my 21 years old friend have a 14 years old girlfriend
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if a couple is to be of 7 years in age differences, in this case a 21 years old guy and a 14 years old girl. the girl must be mature in behavour and thinking, or the guy must be one big kid.
can't imgine a mature 21 years old guy dating a silly school girl.
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yes... its the mindset. i mean it's funny when you guys are out dating and suddenly she ask you to help her in her sec 2 maths homework... just funny.Originally posted by Gordonator:if a couple is to be of 7 years in age differences, in this case a 21 years old guy and a 14 years old girl. the girl must be mature in behavour and thinking, or the guy must be one big kid.
can't imgine a mature 21 years old guy dating a silly school girl. -
ur fren is the "long term investment" type.
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or when dating, she dump into her classmates and they starts talking loudly, giggling and jumping around, talking about girly things like hello kitty and stuffs.Originally posted by dibilo:yes... its the mindset. i mean it's funny when you guys are out dating and suddenly she ask you to help her in her sec 2 maths homework... just funny. -
No girls like to be invested in such a wayOriginally posted by mochou:ur fren is the "long term investment" type.
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What if the female is older?
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older by 7 years old? oh my, that's even worst.Originally posted by Lingos:What if the female is older? -
How is that an issue??!! I don't get it.Originally posted by Gordonator:older by 7 years old? oh my, that's even worst. -
one of my close friends (who is also 21 btw) have a gf who is 6 years younger than her (i.e 15 years old)
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the worst thing is....Originally posted by dibilo:yes... its the mindset. i mean it's funny when you guys are out dating and suddenly she ask you to help her in her sec 2 maths homework... just funny.
you forgot all the sec school math liao. -
well, i don agree on a 21 yrs old with a 14 yrs old ger. there are almost 90 % chance that they wun last.. cos i both of them are still very young esp the ger. and some more the ger is underage..
however, if both of them are already adults, let;s say 27 yrs old ger and a 35 yrs old guy, then this is more appropriate. cos both of their thinking should be mature now. -
if the girlfriend is 7 years older than the boyfriend, it will look like a older sister looking after a younger brother. as a man, do u like it if people say this to u.Originally posted by Lingos:How is that an issue??!! I don't get it.
secondly, girls like guys who can give them a sense of security, u think a guy 7 years younger than her can give her that? -
sense of security maybe not, but satisfaction in bed?Originally posted by Gordonator:if the girlfriend is 7 years older than the boyfriend, it will look like a older sister looking after a younger brother. as a man, do u like it if people say this to u.
secondly, girls like guys who can give them a sense of security, u think a guy 7 years younger than her can give her that? -
b sure the girl also serious in this relationship,
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i agree ... im 15 and my bf is 22....also 7 yrs diff.....but we still happy....Originally posted by digicharat:if the guy is 32 and the girl is 25 is accpetable why not a 21 yr guy and a 14 yr girl?
same same 7 yr difference what.
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i think 5 years is the max...
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??whose law?newton's third law or leo-kun 's lawOriginally posted by leo-kun:i think 5 years is the max... -
lol....Originally posted by heavenlyfire:??whose law?newton's third law or leo-kun 's law -
KNN.....21 year old guy with 14 year old girl quite sicko leh.
eh i mean, com'on lah. even if you gimme a 14 year old girl who looks as prettuy as BOA(that korean singer) i also don't want. KNN.....can imagine that anot?
makes all my goose pimples come out also.
got a lot of times i go outside and see those secondary school girls in uniform, laughing so loudly and giggly......KNN.......very put-off loh. gimme this kinda girlfriend i also dumped, but not after i bang-bang lah. KNN. very sick lah.
unless the guy is so baby-face and his character/mentality is like 15 year old boy lah.
besides........KNN.......those 14-year old girls always act-cute one, i tell you. walk also walk like prancing around, talk also talk like flirting with your penis, turn head look at you also turn sideways and let the hair fall one-side.......KNN....
but seriously, for myself, i'm a guy and i quite prefer women 3 - 5 years older than me loh. anyone here got such preferences anot?
not MILF lah, but serious one. -
les...Originally posted by chikopek:one of my close friends (who is also 21 btw) have a gf who is 6 years younger than her (i.e 15 years old)
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A 14 yr old is NOT an adult yet (much as they may wish to consider themselves that). She is a teenager, learning how to make the right decisions so that she can enter adulthood prepared. She does not have the backing of sufficient experience behind her to make the informed choices. That does not mean she is stupid at all - but generally the decisions a 14 yr old makes will not be the same decisions she makes when she is 21. I am not saying girls who are 21 make better choices - but the same girl at 14 and the same girl at 21 would obviously have more life experience to base their decision on.
Most guys at 21 are either preparing to get into university to form a base for a career OR starting on their career path. They are looking forward to a newfound 'man of the world' situation where they learn to be more financially independent, assertive and decisive. I think while men can appreciate beauty and 'cuteness' or personality in girls/women of ANY age, most men in their 20s are looking forward to having a more mature partner who are closer or understand the current life phase they are in.
I reckon a 21 yr old guy who seeks out 14-15 yr old girls to be their soulmates (which I assume what a relationship is about, unless it is purely sexual) are either immature or still thinking like a 15-18 yr old, and not really prepared to move on to their next phase in life. -
backside itchy? want tio rotan?Originally posted by Nikar:KNN.....21 year old guy with 14 year old girl quite sicko leh.
eh i mean, com'on lah. even if you gimme a 14 year old girl who looks as prettuy as BOA(that korean singer) i also don't want. KNN.....can imagine that anot?
makes all my goose pimples come out also.
got a lot of times i go outside and see those secondary school girls in uniform, laughing so loudly and giggly......KNN.......very put-off loh. gimme this kinda girlfriend i also dumped, but not after i bang-bang lah. KNN. very sick lah.
unless the guy is so baby-face and his character/mentality is like 15 year old boy lah.
besides........KNN.......those 14-year old girls always act-cute one, i tell you. walk also walk like prancing around, talk also talk like flirting with your penis, turn head look at you also turn sideways and let the hair fall one-side.......KNN....
but seriously, for myself, i'm a guy and i quite prefer women 3 - 5 years older than me loh. anyone here got such preferences anot?
not MILF lah, but serious one. -
love shouldn't be based on age gap.
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21-14 is not an impossible combination.
If we put it in simple conditions, calculating base on how an average 21 year old makes a decision and how an average 14 year old makes a decision, we can say that it is a bad combination.
Case by case basis. I wouldn't judge them without personally knowing them. You cant really tell whether it's good or bad unless you know them very well.
The thread starter doesn't even give a good description of how they are to even offer a better understanding of their characteristic.
You can't resist the fact that there are many other conditions like their family background, their peers, and other stuff related to them to actually give a more astute judgement on their rs.
It might even be better to ask Mr Fugue whether 8-ball can work to tell us an answer to this question since we only know they are his friends and their ages.