Originally posted by ironoxideman:
...in a relationship?
within my own circle of friends i've never heard of guys ditching their girlfriends,usually my buddies get dumped.
So, i ask on their behalf,
what do girls really want?
Security,fun,excitement,money....
Love?
but love is not something you want from a relationship,it is something that causes you to want a relationship
if you ask me,i dont believe that most females are really in love with their partners.at least not with passion,rather they love in a 'passive manner'.So,when a person they love more comes along,they'd leave their current partner.
Why do i think so?for a simple reason.
They do not initiate the courtship nor will it to happen (in most instances),so how is it possible that they enter a relationship with the person that they really love/love the most?How can you be sure that you,as the boyfriend,is not just somebody that your gf has learnt to love?How can you be sure that you are not merely an acquired taste?
I have a classmate,a few months ago she told me how much she loved her boyfriend,a week ago she said shes single again.And when asked why she doesn't seem affected,she replied,
"i was the one who dumped him"
hmm.i could be wrong,what do you people think?
define the word "love" 1st
different ppl have different definition for it therefore different ppl pursue different tings