What if your girlfriend/boyfriend is not a virgin?

• Texcoco

  23 Jul 05, 17:24

  Let say one day,your girlfriend/boyfriend told you that she/he's not a virgin anymore.What will you do?
  Please give some interesting comments
• nameuser

  24 Jul 05, 00:46

  since im a guy, let's just talk about the gf part: i believe that a guy will only know if his gf is a virgin or not only when they are making out. If i really like or love(i feel that "love" is the later stage of "like") my gf, however, thru some means if i happen to find out that she is no longer a virgin, i will definitely be affected in some ways.
  
  Although most guys, nowadays, do not assume that their gfs were virgins when they picked them up in the first place, but i believe that subconsiously they believed and hoped that they were. So base on this assumption, if i find out that my gf had lost her virginity to someone else(or more) b4 she met me , in my heart she will definitely lose points and i might not treat her with too much respect as i definitely would if she were still a virgin. I believe that nowadays most youngsters or pple do not regard viginity and chasity as important as compared to the past....in fact some might even be mock at by peers if he or she is still a virgin. Im born in a typical conservative family, so i think that most of u guys will think that im very old-fashion. When it comes to sexual intercourse, i feel that it will always be the female (assuming no STDs involved) who will be at the losing end, regardless of who initiated it first. If a woman chooses to lose her virginity to someone (assuming to someone who will not be her future husband, but to someone whom she just wants to have a fling with or to someone who makes her feel horny) b4 marriage, to a certain extent, her moral values is definitely in doubt. One characteristic of a woman who truely respects herself is: To offer her body ( virginity or "first time") to her hushand in their first wedding night.
  
  i've never had a single gf for the past 20 over yrs so the above are just based on what i CURRENTLY feel..
  
  P.S. 1) to pple (especially to ladies) out there, im not against those who sleep around b4 marriage. Although i only emphasise on females....there are also males who sleep around..pls do not START A WAR GENDER......EVERYTHING STATED ABOVE IS PURELY SUBJECTIVE...i do not represent the majority.
  
  2) Everyone has different opinions on something. Pls do not zap me if i've offended u guys.
  
  regards
• Patrik

  24 Jul 05, 00:53

  Its so common.
  Nowadays,how much is virginity worth to the youngsters ?
  
• Honeybunz

  24 Jul 05, 00:53

  Originally posted by Texcoco:

  Let say one day,your girlfriend/boyfriend told you that she/he's not a virgin anymore.What will you do?
  Please give some interesting comments

  
  
  
  IF MY BOYFRIEND IS NOT A VIRGIN, I WILL BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN AND HE LIED ABOUT IT, ONCE I FIND OUT, HE WILL BE A DEAD MEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  
  
  
• Texcoco

  24 Jul 05, 01:07

  Originally posted by Honeybunz:
  
  
  
  
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  IF MY BOYFRIEND IS NOT A VIRGIN, I WILL BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN AND HE LIED ABOUT IT, ONCE I FIND OUT, HE WILL BE A DEAD MEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  
  
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• kopiosatu

  24 Jul 05, 01:08

  doesn't matter to me.
• SMAPLionHeart

  24 Jul 05, 01:10

  Originally posted by Honeybunz:
  
  
  
  
  [b]
  IF MY BOYFRIEND IS NOT A VIRGIN, I WILL BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN AND HE LIED ABOUT IT, ONCE I FIND OUT, HE WILL BE A DEAD MEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  
  
  [/b]

  woah crazy ar!!
  
  
• G.I. Lim

  24 Jul 05, 01:11

  i totally agree with nameuser
• the Bear

  24 Jul 05, 01:14

  one word: so?
  
  p.s. re-read... what do you mean by "anymore"?
• margarita

  24 Jul 05, 01:15

  Originally posted by Honeybunz:
  
  
  
  
  [b]
  IF MY BOYFRIEND IS NOT A VIRGIN, I WILL BREAK UP WITH HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  IF HE IS NOT A VIRGIN AND HE LIED ABOUT IT, ONCE I FIND OUT, HE WILL BE A DEAD MEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  
  
  
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  I m still a V. brand new never used b4. Can i b yor bf?
  
  how do u know whether he is V or not V?
• SMAPLionHeart

  24 Jul 05, 01:19

  Originally posted by margarita:

  I m still a V. brand new never used b4. Can i b yor bf?
  
  how do u know whether he is V or not V?

  Are you planning to give your virginity to Killer Boss?
  
  Must see if she willing to accept anot...
  
  
  
  
• kingofbeholder

  24 Jul 05, 01:20

  10 years ago..my friend ask me are there still VIRGIN in singapore?
  
  i answer YES, all now lining-up hand to hand at primary school now.
  
  now..my friend ask me are there still VIRGIN in singapore?
  
  i answer YES, you might stand half chance if you now run to primary school,because the rate of virgin droping every minute.
• Lethargic@@

  24 Jul 05, 01:20

  
• margarita

  24 Jul 05, 01:20

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  Are you planning to give your virginity to Killer Boss?
  
  Must see if she willing to accept anot...
  
  
  
  

  oops .. forgot to ask is she a V. if not i dun want ..
• Honeybunz

  24 Jul 05, 01:26

  Originally posted by margarita:

  I m still a V. brand new never used b4. Can i b yor bf?
  
  how do u know whether he is V or not V?

  see whether he has sex got blood or not
• margarita

  24 Jul 05, 01:28

  Originally posted by Honeybunz:

  see whether he has sex got blood or not

  
• SMAPLionHeart

  24 Jul 05, 01:36

  Originally posted by Honeybunz:

  see whether he has sex got blood or not

  me got
  i lost it when she cut it off
  
• margarita

  24 Jul 05, 01:44

  Originally posted by SMAPLionHeart:

  me got
  i lost it when she cut it off
  

  so u ah gua now? so poor thing ..
• the Bear

  24 Jul 05, 01:45

  a eunuch different from ah gua
  
  

  Originally posted by margarita:

  so u ah gua now? so poor thing ..

• margarita

  24 Jul 05, 01:49

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  a eunuch different from ah gua
  
  

  i feel so sorry 4 u .. SMAP
• coffeeortea

  24 Jul 05, 02:27

  probably means you did her even without yourself knowing
  
• caleb_chiang

  24 Jul 05, 02:27

  Originally posted by Honeybunz:

  see whether he has sex got blood or not

  That seems to be the most ridiculas theory that one would have...