 30, men may not be attracted as much to u as to a younger girl if they know your age. As guys now are getting increasingly sophisticated Am not realli trying to bash women on this but i think local guys are ok to me. Sure there are some who may be awkward or childish in their thinking but they are men afterall, they may change after settling down, I have known a few good examples . A man can still be desired after age 40 and can still father a child. My own father is a good example. He looks like someone in his 30s although he may be over 50 now. Yah he gets glances by women my age in their 20s ect.
Women...
@ 20: like soccer ball, every guy would go after them.
@ 30: like ping-pong ball, we guys can't wait to hit to the others.
@ 40: Hah! like Golf ball, have to hit far far away mann!!
cheerios!
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i agree with uOriginally posted by heavenlyfire:Singapore? only bad stories. recently i went to jurong point, saw a couple with a group of the guy friends. the girl was like only 16 plus, look very slutty wear tube, put make up, the guy also very young, navie and innocent looking trying to gel up his hair to match the girl, quite handsome.
most of the guy's friends oogling at her, then i tell my friend, this is potential vixen, when a better, richer guy come along and she will go, damn sad for the guy, may even see his post in AA.
most of the girl whom i known have looks, tell me that they will prefer some1 who have car but when they say they prefer means thay must have. In singapore, no car, no beautiful girls. At the same time, single middle aged man turn to foreign brides as wifes. -
Hmm..
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Well... At least his tread seems quite neutral compared to the others...