Cannot have babies, how???
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Well...maybe this is a topic tooooo serious, but just wondering....
Guys out there, What happens if your wife or wife to be cannot conceive?? Will u divorce or break the marriage proposal??
Me wondering.....anyone care to share their thoughts??
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Just bring her to a doctor lor. What's the problem? Must divorce?Originally posted by Texcoco:Well...maybe this is a topic tooooo serious, but just wondering....
Guys out there, What happens if your wife or wife to be cannot conceive?? Will u divorce or break the marriage proposal??
Me wondering.....anyone care to share their thoughts??
Nowadays got many good doctors. If you want, I can recommend. Western doc or chinese sinseh, I have contacts for both. Very good one, got good testimonies from their patients. -
break off or divorce?
you HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!
marrying someone you love, or a baby-making machine??
there is always adoption... so much love to give, so much love needed to be received by babies who need it most... -
how about going for testubes babies? infertility can easily be solve with mordern technology, no problem.Originally posted by Honeybunz:Just bring her to a doctor lor. What's the problem? Must divorce?
Nowadays got many good doctors. If you want, I can recommend. Western doc or chinese sinseh, I have contacts for both. Very good one, got good testimonies from their patients.
second, depend on whether guy or women cannot, can ask for donor to donate sperm or egg.
third, last resorted, adopted a child.. -
just go see a doc.
if there's nothing the doc can do then maybe it's god's will, why break up? -
this topic came up when i was talkin to nel once...Originally posted by the Bear:break off or divorce?
you HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!
marrying someone you love, or a baby-making machine??
there is always adoption... so much love to give, so much love needed to be received by babies who need it most...
we both agreed to adopt.. tho he said he'd rather it be just us 2 -
parenthood.. it's so wonderful
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if this effect your marriage ..then u r marry her just to bear kids only ..not love.
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hi darling, can we...*ahem* to make little crocos?Originally posted by Honeybunz:Just bring her to a doctor lor. What's the problem? Must divorce?
Nowadays got many good doctors. If you want, I can recommend. Western doc or chinese sinseh, I have contacts for both. Very good one, got good testimonies from their patients. -
Nelly is mineOriginally posted by shinta:this topic came up when i was talkin to nel once...
we both agreed to adopt.. tho he said he'd rather it be just us 2
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GayOriginally posted by sgboy2004:Nelly is mine -
testube babies very ex... not 100% also..
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adopt
there're enough unwanted babies in the world to go around
why bring another life into this world to suffer... -
Not absolutely true....Originally posted by VampireEB:if this effect your marriage ..then u r marry her just to bear kids only ..not love.
After marriage for years..u start to see friends around u bearing childrens...they assume the familyhood status...but yours still remain only a marriage...yours is still not a family.. U start to shun gaterings...reluctant to appear for their baby shower...loathe attending family functions when elders ask u when are yours coming... u struggle to give a smile...suggesting soon...excusing saying too expensive to raise kids now....procastinating to the future...lying u still want to enjoy the wonderful life of just the 2 of u.
And the reality is that 1 in 5 singapore couples can't conceive... -
the terrible thing is that other people do not mind their own business and keep asking when you will have children..
i think it's insensitive and children should be up to the couple and the couple only..
oh well...
if cannot have babies, i always think: adopt!
lots of children need love.. their parents probably couldn't handle the responsibility or have the ability to bring up the child, let those who want to and can do it..
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sometimes i feel..it coiuld be a generation thing. Our parents time...it was much "easier" to bear kids..
There wasn't so much stress..less distraction...Even TV programmes did not telecast 24hrs.. mums was most probably a housewife...while dad was the sole breadwinner...Now all that has changed ..i feel it is related -
problem solved =)Originally posted by Honeybunz:Just bring her to a doctor lor. What's the problem? Must divorce?
Nowadays got many good doctors. If you want, I can recommend. Western doc or chinese sinseh, I have contacts for both. Very good one, got good testimonies from their patients. -
people are working too hard, living too fast, too stressed...
and everything...
to "be competitive"...
what are we being competitive for?
somewhere along the line, someone took a stupid economist's equation too seriously... when he said that his formula for the economy works only if we take out the human factor...
notice we're doing all we can for the economy.. and humanity is lost along the way...
the tv keeps asking us what we want for singapore in the future...
i want singaporeans to wake up, and remember to stop and smell the roses occasionally.. and not to give up their humanity for the rat race.. we are not rats.. -
my friend tried everything.Originally posted by m)phosis:testube babies very ex... not 100% also..
spent lots of money but in vain. -
u totally miss the mark...Originally posted by Texcoco:Well...maybe this is a topic tooooo serious, but just wondering....
Guys out there, What happens if your wife or wife to be cannot conceive?? Will u divorce or break the marriage proposal??
Me wondering.....anyone care to share their thoughts??
if u wana marry a woman just to make babies... tell u... alot of maids and vietnamese woman are dying for you... -
Yup this is the cruel reality affected many marriages.. i agreed.. many settled down in order to make babies and created a family but in vain..Originally posted by activator:Not absolutely true....
After marriage for years..u start to see friends around u bearing childrens...they assume the familyhood status...but yours still remain only a marriage...yours is still not a family.. U start to shun gaterings...reluctant to appear for their baby shower...loathe attending family functions when elders ask u when are yours coming... u struggle to give a smile...suggesting soon...excusing saying too expensive to raise kids now....procastinating to the future...lying u still want to enjoy the wonderful life of just the 2 of u.
And the reality is that 1 in 5 singapore couples can't conceive...
Simply becoz they wasted alot of times making $$$, clubbing and enjoying .. n then hahaha ..the production factory gotta covered wif cobweb .. -
Made babies is not to just to anybody.Originally posted by mach10:u totally miss the mark...
if u wana marry a woman just to make babies... tell u... alot of maids and vietnamese woman are dying for you...
Is the one he/she love. -
Originally posted by sgboy2004:Nelly is mine
my one!! -
Originally posted by SBS9828X:Gay
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Originally posted by Texcoco:Well...maybe this is a topic tooooo serious, but just wondering....
Guys out there, What happens if your wife or wife to be cannot conceive?? Will u divorce or break the marriage proposal??
Me wondering.....anyone care to share their thoughts??
the gift of child-bearing is something which is given and cant be forced... itz not a wife's fault for not being able to bear children or have children who have medical cond...
so i say it does not warrant a divorce...