should guy be more knowledgeable in a relationship?
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do you all think that guys should be like more resourceful in a relationship?
like... know what to do in certain situation? making decision on matters big or small? got lobang or know where to get for stuff? be more knowledgeable on stuff? -
dun think it shd be the case of who shd be more li hai or wat....
the pair shd be complementing each other
to fill in wat the other partner don't have -
Exactly,just like if you have a hole,you need a screw..If you have money,you need someone to spend it etc..Originally posted by FireIce:dun think it shd be the case of who shd be more li hai or wat....
the pair shd be complementing each other
to fill in wat the other partner don't have
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no one knows everything... r/s is 2 way
but it would be nice where guys do not just give up/give in so easily.
eg:
most guys say : no car, no money -> no honey
This is only true when the guy believes it.
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zho tah boh jin cham...
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then do you all think that guys should know what to do on unexpected situation?
and what about guys who dun have their own mind? like dunno what to do everytime?
and those like anything goes type? or can say a bit bo chup pattern type. -
Well.. He better BE if he's more in a dominant role in the relationship or if he's the MCP type...?Originally posted by digicharat:do you all think that guys should be like more resourceful in a relationship?
like... know what to do in certain situation? making decision on matters big or small? got lobang or know where to get for stuff? be more knowledgeable on stuff?
Then again... The gf also have to be understandig enough in certain ways at least...? -
I guess that would depends on whether a girl would mind to have that sort of guy as a bf...? Generally speaking from my own experience.. MOST females would mind if their bf is like what you've described...?Originally posted by digicharat:then do you all think that guys should know what to do on unexpected situation?
and what about guys who dun have their own mind? like dunno what to do everytime?
and those like anything goes type? or can say a bit bo chup pattern type.
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to me hor......the answer is
OF cos.....
i would prefer my guy to be better and with more knowledge THAN me!!! YES!!!
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Me too...Originally posted by cindtan29:to me hor......the answer is
OF cos.....
i would prefer my guy to be better and with more knowledge THAN me!!! YES!!!
But he shouldn't mock at me when i am lacking in certain areas... -
yes i agree..... at the same time.....must be willing to share and teach!Originally posted by timble:Me too...
But he shouldn't mock at me when i am lacking in certain areas... -
haha.......some girls tend to say to let their guys make decisions...but then whenever he makes one, she'll complained...say this no good say that no good...in the end, she made the decision to go where n do what.......
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hmmm..yalar i agree....some girls say say nia...but in the end...end up still they make the decision....Originally posted by dcx:haha.......some girls tend to say to let their guys make decisions...but then whenever he makes one, she'll complained...say this no good say that no good...in the end, she made the decision to go where n do what.......
hahha...but for me hor...i wld prefer my guy to make all the decision so i no nid to think too much mah....and i lub to follow the wishes from my guy wor.....
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haha...sometimes it's the case whereby whenever a guy makes a decision, his girl'll not be happy with the decisions he made....so, the guy's relunctant to make decision in any case she's not happy abt it....Originally posted by cindtan29:hmmm..yalar i agree....some girls say say nia...but in the end...end up still they make the decision....
hahha...but for me hor...i wld prefer my guy to make all the decision so i no nid to think too much mah....and i lub to follow the wishes from my guy wor.....
which guy dun wan her girl to listen to him n follow him??? but then, seems like in this modern society, not many of such girls can be found....
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Think not neccessary that guys must be all that... there are cases when the gals are all that...
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I think generally its easier to have a partner who is DECISIVE
not necessary MUST make all the decisions
but it's just very frustrating to deal with wishy washy people ba
and it's good to feel your partner is not a pushover
and not everytime kenna bullied lah!
as for resourceful... i think its a fallacy. Unless the girl is very dependent
or else... it goes into the... when the girl is telling you a problem
she just want you to LISTEN... not SOLVE it for her.
I think even for guy, unless you are a very very MCP guy
if EVERYTHING your girl expect you to do for her, solve for her...or stand up for her, or decide for her
after some time also sian right? -
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x2.Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:I think generally its easier to have a partner who is DECISIVE
not necessary MUST make all the decisions
but it's just very frustrating to deal with wishy washy people ba
and it's good to feel your partner is not a pushover
and not everytime kenna bullied lah!
as for resourceful... i think its a fallacy. Unless the girl is very dependent
or else... it goes into the... when the girl is telling you a problem
she just want you to LISTEN... not SOLVE it for her.
I think even for guy, unless you are a very very MCP guy
if EVERYTHING your girl expect you to do for her, solve for her...or stand up for her, or decide for her
after some time also sian right?