Do you think its morally right to do this?

• Ayukat

  3 Aug 05, 20:24

  Lets say... a married couple...
  
  Then they got 2 children 1 boy and 1 girl...
  
  Then one day the parents divorced...
  
  The father got the girl.
  
  The mother got the boy.
  
  Its not like the father did them wrong.
  
  Just that the mother very guai lan.
  
  Then shortly after... the mother remarried.
  
  Then the mother went to change a new name for the son... surname and everything...
  
  
  
  No wonder people keep saying behind their backs... his mother is a bitch...
• Ayukat

  3 Aug 05, 20:26

  I think the mother ran away with the other guy...
• sgboy2004

  3 Aug 05, 20:26

  legally it can be done...
  
  morally, ...hmm, does the kid knows what was happening?
• Ayukat

  3 Aug 05, 20:26

  Tat time my friend Sec 2 nia...
• caleb_chiang

  3 Aug 05, 20:27

  morally right in which aspects?
  
  change name or people calling names?
  
  
• sgboy2004

  3 Aug 05, 20:28

  Originally posted by Ayukat:

  Tat time my friend Sec 2 nia...

  so her surname was changed...
  
  Does she agree to it?
• Ayukat

  3 Aug 05, 20:29

  Originally posted by caleb_chiang:

  morally right in which aspects?
  
  change name or people calling names?
  
  

  Change name lah...
  
  Cos I thinking... the mother run away with other man her business lah...why drag the son down...
• Ayukat

  3 Aug 05, 20:33

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  so her surname was changed...
  
  Does she agree to it?

  This is what they say lor...
  
  His mother very hard to get along with...
  
  Actually can see lah... I remember during Sec 1... which my was the lowest period for their family... my friend keep saying he has to go home early to help his mother and even forsaken his projects...
  
  I think his mother is those psycho type bah... those... I cannot live without my son... I cannot live without my son... Leave me...and I will kill myself...those type...
  
  But he did say his new dad treated them very well...
  
  But I actually pity his original father more...
  
  Luckily my friend is the fillial type... mother before anything else... I think recently he broke up with his GF becos of his mother....
• alexkusu

  3 Aug 05, 20:36

  u mean issit morally right to change the name? well, wen the kid grow up, can opt to change the name also right?
• dragg

  3 Aug 05, 20:51

  if the mother is so bad, why didnt the father fight for custody?
  
  
• Mr Fugue

  3 Aug 05, 20:53

  Originally posted by dragg:

  if the mother is so bad, why didnt the father fight for custody?

  some possibilities:
  
  no money to file legal suit
  
  fight alreadi, but didn't win.
• iveco

  3 Aug 05, 20:56

  What happened to the girl? Deprived of motherly love? Are the 2 siblings still in contact with each other.
  
  Off topic: recently, TNP reported on 5 siblings split up because their parents decided to separate. Poor thing.
• Ayukat

  3 Aug 05, 21:04

  Originally posted by iveco:

  What happened to the girl? Deprived of motherly love? Are the 2 siblings still in contact with each other.
  
  Off topic: recently, TNP reported on 5 siblings split up because their parents decided to separate. Poor thing.

  Still in contact I think...but very little... not sure...
  
  But then...if I know my friend, he choose to stick with his mother lah... Cos he SUPER FILLIAL to his mother....
  
  If me, I WILL NEVER DITCH MY GIRLFRIEND JUST BECAUSE PARENTS OBJECT.
• ditzy

  3 Aug 05, 21:59

  There is no morally right or wrong. Only for you to decide right or wrong, no morally.