Beware of this conman
Hey ladies,this 2yrs had been a very bad year for me, due to the death of my bf late 2002(heartattack),i joined the Singaporecupid.com hoping to find new friends and so that i can forget about my pain and get on with my life. 2wks later a guy by the name of Edwin Tang Boon Hiap(nephew of CKTANGS) started to email me, after less than a week asking for my contact and started talking on the phone.He lied to me saying he pray to god 5 times a day, and everyday he will deliver food to poor ppl's home kind of bullshit.When we finally met, he was just a average looking guy.I told him later we can only be friends as there's no chemistry between the 2 of us.At that point of time, i actually got a loan from my offshore bank and wanted to venture into some biz ,after hearing that, he immediately con me into loaning him 45k saying that his Indonesian partners not in town but he needed money to buy car accessories as his client are chasing for the stocks.He promised he will repay me the next mth.Me out of gdwill loan him the money,the payment of course didn't come back,he drags and drags, alot of cock and bull stories came instead,father sick ,mother sick,sister divorcing.He lied and lied and very gd stories teller,even get the "mad lawyer" Ravi (as publish on the newspaper) to draft me a letter saying his father owed me the money instead.I still didn't suspect anything until 9 mths later 1 fine day, i suddenly decide to do a bankrupt chk on his status. i was very very devastated,i almost died i tell u,he was already a bankrupt be4 we even met.So i lodge a complaint with his official assignee,and was told he will have to go to jail as it is a very serious offence.Anyway he begged and promised to repay me saying he will use his cpf to buy a HDB flat using the cashback(illegal)method to repay me, i waited until for 9mths,i started to realised HDB only take 3mths to complete the whole selling and buying procedure(very gullible and dumb?).By then it was too late he was suddenly sent to jail for 2 mths due to a guy who the same kind of victim like me lodge a complaint to his OA and action was taken. I almost died of that again,i wrote him a letter to the jail and threaten to take legal action against him and so he won't have to be release so soon. But he replied me by telling me was under going chapel counselling there and asking me not to report him as he has repent and will settle my debt immediately after his release in OCt and will come out and touch every1's heart!!! On hearing that i decided to give him a chance to repent.But instead of contacting me,he went MIA!!! He is unreachable now,and i am working with my lawyer to reopen his case and that and will make him a second time bankrupt and hope he will go to jail again, and now the bank is chasing me to repay them the money, i am really in deep shit! so ladies out there, beware of this ******* you could be his next target...if whoever know his contact pls alert me Last but not least, i have found a new man after the death of my last bf and will be getting married next y.He is a very loving and caring and very very supportive person,we are going thru these setback together so i am not alone anymore, and i m very glad that we had found each other Hope i didn't bore u gals with my story
Somehow I don't really understand why ppl fall for it. Don't get me wrong. I do feel sorry for such victims. I am just wondering whether con man like this is really so convincing in their sad stories that women tend to fall into it.
Once upon a time, one guy tried that. He even tried to con me into buying him a very expensive handphone (almost $1000) by talking about it every day and night. In the end... I bought it for myself. I stopped talking to him totally.
One year later, he tried calling me but I refused to pick up the phone. He tried calling a few times and sms me to say want to catch up. If I ever pick up his call by mistake, I will probably greet him with "Forget it. I'm broke now!"
The other time, another guy tried to do that also, by telling me to use my Personal Credit to pay for his credit card and he will pay me back every month. I told him,"My pay is less than $2000. I don't have Personal Credit A/c. I cannot help you." Then I went to tell his ex gf "Why your ex bf like that one ah?" Then his ex gf said "Wa lao. I feel like spitting at him now"